How often do guys have casual sex?

I just noticed that it's hard to get an average number since the guys are really split in 2 groups. It's like the one group (biggest group) almost never gets laid casually while some guys get laid a lot. I think a lot of girls have had casual sex and it's more varried and spread out in numbers. But with guys it's like only a few get it all and the others don't. If I look at myself and all the girls I know, when they had a casual fuck, it was very often with the same couple guys. Those guys I've had casual sex with were the ones that did it almost on a weekly basis and to be honest, they weren't even nice or put a lot of efford in seducing me. They just seem to sexually attract all the girls, even if those girls know they just want to empty their balls in them. I know most people say this alpha/beta male thing is bullshit, but I don't know what else to call this. It's just a fact that I notice so clearly that I can't say it any different. Does anayone have a different experience? ps: I don't expect the most psychological/biological answer. Say whatever you noticed about this.
Never :(
Vote A
Happened once, when I was lucky...
Vote B
every couple years I score!
Vote C
I pick up a girl two three times a year, a man gotta bust every now and then
Vote D
every month I score some some pussy!
Vote E
Got a girl on my dick on a weekly basis. Just too easy!
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ps: fucking your girlfriend is not casual sex. Just wanted to point that out.
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  • I know this might be hard to believe but most guys are not into casual sex, apart from the fact that us guys care about where we stick our cocks, yes no matter what a guy says if he is sober then he cares where his cock goes, a guy doesn't want to be putting his cock where many have gone so freely before, now don't get me wrong that doesn't mean we don't like sex it just means no matter how easy a guy acts most of the time he would like to know the person he is fucking, that is one reason there is a big gap between the amount of guys who fuck anything with a pulse and the guys with self respect

    • The thing is , the guys I know that score a lot, never just bang some ugly, easy slut. They bang the girls every guy dreams of, and many of them. If a girl is not good enough for them, they refuse.

    • So just because a guy is good looking and is fussy about the girl he fucks doesn't mean he has any self respect, don't get me wrong having fun is great but one needs to be careful, to be honest the worse ones out of that situation are the females, it is clear that the guy is happy to get his dick out, and clear he doesn't care who he sticks it in as long as she is good looking, I am sure he doesn't care what he passes on to those girls too, if they are foolish enough to let these guys stick their cocks into them knowing the type of guy they are and not knowing where that cock was last, the deserve what they get, yhey should have a little bit of self respect too

    • Girls are always on here asking questions like will i look like a slut if or will guys not like me if, guys are the same, most of the time worse, some guys will stick their cock in anything no matter the danger and are happy to stick it ontothe next girl willing to open her legs.

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  • Interesting question. I also see that it is a few guys who get all the girls. One fried of mine in particular deserves his documentary. He gets girls quicker than you will see in any James Bond movie. He walks in and girls jump in his arms. Literately.

    I am sadly the exact opposite. I'm just terrible with women while (I think) I am very respectful with women. They like me. Sometimes a lot. But some bad boy will jump in the last minute and away she goes.

    So I never have casual sex. When I have sex the girl becomes my girlfriend. I vote B

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  • I'm in neither group. I only have sex with girls im dating. Period.

  • Never :). It doesn't appeal to me. I'm too paranoid to have sex with girls I don't know and trust (STD and pregnancy fears), and I have high self esteem so I like to keep it exclusive--they have to be worth it. To me sex is the culmination of a well-progressing relationship. The cherry on top. It's not something I want to jump to quickly.

  • I haven't noticed a few guys having most of the casual sex. I also noticed you used the word "get" (all the casual sex) as if all guys are seeking it.

  • maybe once a year. It really sucks because what I really want is a long term relationship.

  • Have in the past, don't now. An orgasm is not worth the emotional investment unless I want a relationship beyond a ONS.

  • That alpha male thing is definitely not bs. There are guys out there who are every girls dream physically, like guys who pretty much appeal to EVERY girl.

    Those guys are the ones choosing from the line of chicks wanting to bang them.

    I'm in the "just enough" group. I'm by no means drowning in pussy, but I get just enough to avoid wanting to kill myself.

    • I voted E, which really isn't much at all.

  • Less than you would think. Most men lie. Obviously I get it everyday

  • it really is as you said. most guys are lucky to find a gf--a small percent of us can literally get hookups off websites with 20 mins of work.

    80/20 rule. 20% of guys get 80% of female attention.

    • I honestly think its more of a 10/90 situation. But yeah I think the same as you.

    • it really is something like that. my brother and i are a good example... i can literally get casual hookups hotter than his dates. we're brothers, but I'm a medium build 5'10 and he's a slim 5'6.

  • I've never had sex, period. So, casual sex? Not so much.

  • İ like sex And group sex blowjob And doggy style :)

    • well that was a helpful answer... How old are you?

    • İ am 23 :) And i like sex too much :) i have a big dick

    • ow god

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  • I've never had casual sex and don't plan to.
    I'm self cautious of what I might look like nude in front of a random chick so I hope that once I get close to someone romantically speaking, they could over look or even learn to enjoy things I'm rather embarrassed about.

  • Im a virgin so voted A