Guys, what do you mean when you call a girl hot? If you think a girl is hot, does that mean that you approve of the whole package? Is it more body?

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If you think a girl is hot, does that mean sexually attractive but not necessarily relationship material? Maybe could turn into that but it's mostly lust? If you think someone is hot, and she'll have sex with you, do you care about things like stretch marks, oddly shaped boobs, moles, muffin tops, scars or all the stuff that females are insecure about? Or doesn't it matter if you're getting some?

Amagi82 · Accepted Answer

"Hot" generally refers to physical appearance. It means she's physically very attractive. She may or may not be attractive in other ways (intelligence, personality, etc). For most people, I know within less than a tenth of a second if I'd be up for sex with them, at least physically, and nothing can turn a no into a yes, though plenty of things can turn a yes into a no.

Do I care about imperfections? yes and no. I find what women get insecure about tends to have little in common with what I care about. Some imperfections are charming or attractive. Scars, for instance, can be really hot. I'm also highly unlikely to be bothered by moles or boob shape. Being overweight, though, specifically when you get muffin top or that crease below the belly, instantly kills my attraction. I didn't get a choice there- it's just what I'm attracted to.

KäseChäe · Accepted Answer

If she's hot, it could just be lust, that's mostly what it is for me. But that's not to say she can't also have a good personality by any means. A great body, and pretty face makes you hot. It's not one or the other. If I'm having sex with her, chances are I have my own insecurities to worry, so she's hotter than me regardless of her little scars and marks etc. It doesn't bother me at all.

DonkeyKong1979 · Answer

Hot tends to be purely a visual thing, whereas 'sexy' is the whole package, looks, how she walks, how she talks, what she's into, etc.

But no 'hot' does not mean relationship material. For example there are plenty of girls in my building at work in their early 20's who are definitely 'hot' but I woukdn't want to date someone 15 years younger than me...

thelanatellama · Answer

If a guy says that someone is "hot" it generally means that they're physically attractive. Not to say that they aren't relationship matterial but it's more of a comment about looks

bryon · Answer

It doesn't say anything about their personality , just appearance

Mesonfielde · Answer

Imperfections do matter, people claim freckles are imperfections but I think it makes people look cute and therefore more attractive

NYkid27 · Answer

Usually when I call a girl hot I'm just talking about her body. When I call a girl beautiful or gorgeous I mean the whole package, including her personality

BobbyBrown23 · Answer

Hot is referring to the body.

WitchKing · Answer

Its more body than the whole package, but if i get off good, its alright

TheDisneylandSlasher · Answer

My favorite barmaid is a stunning hottie and i like her personality as well; she is everything i want in a woman. But am dead to her with my omega male status. Sometimes i can't wait to die.