Hooked up with a friend? Now what?

I hooked up with a decently good guy friend of mine (known each other about five months). We had a lot of fun and we talked about how we didn't want this to be awkward. He spent the night and we spent a lot of it just cuddling and talking. It felt kind of perfect. The next day we met up and he said that he didn't really feel that way about me, and that he liked someone else. I'm just frustrated because I don't know what I did wrong and if there was anything I could've done. I feel like after we hooked up he's less into me, but after we hooked up I'm more into him. He didn't 'hit it and quit it' because he's texted me every day since it happened, and he still comes over to talk to me when he sees me around campus (we're both college freshman). I'm just getting mixed signals. Is he just confused about how he feels about me? Did hooking up confuse him more, since he made it clear he liked me before that? Most importantly, what should I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • What happened is that he got the pussy and now he's satisfied. I do this all the time because I don't want a relationship with every girl I find hot. Sometimes it's just physical, and guys will quickly lose interest. Don't take this as an insult. It just means you're attractive and the guys you're meeting aren't into commitment.

    • So he was physically attracted to me but not emotionally? Then why wouldn't he want to do it again?

    • Because sometimes once is all a guy wants.

    • Is it weird/good/bad that he still wants to be friends?

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  • Let me point you to a Take I wrote. I suggest you read it very carefully and then we'll chat:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6869-relationships-how-they-work

    Questions?

Most Helpful Girl

  • It looks as though you both need to sit and chat about this... Ask him the same questions you asked in the bottom of your question then take it from there... Both of you need to put everything out on the table... Good luck

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