Why can some random douche make me orgasm and my own bf can't?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I love him very much, but for some reason he has never been able to give me an orgasm. He's really nice, for me and does his very best to please me, but it never happened and it makes me go crazy. I really need that, because I masturbate behind his back but it doesn't really satisfy me, and he would feel terrible if he found out. Same situation with my first bf. My bf was out of the country for a week and we kind of had a fight right before he left, which kinda sucks. A couple days ago, I went to a party with some friends, got drunk, met this guy, a real macho that even though I told him I had a bf kept hitting on me and in less than an hour, he was at my place fucking me stupid. I've never been done so hard and came 3 times!!! Even without him trying to please me with foreplay. It was the craziest session I could have ever imagined. Afterwards of course, I felt terrible since I cheated on my bf even though we had a fight, I let this douche who didn't have the least bit of respect for me, plow my pussy to dump his load in me, and later I even gave the guy my number so "he could booty call me sometime". Everyone at my place (rented a flat with some of my friends) of course heard the whole thing loud and clearly and just laghed it off. They thought it was funny since they know that guy as well and aparently he does a lot of one night stands with girls while just using them as sex objects, and it's always the pretty girls that fall for him. I don't understand how he did it. Now my bf is back, we cleared up our fight and I thought I'd just forget about the whole mistake, he won't find out and we would just continue where we left off. Then I had sex with my bf who was trying very hard, now I felt even more disapointed after that other guy, again couldn't come, and to top it off this guy sends me a booty call text while I'm desperately trying to get an orgasm while riding my bf. So how com I can't get satisfied with my own bf?

[Anonymous]

OK you made a mistake. It's not right. I completely understand. I've been in your shoes before. I've made that horrible mistake and never told anyone. But I broke it off with boyfriend at the time. By me making that decision told me I wasn't in love with the guy. I cared about him sure but I wasn't in love with him. When you truly love someone you put your own feelings a side and think about your partners. I was selfish and acting like a whore. I was young and dumb and learned from my mistake. You do deserve happiness with an amazing guy but only when you learn from your mistakes and can stay loyal. Until then break up with your boyfriend bc it will never work. One of two things will happen. He won't find out and the guilt will eat you live. Or you tell him and he will never trust you again. The best thing to do is tell him it's over. Don't tell him that you cheated. It will only turn a nice guy into a douche. I know it sounds weird but you don't want to hurt him anymore then are by breaking up with him. As far as the getting off by another guy. Well I'd say you like to me treated like crap or it has to do with the fact it was a new experience.

[ObviouslyBored]

Men are funny and full of shit. They can do all kinds of fucked up shady shit and think a woman should put up with it because he is "sorry" Half these male responses make me laugh. I had an ex receive all kinds of nude photos from exes and tried to say he didn't ask for them. I had already seen his damn requests!!! Men need to stop trying to bash women and meanwhile sweeping their bullshit under the rug..

I have NEVER cheated in a relationship, but I can understand the frustration of not getting an orgasm. Some people just aren't sexualy compatible. You can't force sexual compatibility.

[Kountry_King]

Well all men aren't the men you've dealt with and none of the things she said should be reason to cheat on your bf and be disrespectful letting another man dump in you which can contract std's and then she doesn't even tell him that she cheated

[ObviouslyBored]

I never condoned her behavior Honey.. I'm just saying for the fucked up shit I've seen i'm over men and their high horse of faithfulness. full of shit is what half of them are.

[ObviouslyBored]

Plus there are enough people here bashing her sexual infidelities. I don't need to join in. I would rather answer the question she is asking. Why does she orgasm with a random and not her b/f?

