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Guys can you cum from rubbing your penis against your gfs vagina without going inside ( both naked)?

I'm just curious bc me and my bc have been doing this basically since we started dating were waiting till Marriage at his request which I'm fine with bc I'm totally satisfied with our " sex life". Of course we do a lot of other things that get us off ghat are not sex but I like the rubbing the best by far bc things in missionary position regardless if who's on top just feels amazing and close and I don't know I guess it's like the position with the most bang for your buck. It's every sense being stimulated at once and bonus it's like sex bu never hurts and can't get pregnant. Anyhow lost of the time I see guys saying they'll do it as foreplay or like in he but it doesn't feel great for the guy and it's frustrating bc he can get blue balls. My bf definitely absolutely cums and I know he's just one guy but considering gys can rub against a tree and still cum it's hard to believe they can't rub abasing a warm moist body they are attracted to and cum. Makes me wonder if someone is doing something wrong or if it's just an excuse to demand full on sex ? What's up?
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Were waiting bc he wants to wait. He had a sexual past he felt pressured into feels guilty about. I'm his chance to start over and he wants to share that in marriage. If it were up to him we wouldn't be doing anything at all but seeing as he's the only person I have been with, there's no way I'd be doing nothing. I'm young and I want experience sexual life. And of course we didn't know we'd marry so if course we were sexual without "sex". Now we know and were waiting. Not really "odd" :-)
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  • I don't think I ever have. I suspect it would be possible. I have cum from rubbing between her ass cheeks. She's cum from dry humping, though not in a long while.

    I think the hardest part for many people (male and female) is they have a huge urge to penetrate when doing what you describe. That's pretty much how I first had sex - we were doing that, and SHE really wanted me inside her.

    I suspect if you've never fingered or focused on any internal stimulation, you might not have or be in touch with that urge yet. Not sure if that describes you.

    • i prefer clitoral stimulation over vaginal

    • @missamanda123 Without doing really surveying, I'd guess most popular among women would be clitoral then combined, then clitoral only, then vaginal only. And it's almost not even a 'preference' as much as an urge. I can sit back and say i enjoy chewing delicious food more than i like swallowing it, but when i'm eating something good, my body wants to swallow it, even though that doesn't improve the sensory experience. I think it's a bit like that.

    • When I'm being clitorally stimulated I have no urge to be penetrated by a penis. I want to continue until I orgasm from the clit stimulation

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  • Yes of course, it's some kind of dry humping. The nerves of Penis are still being stimulated so certainly, it'd cumm, yeah late but definitely.
    Don't worry it's normal if done right (and you're doing it right).
    Good luck :) enjoy!

Most Helpful Girls

  • do you use condoms during the rubbing?

    he doesn't have to cum inside to get you pregnant. if he gets any just outside your vagina they can end up inside.

  • Yes, we so that often when we're out of condoms.
    He says it feels really good...

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  • I can’t even imagine how insanely frustrating it would be to come that close to coitus and not just do it. Is the sky man going to be that angry if he just puts it inside?

    To answer your question though, yes it is normal. If a guy gets aroused enough he can cum without anything touching it.

  • sure!!! it's a turn-on basically

  • Yes, it is possible... if you do it for like...6 hours straight. How do you think guys have wet dreams?

  • Yes, if i had a girlfriend that would sound sexy to do

  • yeh i could but the temptaton to go inside would be too much. Thats is the biggest tease in the world, I would do it once or twice but denying entry to the vagina after a while would be unbearable for my penis to comprehend

  • Yup a guy can definitely cum with ANY sexual stimulation... including rubbing his dick on her soft pink velvet without sticking it in!

  • Been there, done that.

  • so you're waiting till marriage for sex yet still do sexual acts such as this which you describe? doesn't make much sense to me :/

  • Oh yes. I used to rub my dick between my gfs butt cheeks in the shower to cum. That was fun!

  • sure we can, but sex is better

  • Heck yeaaaa

  • Ofc.. u can cum from rubbing it against any soft material, why wouldn't u guys get a condom and enjoy his penis in you?

    • "were waiting till Marriage at his request"

  • I have almost cum just from my penis resting on her naked body! Just the skin to skin contact.

  • Yes, they can. Big mess and kind of nice.

  • yes ofcourse guys do cum by rubbing their penis against a nake vagina.. its normal and happens to all guys.

  • Yes, I Can Cum By Rubbing Against My Wife's Pussy Without Being Inside Her, She Can Too!

  • All guys can cum with any stimulation to the penis, period.

    Is he saving "sex" for religious reasons?

  • My ex did that and he came

  • It would take a while, but yeah, probably

  • Sometimes I cum just about thinking about the vag

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