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Guys, what's your opinion on "sloppy seconds"?

Okay, so I had this weekend a spontaneous threesome and it was really fun for all three of us but at the end one guy came a little bit unexpected in me and it seemed that the other guy wasn't too happy about that. He didn't say anything about it but it was pretty obvious that he didn't really want to put his penis in my pussy with the other guys cum in it. Would that be a no-go for you too? Or a turn on? Tbh. I don't really know what the problem was. I can't imagine that it feels that much different and if it is because of possible STD risk then he should have worn a condom to beginn with.... So, what's your opinion on it? (let's assume for the poll you know everyone is STD free) Please explain why :-) Thanks
I don't like it.
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I don't mind
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It's a turn on for me
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  • I was informed by a female friend that there was a girl (25 years old) who was really into me. my friend was making sure I was single and up to meeting this gal. I assured that I was single and looking. this girl who was hot for me came up to me and we started talking. she told me about guys who just use her to get off and not really please her. she appeared really hornet and invited me to her apartment. she told me not to worry about it if she had company. she told me one would be her ex and the other her foster brother. I didn't even think anything of that.. all I could think of was her hot body.. skinny brunette b cup or so.. about 100 lbs. after work I headed straight for her place.. I was let in her apartment and she let out a loud enthusiastic "Yeh". it also appeared I walked in on something but wait.. these guys looked like teens. they got her top off while she got out of her pants. to make a long story short I felt mad at first but then the whole scene just took over with me and it felt as if I was in a trance. I saw both of her boyfriends enjoying this girls sex.
    she put her mouth over boyfriend A's clock and with the rythym supplied by boyfriend B in her pu

  • clearly by the guys reaction it wasn't made clear what boundaries there was meant to be if any. from my experience things like that are discussed before hand so that everyone knows what is and is not acceptable,

    the fact that he was happy enough to stick his unprotected cock into you and you were happy to let him doesn't say much for everyones own safety standards. but then again everyone to their own.

    • true, if I don't want something to happen then I'll make that clear before we start and I expect the same from the guys participating.

    • It's a huge turn on for me actually prefer to go second or third or fourth

    • @Jimmydeano heck yeah

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  • Most straight men who are interested in a threesome, aren't interested in having another man in the mix. It's going to be himself + 2 girls. Somehow, he ended up in a threesome with another man, which isn't ideal.

    The focus on this sexy time was you... not the other man. It's no wonder why he didn't want to dip his stick in the overflowing honeypot.

    • I know that most guys probably would want 2 girls in a threesome but if someone participates in a MMF I'd think that he does that because there is something he likes about it, doesn't matter if he's bi/gay or not. some just like seeing a girl taking multiple guys at once and participating. he could easily have said no and didn't seem to feel uncomfortable with the other guy around until that happened. so I'm sure he wanted to participate and didn't just ended "somehow" in it ;-)

    • I've never done FFM, but MMF is awesome. My take on it is: 1) There's something really hot about a woman who knows she's sexy and enjoys being the center of guys' attention, 2) It plays upon the male's competitive mating instinct. Having participated in many MMF relationships, I can tell say that being in the presence of a sexually receptive woman and another guy with a hard-on for her, really kicks on the drive to do anything to please her. And the t

  • I love the idea of a MMF threesome, my favourite fantasy and sloppy seconds are just part of that, I mean someone has to cum second right?

    Unless both guys cum at the same time... lol

    • if I do double pussy/anal and both cum at the same time, is that considered a sloppy second? LOL or you could just cum at different places or let me finish it with a BJ, if it get swallowed then it shouldn't matter? ;-) (unless you wanna kiss but that's usually not that important in a threesome with random dudes)

    • Yes there's so many possibilities, that's one of the reasons why I love the idea of a mmf threesome, all the different things you can do. I think DP would be the best way to finish, but a double bj where both guys cum in her mouth would be beyond awesome too. Just saying if we did anything that did involve sloppy seconds I could handle it. I'm a little bit bi anyway, I prefer girls but the thought of getting up close with another naked horny guy doesn't bring me out in a cold sweat either and the thought of coming into contact with his cum doesn't gross me out so much. And yes I would want to kiss the girl, before or after she'd swallowed a load or two.

    • okay, thanks :)

  • Ehhhh not my thing. I suppose I could be convinced in the right circumstances, but it wouldn't be my preference for the way things go. This is a big "personal preference" thing... there's not really a right or wrong answer.

    • okay, thanks :)

  • Apparently the shape of the human penis evolved in a way to maximize displacing semen of others guys in a girl's cervix through thrusting during sex. So it would appear our ancestors had sloppy seconds all the time.

    Personally my ego would care more about being able to satisfy you better than the other guy. If he already came then chances are I'd have you all for myself.

    • haha okay thanks :)

  • Mine. Nobody else's. Yucky. I ain't about that life

  • I had a mmf last week and it was awesome. We wore condoms though during penetration. Thing is when you doing something like that you have to expect all types of "sharing" I mean minus the cum, we were pounding her. There was sweat, she kept alternating bj's between us, there was spit, so yeah it's how it goes. I wouldn't mind sloppy seconds (is a bit gross if you not gay) but like I thought, it's like sharing a bottle of soda with your friend. You get their spit but it won't kill you (stds aside obviously)

    • okay, thanks :)

    • That is the most charming, adorable description of "sloppy seconds" I have ever seen. Or something. Something positive, whatever the right words are! Very nice way to look at it.

  • Like you said, he should have worn a condom. You gotta plan ahead! But yeah, seeing some guys' semen in there would probably ruin the mood. Lol

  • Hit C by accident thought it said off.

    Yeah, I'm not sure i could do a MMF if single, but maybe i could. But yeah, that would bother me. a lot.

  • Ummmm if its a MMF 3some and unprotected what did the guys expect to happen? Class clowns these two were...
    Thats all part of it, and yes, cum does completely change the feeling as is like adding lotsa lube, which should (depending on the guy and his technique) make it easier for deep stimulation for you!
    I get the opinion it was a first time 3some for these guys and had no idea what actually happens.. It's a part of 3somes, group swinging etc that you are going to encounter other guys stuff...
    Guy... Either go hard, or go home!
    Hope this helps

    • okay, thanks :) don't know if anyone of them had any experiences with threesomes before.

  • I don't blame that guy one bit. Not everybody is the same but I certainly wouldn't want to stick my dick in a hole that some guy just came inside of. It makes me squirm just thinking about it. Too disgusting for me

    • PS I wouldn't even do it with a condom. That shit gets everywhere

    • okay thanks. but you'd be willing to do MMF threesome? and in that case I guess only with condom or also without as long as he doesn't cum in me before you?

    • It wouldn't be my preference that's for sure but if I was thirsty enough and she was hot enough I'd probably do it. Definitely with a damn condom though. A guy is a complete moron if he doesn't use a condom on a chick that wants to double up on two dudes.

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