[Asker]

THANKS!! Exactly my thoughts. Still fun to read how lame and ignorant so many guys are.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Hmm let's see... here she wrote, "Some people just aren't sexualy compatible. You can't force sexual compatibility." Ohh Right. No one can force. So are you justifying by saying this that it's okay to find compatibility by getting banged by random dudes? Excuse me... if she finds compatibility with other 'macho' guy... then better off with him. Why to make that poor guy to live in 'fools Paradise'? This is what i say to her.. leave him. Be single and have sexual adventures. On the basis of morality, She may altogether avoid random hookups. But temptation won't go. Do not be a hypocrite. Do what suits you. Simple as that.

[ObviouslyBored]

Shrugs...

[Mustachekitteh]

Sexy deals greatly on how mentally aroused you are. Since humans can become physically aroused no matter what if they see anything sexual. Even if you don't think you are mentally. The body still gets ready for it.

Maybe y'all should try more things that will mentally arouse you? Like maybe binding and blind folding. Not knowing where the person will touch you and how they will touch you. Also maybe do some hard core teasing each other? Sometimes after a point of being tease it can drive you crazy not giving into the temptation.

Have you and ur bf tried rough sex?

[Mustachekitteh]

Also like everyone had said you should just tell the dude the truth. He deserves to know what happened and if you can't be 100% honest with him then there is no future for y'all at all.

[Asker]

I already tried a lot of stuff that might get me off. The thing that got me aroused most is by watching p*rn while doing it, yet didn't get me an orgasm either. I just contacted a psychiatrist who was free tonight and specializes in relationships and sexual problems.

[Mustachekitteh]

Maybe your just not that physically attracted to your bf?

[xHoneyxBeex]

Do you not feel any remorse for cheating on your boyfriend? I don't want to judge or come across as rude, but this is really sad. I think you should tell him the truth. If you're that unsatisfied by him, then why not just break up? You've already cheated which only made things worse.

[Asker]

Where did I say I don't feel any remorse?

[xHoneyxBeex]

That's how it came across as I was reading which is why I asked.

[Asker]

Of course I feel terrible about it. Actually my question was not asking if it was bad, I know that already. I wanted to ask about the fact that I can't orgasm with my bf but I could in that fucked up situation.

[singlebee]

No , she doesn't feel any remorse... And by the way she must be thinking of the time when she had sex with that guy... and must be saying when i will get a chance to be fucked again like that... Disgusting

[Prof_Don]

Because u didn't have the faithfulness and patience to hone your boyfriend's sexual skills.

Instead you took the easy route by being a cumdumpster slut unworthy of being treated like a lady, let alone a human being.

Yes u may find good looking guys to hookup with you and give u many orgasms, but the emotional and spiritual breaking you will go through, won't be worth it.

Some females may have sympathy for you, but men are very unforgiving of cheating, heartbreaking whores.

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Just break up with your boyfriend, so at least you're just a "heartbreaking whore", vs a "cheating heartbreaking whore".

[katiesmuff]

Don I agree with your answer completely, but paragraph 4 should be changed to say as follows: Some females may have sympathy for you, but both men and women are very unforgiving of cheating, heartbreaking whores whether it is a male or female whore. Did give you a thumbs up on this one.

[Scrambled]

Girl, I'm a guy who did the exact same thing as you. I manned up and left her because I wasn't going to keep her love and cheat on her with others for the sex. It's unfair. If the sex is shit... you better make it work or leave. Use what that dude did. Sounds like you like it tough and hard. Tell your bf to bang you hard or go see a sex therapist. I'm still learning new tricks.

[tmac725]

Good man.

[coffeprince]

This guy gave the best advice across all. He didn't attack asker, instead gave her honest for feedback without judgment.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Good honest guy. This is how people should be

[Asker]

Thanks for the answer. I'll think about this.

[p0rtis26]

So we should all be cheaters according to you? @Dєѕιвσу

[Dєѕιвσу]

@p0rtis26 Why do you say like that?

[p0rtis26]

"this is how people should be" @Dєѕιвσу The guy admitted to being a cheater.

[Dєѕιвσу]

@p0rtis26 No no. no lol. I was praising his honest attitude only. People should not stay in relationship and play with emotions if they want to have such sexual adventures.

