What to say when your crush asked for nudes?

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I don't know what/ to do because I love him

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't! Please listen to this, unless he feels the same don't send him anything. Same thing happened to me, a guy I really really liked asked me for nudes and I send them to him and we were exchanging nudes since about November and the other day things got real serious, I gave him a bj and ended having sex.. Long story short he is acting like it never happened. It should've been expected since he never liked me and I should have seen what I was getting myself into.. Don't do it unless he likes you because then you might end up being friends with benefits or sone shit like that.
(Btw I lost my virginity to him- big mistake)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly it all comes down to whether or not YOU want to. I enjoy sending my bf nudes but I also completely trust him and for the sake of how unsafe the Internet can be I never have my face in them. But I don't do it just because he wants them, I enjoy taking sexy pictures and it adds a lot of foreplay leading up to our sex. If you are uncomfortable with it you will end up regretting it even if he doesn't show anyone. If you are uncomfortable with it make sure you tell him that on top of saying no, that way he knows not to ask you again.

tizz704 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely in no scenario should you be sending anyone naked pictures of yourself. The likely hood of them ending up on the internet or shown to his friends is like ridiculously high. Be smarter than this.

BearsAnswers · Accepted Answer

Sending nudes when you aren't comfortable because he pressures you is not a display of love. It is simply an act of someone giving up personal power and morals because of manipulation. If he cared about you, he would care about your feelings. If you feel uncomfortable, he wouldn't push. He would drop it, and not ask again.

If you are uncomfortable, don't degrade yourself to try and 'win' his favour. It will lower his opinion of you. If he only cares about that, then it is someone you don't want to date. Period.

vjreejr · Accepted Answer

He's not worthy of your love because he is really immature to ask for that. That is the kind of thing that is reserved for the bedroom. Take an attractive picture of yourself and send it to him. That is all he needs. Believe me, it worked for several generations before you. Do NOT take a nude selfie because it can ruin your life. He should know better than even ask. That really illustrates immaturity.