Erection during a passionate kiss and some (pre) cum, is this normal? Should I tell her?

TL;DR at the end. Long story short, I met this girl on a school trip, it was something like love at first sight (I'd later come to know that she has a boyfriend, but that's another story). One night I needed to sleep out of my room (my roommate bringed a girl to do their stuff), so I just had find a shelter for the night. I think I would have done this either way, but this was a good chance to get in her room. Her roommates were already sleeping, so, after staying a bit on the hall out of her room, we kissed and then we entered her room. There, silently to not awake the other girls, we got on the bed and started kissing really, really passionately. At a certain point I noticed I was hard down there. We entered the room at about 4 a.m., I had to leave at 7 a.m. because it was the last night and had to pack before breakfast, so we kissed and talked for 3 hours. When I got to my room I was about to take a shower and while I undress I notice I was wet. I think it was precum, but I doubt I had any way to check whether it was cum or precum. Fast forward a couple of days, she came at my house and we did this again, in the afternoon, for about one hour this time. Once again, erection and pre/cum. Is this normal? I heard that the erection part might just be normal, but read little to nothing on the 'net about the second part. Also, considering that she still hasn't, although we are trying to find a way to do so, left her boyfriend, should I tell her about this? TL;DR: When passionately kissing my girl I get erected and when we finish I always find pre/cum (don't know which) in my pants. Is this normal?
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  • Sounds normal to me! This has happened to me when I was younger! I a G. F. In H. S.
    We would make out and I was super horny as I always am she would rub my cock through my pants I did not cum but it felt so good when she did! It felt a little wet when I got undressed it was sticky. It was pre cum perfectly normal tell her it may turn her on! I would why not?

  • Considering your age it's normal, of course :) There are (very few) men that can orgasm while just passionately kissing so you might be one of them. But I think it's only precum, there's a big difference in quantity :)

    Anyway, kissing really turns me on as well so I understand you completely :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes it's normal, and there's no need to tell her.

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  • Yea it is normal. Just means you were feeling good. It still happens to me now.

  • It’s pretty normal

  • Are you for real? Tell her?
    Umm... no.

  • I think you should tell her everything.