[p0rtis26]

@Dєѕιвσу I thought so but you didn't specify, agree honesty is best policy

[Sehaj]

The shear thought of a stranger and some body new excites us, when a stranger fucks u, its in the back of ur mind and the while set up is very exciting and intriguing for u.
While when its with ur boyfriend u think its the same old thing.
Ur body can orgasm but ur mind does not.. Its what's stopping u from cumming with him.
So u have to firstly control ur thoughts and situations with a stranger hitting on u.. Stop thinking of it as sexy. ( u may not agree, but in ur subconscious this goes on)
Start from as if u were virgin. Be protective of ur body.. And remember ur first time.. And then try with ur boyfriend..
Try to concentrate on Evey sensual touch.. If it doesn't work out..
Then u two will have to learn the art of role playing. It should turn u on..
And with every role ask him how u want to be fucked , sometimes rough , sometimes gentle, but u shouldn't know in what personality how he fucks u. Do the element surprise for u has to be there..
Hope it helps!

[Dєѕιвσу]

Abey gadhe! She is a slut and you are giving opinion to this shit?

[Asker]

Thank YOU! Finally someone who tries to help and doesn't just tell me to hang myself. I think a lot of people need to live in reality more. What i did was terrible, I know that and also know i'm definitely not alone! I know a lot of people where cheating has occurred and the strongest couples get over it.

[blobbysaurus]

Hahahaha abhe gadhe. Gadhon se negotiate karne ka koi faida nahi.

[Sehaj]

@desiboy and @blobbysaurus If u had read her post more carefully u can also see that she is clear about her realising that what she did she feels awful about it. And regardless its true that if i was her bf and i came to know about it, I would not forgive her and dump her. She posted here to get advices and all of u have already given her some pretty opinions so i guess it doesn't make any sense if i just add myself to the lot. Actually helping her will benefit her and her bf. Coz nor can any of u break it up between them.. So if u really care about the guy.. Helping her to get over her thing is the only way 'I' can do any justice. Coz she in no way is gona break it up with him herself.

[Dєѕιвσу]

I understand. If she feels terribly wrong then she must try confess. But she won't.. WHY? Because she knows she will loose her bf forever. No one ever has accidental sex. Many girls describe it as accidental nowadays lol but you know it's NOT. Tomorrow.. She will murder someone knowingly and next day she realises how shameless act it was and feels very bad. Is it forgivable? Yes it can be. But will victim come back alive? No he won't. Similarly, it works with emotions... Once you stab emotions, you never have that charmness and relationship again.

[Sehaj]

@asker you're welcome. But reality doesn't necessarily mean that shit has to happen with u or anybody just coz it hapened with others in this 'real' world. I just mean to tell to not use it as an excuse. U know it was terrible. If u really feel sory and it would reflect that in ur future actions then i think all is well. But if it doesn't reflect in ir actions then of course u should end it , as u know he deserves better and if u love him its the only way to be fair. But m very hopefull that u would never get weak ever again and work on urself and know urself more. Be clear with urself what's important to u and whats not, what u want and what u do not. It will help create a stronger personality and may u never get weak ever again.. And about the strongest couples getting over it.. M sure thats when the cheating came to the notice of both the partners.. Unlike in ur case. so that doesn't count. Just so u know in tbis real world.. I exist and even such a thought makes me wana slap myself.

[Sehaj]

Of course i agree with you @desiboy. But she is not gonna confess to her bf and if she does after this hell of a post.. Then she would deserve a standing ovation.

