Guys, why is it such a big deal to you for a girl to buy a dildoe?

My guy is always asking me if I bought a dildoe yet. I also recently told him I was invited to a sex toy party and he said "do it" so that was a big deal to him too. Why are both of these things such a big deal to a guy?
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I probably should have been more clear. He wants me to get a dildoe that's why he keeps asking cause I keep delaying.
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  • When I was with my ex we had a Fantasia party and bought toys n stuff. Playing together with toys is fun. It allways was a turn on when she would play with toys.
    Mutual masturbation.
    Again at the same time i allways got turned on just hearing if she played on days I was not home.
    My next gf would go masturbate in bed while I was on the couch. When she came she would call me in to show me the squirt on the bed between her legs. Huge turn on. Then I would go down and give her oral to start. Big excitement using toys or having a gf that does.
    I think you would enjoy toys personally. Better then just fingers

  • You are thinking of it as a toy for private masturbation. He's thinking of watching you use the dildo on yourself or perhaps he uses it on you.

    • You sound so sure of yourself haha.

    • I bought my wife a glass dildo as a present for her birthday this January. We celebrated by using it on her. So yes, I know of which I speak. Suprised that your guy has not made that move for himself.

    • He might be thinking it but I gotta buy a dildoe first which he keeps asking me about.

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  • I'd actually prefer that she not buy a dildo. I'd rather her let me satisfy her whenever she needed it, unless maybe we used it during sex.

    As for the sex party... unless it was all girls, and she is 100% straight, she can forget about it.

    • This is an all girls sex toy party and I'm 100% straight. Lpl

    • Lol*

    • In that case I'd be fine if she went. But if she owned a dildo, and used it frequently instead of asking me for sex, I'd be pretty insecure.

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  • It's hot to know that you pet the kitty. It's very hot to know a woman is sexual. A lot of women play the prude. That is one of the most dreaded things for any honest guy, to wind up in a ltr or marriage with a woman who either ceases to put out, very rarely puts out or is extremely prudish in sex. Your being open about masturbating is very sexy because that really reduces the chances that you are one of those women. That and it is sexy as hell to watch a woman pleasure herself. Soooooo hot!!!

    • What is it?

    • Sorry typo. What is itr?

    • LTR long term relationship.

  • He doesn't want something bigger inside you lol

    • I probably should have been more clear. He wants me to get a dildoe that's why he keeps asking cause I keep delaying.

  • I don't care as long as it is not 2 or 3 inches bigger than me. Would make me feel like I'm not vetting the job done.

  • Lets just say I rather not know what she does in her happy time or when. Just as she would probably not care how much I have happy times and when.

  • The only issue I have with sex toys is if my girl bought one that was bigger than me. I would feel a little insecure

  • It's definitely not to me, she can do what she wants