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Guys, my boyfriend watches gay p*rn and has searched for 'crossdresser' 'sissy' 'femboy' 'shemale' and 'meninstockings'?

We have a Samsung smart TV (so,like the phones, it stores words previously used in the keyboard) and I went to go on Facebook and when pressed 'f' the word gem boy came up in the suggestions. Obviously I didn't no what this ment so I googled it. Then, shocked and freaked out I pressed every letter to see what else he searched for and I found gay, cross dresser, anal, shemale, meninstickings, dragqueen etc. I was shocked at first and wanted to leave him but I love him. I'm just finding it hard to accept that he's ion that. I'm looking at him completly differently now and can't enjoy having sex with him anymore because I just think 'I bet he wishes Iv got a penis' I also can't look at him anymore without seeing men in stockings. I want to no what other guys think and whether they have honestly ever been turned on by things like this to help me to to accept it.
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  • Your boyfriend is bi-curious. He is in the experimental stage, and wants to know what it would be like to have sex with a man. This may be a stage that will come and go, and it may turn out that he is bi. Do you have the love and mentality that it will take to stay with him, or are you going to let the opinion of others ruin your relationship with him. These are questions that you are going to have to ask yourself, and only you can answer them.

    • So it's not like it just turns him on for whatever reason,? U actually think he thinks about having sex with men?

  • My guess he is a bi-curious and was looking up that stuff out of curiosity. Maybe this stuff is something that he is into in fantasy but may not want to do so in reality.

    • Yeah I understand that p*rn isn't necessarily a reflection on what someone might actually want to do it's just what they watch and get off on. But I just don't understand how he can get off on that when I thought he was straight.. he must've liked what he saw to keep searching for similar things... and he didn't search for ANY other type which makes me think he managed to satisfy himself to the gay stuff.

    • He is probably bicurious... doesn't mean he's gay or bi, just curious about different types of p*rn . This very well could be just a phase. Don't overreact. He's still attracted to women!

    • Yes I suppose so. I still can't help feeling uncomfortable with it.

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  • https://memeshappen.com/media/created/wljm9q.jpg

    That's not cool or a turn on at all. You have to talk to him about that but he is still glad you have a vagina because he is still banging you.

  • You need to talk to him about it. Obviously you came across it by accident its not like you secretly installed a keylog. So explain that and explain it makes you feel uncomfy. Maybe there's an explanation to put your mind at rest if not and he's really into that stuff well at least you'll know and itll hurt you but its better to know.

  • YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!!! There is no way around it!! confront him, and find out what is up!!
    Maybe it is just 'fantasy' for the strange, or newness? Maybe he just likes it as something different to masturbate to?

  • I think you will be fine. I kinda look at cross dresser and guys with breast and think about dick sometimes

    • Why tho? Cos u like guys?

    • I wanna no why he would look at it. Whether it's just curiosity, whether it's cos he is actually attracted to men. Like can u watch stuff like that but not be attracted to men?

    • I'm not attracted to men at all. I just like dick and and stuff in my ass. but don't like guys at all or attracted to them

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  • Well... i think he is a gay!!! 😱😱

  • damn that is a problem

  • As long as he can still perform with you sexually I don't see a problem. Porn use can lead men into strange places. Maybe take him shopping for some nice lingerie? lol

  • He's gay sorry

  • Fuck him in the butt or make him get a big thick cock in his ass

  • i think he is just watching not doing it so he is not gay
    in my opinion men should try the feeling of women in bed like i did

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