[blobbysaurus]

Feeling bad? What after thinking about the fuck she had and comparing it to her boyfriend. Thats really feeling bad. Usko medal milni chahiye. You can't just objectify people then expect to simmer down the situation by finding new methods. He is a guy, he has emotions which he has invested in this woman. Their sexual compatibility is something she should have focused on without needing a good fuck from a randomer if she truly loved him. If there's no respect there's no point to the relationship

[Dєѕιвσу]

If one wants to enjoy sex life... then better be single. This is what i say. Why to play with emotions. It is deep insult to her boyfriend. In her eyes.. the other douche is somewhat superior. He may even develop severe inferiority complex after knowing it. That random guy used her and goes away. But next what? Girls need to think.

[Sehaj]

@blobbysaurus To be a little fair. No where did she imply a comparrison in that sense. Yeah he has emotions and infact i would say that guys are more emotional. And all u said is true. But its done now. Maybe if we could lecture her before. Its simple. She came here for help. What could be done to improve her relation coz she wants things to work with just him. But there is a problem and if she was such a whore.. She wouldn't bother being honest here.. And instead would have called him back for more booty calls and there was no problem. I mean i can only or anyone can only help someone if they look at some positive. Cursing her didn't help her at all. And no where did I tell her that what she has done is justified or cool. So peace out with me. I am agreeing to all u said and others but it doesn't help the cause. And if u disagree then its fine by me. We can always agree to disagree.

[Sehaj]

@ desiboy. Yes exactly. Either be clear if it's a 'no stings attached thing' or alleast have the courtesy to break up first before u decide to get to another guy.. Anyhow this post is done.

[MaskedSanity]

The fact that you plan on hiding this from your boyfriend tells me everything I need to know about what sort of person you are.

I'll spare you the insults as you've received plenty already. Not enough, in my personal opinion, but you don't seem to have the moral fibre to comprehend how hiding your disgusting actions from a man that has been nothing but kind to you, is fundamentally wrong.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

your boyfriend can't fuck unfortunately the other guy can. that's why

[Asker]

I guess it's kinda true. Not hat he can't fuck. It's really not that bad. Of course the other guy is quite an exception. But is something mental as well?

[johnvanjohn]

pretty ignorant comment by pretty brown. no its not that he "cant fuck" its that he can't fuck with your mind. and no, its not JUST "something mental", sex for women is 90% mental! wanna be degraded and clusterfucked? thats your innermost kick. thats what you must be given to get off...

[Dєѕιвσу]

She is downvoting every one who diasgrees you know. May be... she was like her too.

[Dєѕιвσу]

@johnvanjohn

[johnvanjohn]

desiboy who gives a shit? to each their own, i've found a wife that would never do that to me, not with all the alcohol in the world. im not that pure but since i got with her i was determined to transform and try my best to reciprocate her trustworthiness.

[sahdahh__]

Wow. You're acting like what you did doesn't matter. You're disgusting. For your boyfriends sake, so he can find a better women who will stay loyal to him, break up with him.

[Asker]

I really do think it matters

[heavensgift2girls]

I don't think your sexuality is in line with a monogamous relationship. This is why a lot of people of both genders often want open relationships. You need to stop hurting good guys. It is women like you that teach men that they need to treat women like shit to make her like him. That isn't fair to the man, or any women that date the man after you have destroyed him for other women.

You need to be honest about what you and your boyfriend need in order for both of you to be happy. If he needs a girl that is faithful, then you need to find a man you aren't going to hurt by your actions. It isn't fair to be with a man that expects you to be faithful when you clearly have no intention of doing that. Instead you need to find a male version of yourself like they guy you cheated with, and just have sex with those types of guys from now on.

[foxloversi]

First, break up with your BF. He's obviously a nice guy, but you don't want that. You don't want to make sweet and tender love, no. You want to fuck. No problem with that, really. But it's not fair to keep your boyfriend emotionally attached to you while you dream of being fucked in a way he couldn't ever do.

Second, my girlfriend is similar to you, although not a cheater. She had nice, calm and sweet boyfriends in her past but they couldn't please her. She likes foreplay though, but afterwards she just wants to fuck hard. So don't consider yourself weird or anything, embrace your sexuality.

