Girls, ladies would you ever hire a male escort?

So I have read that more women are hiring male escorts. I am curious how many women actually would do this or maybe even fantasise about it. Is it becoming more mainstream?
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Thanks ladies for the feedback. Clearly the response is negative to this one generally. A clear majority. Interesting. Wonder why the difference between the genders?
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  • The majority of the girls probably said 'no' probably because there are few males that are attractive enough to be the object of sexual desire, or of a sexual fantasy.

    It's usually the men WANTING the women when it comes to sex. You need to give a woman an incentive to want A MAN for sexual purposes, to sexually turn on a woman with the same mechanism that a man is turned on by looking at an attractive woman, if it based solely on looks, which for prostitution it is.

    That said, for prostitution you need to be fairly attractive enough for a woman to want to pay to sleep with you since she doesn't have to since she has plenty of other men to sleep with her. You need to have the kind attractiveness that would make a woman think about you for days after, and falls in 'love' with you based purely on looks (remember personality will be of no help for you on a first impression like it usually would be when it comes to luring the females, so all the luring is on your looks). You need to have the attractiveness that will put a hook on a woman's heart even days after looking at you. In order to be successful you need to look like someone like Chris Colfer, because he has that kind of 'fantasy desire for you' feature. You can ask a lot of women and a majority of them would probably agree with me that if they got the chance, they'd jump at him---probably some women here can answer and attest that she'd pay to sleep with Chris Colfer... well that's my opinion anyway but a lot of girls DO think he's quite attractive and crushing on him, even 50 year olds

    • Chris Colfer is one of the most handsome men of Hollywood right now, perhaps of our era and I think he's going to blow up like a Marilyn Monroe. I thought that if he was the king of the castle then his castle would be surrounded by women... and no he's not Brad Pitt attractive either; I tried looking online to see if there are any girls out there crushing on Brad Pitt and didn't come across any on a first search but if you look up 'crushing on Chris Colfer ' you'll see girls on yahoo saying "Am I the only girl crushing on Chris or what?' lol

  • If I didn't have a hot and smart guy who knew exactly how to make me climax several times I would... but I do have that guy, so nah.

    • Ha ha ha... finally a "sorta" yes lol

    • Yeah if I was in lack of a good time I certainly would. Nothing against it, just like I respect female prostitution

    • The think people don't understand is that sex is sold for a reason. Why do attractive or committed guys go after prostitutes? Because they know what they do. I guess girls are not evaluating that a male prostitute would probably have a perfect physique and the ability to make you have the time of your life.

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  • It's not something I think about nor something I'll consider. I really don't "need" to do it firstly and secondly... I want some love and passion thrown into the mix. You can't get that from some dude who is just banging you for your money and who doesn't even care about you or love you.

    • No but you can get precision :)

    • He doesn't care about your heart that'd not the point. He cares about your pleasure bc that's what he's getting paid for and he's not. " banging " if that's what you request. They can do it in many different ways.

    • I get the most pleasure from being with a man I love. Otherwise it feels like so boring.

  • Why buy the cow?

    But in all seriousness, if there weren't any free milk on the table, (and I had money to spare) I'd rather pay a cow I know to produce the milk for me rather than give the cash to a complete stranger. That way at least I have SOME quality assurance.

  • Same reason men hire prostitutes.

    Simple, no commitment or baggage and you know what you are getting.
    Plus he could act out all your fantasies! And I have a feeling male escorts would love their job unlike the implications of being a female escort.

    I know women have a lot of options, but why risk wasting precious time on dressing up for a guy and paying your half of the date for a dude who might come in 5 seconds.

    • Interesting. This is the first comment that seems to echo what I have read that this is more common than many realize. Do you think the women on GAG are being politically correct with their answers?

    • I think most women say what they think they should say as there is a lot more pressure on how women should think/feel/act when it comes to sex as we are judged more. We are just as capable of having no strings and act 'like men' basically but are conditioned early on to look for a Prince Charming and that you need love before sex. Considering a ton of women haven't even orgasmed and fake it during sex, it just shows that this is what happens when people have the logic of, "sex comes to me anyway" instead of chasing the man she truly lusts after.

    • I think they are not even really thinking it through bc they are not supposed to want it but not bc it's PC. I see nothing politically incorrect about paying men for sex. You're not hurting anyone. And it's not like they can't get other work if they wanted to. Women like quick sex on demand without wading through Games. And yeah they can fairly easily get crappy ONS sex. And random sex usually sucks. When you pay you're paying for quality.

  • Because I'm single right now, YES. Who doesn't want companionship for a day or two? It would seem more like a date then a hookup, depending on how professional the guy it.

  • even if I was desperate for sex, dick is free. its too many horny men out here for me to need to pay for it.

    • hahahaha so true

  • Yes if I didn't have a bf I love and who I "love":-)

    I really would. I wouldn't want to have to deal with guys who were not open minded, patient, or don't care about my pleasure. And the whole finding ways to say what I like without him freaking out or making him feel substandard-- At least if I'm paying a guy he's cool with pure outright direction no nuance:)

    • I think another reason there is so much " no way" from women is bc there's the element that if you pay they don't " want" you.. Perhaps a lot of women would rather have bad sex but feel desired then great sex that they can't be sure they'd be having if they were not paying. I don't care about that I feel desirable either way. I just like the idea of getting exactly what I want from someone who has to be held accountable for his actions. I don't need to obviously as I'm in a relationship but if I were are not And just wanted sex then I would appreciate not having to go to all the trouble of meeting flirting playing cat and mouse and sucky sex or possible rape etc.

  • No, I have no desire to do hire a male escort. I wouldn't be that desperate lol.

    • hmmm... its kinda looking like there is very little market for this still.

    • Ya so don't quit your day job :)

  • I wouldn't do it myself but I know some women (all 35+) who did it. They all went for a guy from the same escort company. The men were not sleazy types- they were classy, educated men wearing suits who knew exactly how to treat a woman to make her feel desired. Those women had some self-esteem issues due to divorce, were not ready for a new relationship but more than sex wanted to be taken out on a date by a gorgeous guy who made them feel like an attractive woman. About half of them enjoyed the experience, the other half said they hated it. As long as it makes them happy who cares?

  • Why not? If I was single I think that I would. Sure as someone before me said "dick is free" but, not all of it is clean. If you go through an escort service most employers have their employees tested regularly. And some even specialize in fantasies. So, why not? Too many people are throwing the "I'm not wasting money on something incan get for free." When, if you think about it, doesn't matter. You waste money on all that make up, hair dye and fake tans. Why not spend some money on some expiernced male escort. To sum it up: I would clear out my bank account. ;) lol

  • It's not something I ever thought about, but no. I'm not that desperate.

    • I don't see it as having anything to do with desperation... The point if he's hot and you're in complete control and get exactly what you want without having to handle him cater to his ego handle him or worry about his opinion. And he'll definitely know what he's doing. You're paying for attraction skill and the absence of games or unpredictability. Plus huge time saver.

    • Do you realize how many men there are out there that you can get free sex from and still get what you want? I know men that I could text or call right now and say that I want to f*** and they would run. You don't have to be hot for that either. I'm not a shy girl. If I'm having sex with someone, I will tell him exactly what I like or don't like and what I want or don't want. If he's not willing to do it, then I will tell him never mind. The point is, men love sex. You don't have to pay for it to get it.

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