I could give you plenty more advices on that matter, but not here :) Send me a PM, if interested.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

You got off on the cheap sex, being used just to fuck. Your bf is too soft and loving and you want fucking hard and passionately. You want to be used for sex and that's very arousing sometimes. Doesn't mean hitting it up with promiscuous men (he's be called a slut if he were a guy, just so you know what your letting inside your vagina) is a healthy way of attaining that kick, but it seems to be what was getting you off. Maybe it's because he didn't respect you that you felt you could let go, there was nothing to lose. You need to find a way of doing this with your partner though.

Take this opportunity to look and see if your bf will ever be able to be the man you want.

Talk to him. So my just write him off... you could be making a huge mistake.

Ps. I'm ignoring the fact you don't seem the slightest bit worried that your bf could find out about your cheating and be utterly humiliated. That's a real shitty thing to do. Does he deserve this kind of treatment?

[Asker]

Thanks for the helpful answer. I hope he doesn't find out, but I really don't think he would break up. Of course he doesn't deserve the treatment. But we make each other happy in all the other parts of life.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

You were getting off on the excitement as well as the respectless fucking. Message me if you want to know about talking to your bf, I've been in a similar situation but I'm not cool talking about it in public.

[bubble_tea]

if you really don't think so, you should come clean about it.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

@Bubble_tea Or just finish with him, in a situation like this I don't think she needs to come clean AND dump him. That only clears her conscience and makes him feel like a useless twat.

[bubble_tea]

I thought that coming clean would help if people want to give it another try.. like that story about that fiancé telling his wife to be and they went to counseling. Telling him before breaking up with him is a low move.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

@Bubble_tea yeah, different if you're planning on staying with them, but if you already know deep down it isn't going to work then I do my see the point in hurting someone for the sake of honesty.

[bubble_tea]

well, she does sound like she doesn't want to break with him and doesn't hope for him to find out either. my first comment was directed at asker.

[LucyYAN]

you need to tell him.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Like what? Heyy honey... i was fucked by a macho guy last night. He was so better than you :) :) Will you bang me like him? No it won't work.

[LucyYAN]

@Dєѕιвσу... that she cheated.

[BuchitaBuchys]

You are a worthless cheater and don't deserve a good partner.

You most likely are one of the men and women who don't value monogamy and get off from fucking random street trash (aka that "macho" guy).

Break up with your bf, do him a huge favor. I don't understand how some people are willing to cheat on their bfs or gfs when they are at home trying their best to please them yet they are off with other fucking women/men.
Sorry. I've been cheated on despite never cheating and it's more painful than you can imagine to try your hardest to please someone but they lack common decency to try to fix things with you and rather go to any stranger instead.

[Firekitty91]

You sound like a Masochist who desires to be treated like a worthless cumbucket while being fucked hard. You also want the security of a commited relationship. It's very hard to find a partner with such a balance.

Annnd.. I see nothing wrong with wanting that. It just means you're a little fucked up and that's ok. I recommend a site called Fetlife. Have some decensy and break up with your boyfriend. Find someone who has similar sexual tastes, e. g a dominant or sadist and... have fun.

*Smacks your ass and spits on you*

[kheserthorpe]

Because you aren't aroused by guys trying hard to please you. You're aroused by being bent over and fucked. the harder he tries the less hot you find it.

That's my best guess anyway.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Didn't you notice that she acted slut? What's wrong with you people?

[Asker]

Well I guess there is some truth in that.

[dimfireball]

This

[justwannatalk]

The real question is, why do you think its okay to cheat on your boyfriend? You feel bad, great. You still gave the guy your number. Your whole story is awful, just awful.

[Asker]

Well I know that. And I know it's not ok.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Great!

[justwannatalk]

Then why did you do it? Don't say you were drunk that's no excuse. Neither is sexual frustration. He tries, why don't you tell him what you like? But really its too late. You don't deserve him, and you betrayed him.

[nerms123]

Dump your boyfriend. Otherwise you’ll resent him or cheat again. Also he’s probably not thrilled that he can’t get you off. People often try to pretend that sex is not important but it can actually put a lot of pressure on the relationship itself and cause major problems. But I wouldn’t tell him you cheated because that might traumatize him. Then date around to find a sexually compatible guy.

[BarbaraP]

@kheserthorpe already said everything you needed. Accept the fact that you're simply sexually not into good guys.
I just wanna add one thing... if you really love your boyfriend you should try talking to him about your sexual needs and maybe try some roleplay stuff? You can also try boosting his ego a little bit, making him feel more confident, so that you both will enjoy it.
But if you don't love him, let him go and don't hurt him anymore.

[kheserthorpe]

I suspect her relationship is fried, but who knows for sure. But if she doesn't work this out, it's going to happen with her next bf. Hopefully for her sake, she can be happy with guys who -are- good guys, but who enjoy being sexually dominant and it's not 'ruined' for her by them actually caring about her, even if they use her that way knowing she and they both like it.

[BarbaraP]

@kheserthorpe Yeah, that's definitely gonna happen, I agree. She can't have a boyfriend who's a selfish idiot ('cause who would want that?), but yet she's only sexually aroused by that type of men. She needs to find someone who's caring in everyday life but can act selfish, dominant in bed. Maybe if she told her boyfriend before they would have solved this problem together. But now she cheated and, even if he forgives her, I don't think he will ever be able to be confident enough to give her what she needs, after he's been cheated on.

[kheserthorpe]

Agree. Yeah, I think that she may not have understood what the problem was, or didn't accept it. I have to wonder what kind of fantasies she masturbated too, or what kind of p*rn . It's possible if she'd been more aware of it, she could have explained it better. That said if the issue is she wants to be dominated, I think relatively few people are very good at explaining that they want to be dominated. They can hint at it, but they need the other person to pick up on it. Plus if her bf is not naturally dominant, and was doing it just for her and she could tell, it would probably ruin it. Yeah, i think his confidence will be even worse - before he at least felt he was trying everything possible, now he's going to know that he just didn't excite her. And even if he figures it out, he'll always be haunted by the fact that not only did she cheat on him, but the cheating was the best sex she ever had. This is... dead. Best case she figures it out fast enough not to repeat.

[Longblackveil]

I wish people weren't like this...

I don't know, I guess sex is really important and I think mostly if a guy isn't good after 2 years, he probably isn't going to get good all the sudden. If you have to go elsewhere for sex it just isn't going to work. Find a good guy that can please you, I'm sure there's someone out there, just don't fuck him over like this guy I guess.

I suggest you just breakup with him and don't tell him why. If I was the dude in this situation, I would rather not hear about it

[BertMacklinFBI]

those macho guys really know how to spot em. damn their radar is tweaked hahaa.

anyways its all in your head.

[bananatossing]

^^ well said

[sammy_31]

Listen, you do understand that getting an orgasm hugely relies on your mental state right? You must lack at communication and verbal skills with your bfs. You're on top trying to ride your bf and get an orgasm, girl get a grip, it's totally you. LOL #ICANTEVENDEAL You're guys aren't the problem, its you sweets. Sad that you acted slutty and cheated besides sex shouldn't be selfish which you are making it, ABOUT YOU. -__-

[Mesonfielde]

Because you're a cheater, and apparently value sex only from people with whom you cheat on your boyfriend with.

[kheserthorpe]

If that's accurate, then her only chance at happiness is to continue cheating on guys. I'm more optimistic.

[jacquesvol]

I think it's more about breaking the routine.

[p0rtis26]

It's about changing her MINDSET.

[tmac725]

If it's that big of an issue that you may cheat again you really gotta let him go that's not fair to him. My feeling has always been that if you can cheat then you don't really love the person you're with. Let him go so you can both do what's right for each other.

[Asker]

I really love the my bf. It was just really stupid of me and everything came together at the wrong time. I know a lot of couples that have gotten over cheating. It's just the sexual thing that drives me crazy sometimes. But that would never tear me and my bf apart.

[tmac725]

But honey, he doesn't know you cheated on him so you can't really say that. You have to be honest with him and let him make a decision as well. I'm not here to degrade you or call you names, we all make mistakes but it's not right to hide something like that.

[Dєѕιвσу]

I really love my boyfriend * fux with other guy* Hypocrite. Have kids with other guys too.

[tmac725]

Alright dude comment on your own thing. Don't come on here to bad mouth her, that's immature we all make mistakes.

[singlebee]

@asker - shut you whore!! you dont love him... and there is no point in crying now when you already cheated on him... you should go and kill yourself... no one give a damn about a slut like you!

[tmac725]

I don't know why my feedback brought out the little Internet tough guys but ignore them. They're probably bitter because they can't get a girl and know they can run their little mouths on here and hide behind their computer. ANYWAY if you'd like you can message me so desiboy and this nut job above me can have their fun elsewhere.

[tmac725]

@singlebee and @desiboy go put your big boy pants on and come back when you're gonna use your big boy words

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - and you need to fuck off dude... i ain't talking to you... mind your own fucking business baldy..

[tmac725]

You commented on my post you stupid fuck. Haha baldy? Put up a pic little guy let's see how devastatingly handsome you are, or do you not because you're an ugly little troll in your parents basement? I'm gonna say just based on your complete lack of respect for anyone and hiding with no pic and trolling people online you're probably single and don't have many friends. Grow up dude. @singlebee

[Asker]

@tmac725: I know, I ignore them. Although, even in my situation, it's still nice to laugh at people who are more than so much more pathetic than me. Even when I think I hit the bottom, there is still sadder souls to loo down on and laugh :)

[tmac725]

Good they're just angry because they probably can't find sex without paying lol. Now, back to you, regardless if you don't think he'll leave you its only fair to tell your boyfriend. Put yourself in his shoes, how would you feel and react?

[singlebee]

i dont have friends? hahahhaha you stupid fuck... i have 100s of friends everywhere... and what makes you think just because i am single i won't have friends or that iam a troll? and by the way baldy i think you are blind too... i already have pic on my profile... so wear a fucking glass and see it... i may not be that handsome but girls always say i am handsome... so dont you fucking talk as if you know me... i just hate CHEATERS THATS ALL... WHATS YOUR PROBLEM IF I AM SLUT SHAMING HER? OH LET ME GUESS YOU LIKE HER DONT YOU... YOU WANNA FUCK HER ASS TOO?

[tmac725]

Oh my bad @singlebee I didn't see it, I couldn't see a face through those bushes you call eyebrows. If you do have friends you should talk to them because clearly you have some anger issues, therapist would probably be better. Lol yes I just fell in love with an anonymous girl online... no fool, I just was raised by my mother and grandmother so I respect women which clearly you don't. don't judge others man we have all made mistakes. Now go take a deep breath and calm down, let baldy and the other men handle this

[singlebee]

i respect women too... but not bitches like the asker of this question... i was raised good too... and i dont have any anger issues... its just that i hate cheaters... so let me hate cheaters and lets not fight anymore...

[tmac725]

She's a woman and regardless of her making a mistake you're extremely disrespectful. You told her to go kill herself and you don't think there's an issue there. Make your own comment then you replied to mine and put yourself in my crosshairs. @singlebee

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - "I couldn't see a face through those bushes you call eyebrows.".. you must be hating my eyebrows but most girls like my eyebrows... so your comment does not make me feel bad LOLOL

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - i told her to kill herself... you say that as if she is so regretful that she will actually do that... no she won't cause she's not sorry for anything that she did...

[tmac725]

Hey if girls like those caterpillars above your eyes more power to you dude :) what I'm really trying to say is just shut up and have respect for people. You're just as low as the people you view as low talking like that. @singlebee I'm done with this convo. Do as you please

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - ohhh finally you gave up... thats nice... and i respect people but according to there deeds... so i will do as i please..

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - and ya one last thing... there is a difference between a mistake and a choice.!! cheating is not a mistake and i hope that goes in your thick skull...

[tmac725]

Eh fuck it I'm bored so I'll keep going. I have a thick skull? Says the guy who can't accept others' mistakes. It was an error in judgment. You've never made a poor choice? Please don't say no and lie to yourself. @singlebee You told a person to kill themself and yes she's not really going to but you think that's okay? Yes the girl was wrong but shit she doesn't need to be crucified, just guided in the right direction.

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - well dont you think she is big enough to know whats wrong and right?

[tmac725]

Let me ask you this and please be honest @singlebee what age did you stop making mistakes?

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - well what mistakes are you talking about? like cheating? cause i never cheated on anyone... other than that ya i still make some mistakes... but they dont really count

[tmac725]

Lol and why do your mistakes not count? No I'm talking about everything. Look my point is she absolutely made a mistake by cheating and I think she should tell her boyfriend and let him decide if he wants to work it out and my point with you is to stop being so judgmental and give mature advice like some of us have instead of immature name calling. You're old enough to speak in a sensible mature way and to some extent you're doing that now so give others that courtesy as well. @singlebee

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - ok i will dude... i think you are right... i always speak sensible here on this site but whenever i see questions about cheating i go crazy... cause i hate cheating... but i will try not to talk like that next time... thanks

[tmac725]

Hey cheating is terrible I agree and I never did it myself either. I'm glad we can agree at the end of this, good stuff man, take care @singlebee

[singlebee]

@tmac725 - yup you too!!! :) but hey have you got cheated?

[tmac725]

Yes I was cheated on once a long time ago @singlebee and it sucks but I didn't stoop down to a level where I called her names. She didn't want to break up but I can't be with someone I don't trust and she at least was honest and told me and honestly they just kissed but I walked away from that relationship and I'm better off for it. Still have nothing but love for that girl and we talk from time to time I'm just not in love with her

[Dєѕιвσу]

I hope he ditches your ass and throw you out of your life like we do to useless old stuff.

[Dєѕιвσу]

@ asker Look.. if you were single then no one will point finger at you on why you sleep with him and why you act like that. Because you are a free person and you aren't answerab answerable to anyone. But when you are committed then your actions are questionable. If you can't remain loyal.. just stay single. When you are ready get committed. This is rule. But you can't play double games when someone else's emotions are involved.

[Asker]

Wrong! I've read questions of girls who did things like this when single and they still get slut shamed just like me. I kind of expected these reactions. So many guys who feel mighty while slut shaming girls anonymously over the internet. Then they cry while jerking off their virgin dick to girls they crushed on but ended up fucking random assholes and still feel less bad than being with those sad slut shaming losers.

[kheserthorpe]

I don't disagree necessarily, but unless she figures out what the issue is, she's going to keep ending up in this situation again, and that benefits -nobody-.

[p0rtis26]

@kheserthorpe There is no mystery here, the issue is HER ATTITUDE. paraphrasing "I am going to attack people because they attack me." "I am not going to own up to my irresponsibility and infidelity." well no wonder she enjoys a jerky guy banging her. not rocket science

[Dєѕιвσу]

You are feeling bad i know. But people are frustrated because things like these are getting too common. Some days ago i heard about guy who was fucking someone else's wife when he is not at home. Her hardworking husband comes back home thinking all is well. But people who know really laugh at his situation and plan about how should they try to take advantage of such situation and see if they can use her easy wife too. This is how douches are asker. A home wrecker and women are just sex object. But superior and machos in eyes of women. This is so disgusting. So you can't expect sympathy even if there is no personal grudges here.