I got boner when I was in the hut tub with this girl I like, do you think she will talk to me again or did she like it? did I react ok (please read)?

[Anonymous]

Ok so i was in the hot tub at the gym after my workout (trying to lose weight). I like to go late night so no one really see's me cause i' m not that comfortable with myself, I'm a shy guy and i guess an introvert. Ok so i was in the hot tub then i saw her and i got a but shocked she would be at the gym this late, and she said "Hey!!!" I tried to go a bit down in the water cause i wans't comfortable with my body but she came in and she hugged me tight and her boobs were all up against me... i started to get a boner so i moved away from he but she kept following me. We had a chat and after 15 minutes she put her arm around me and her boob was rubbing against me and i started to get another boner and she was like "carry me out"... she wrapped both hand around my neck and now her boobs were almost in my face and cause we were sitting kinds like on those benches in the water i went a bit back and her butt literally when right on dick basically... She said "omg what was that?" I froze and she said "omg you have a boner!!", my heart stopped... and she said "get out of the hot tub now", i said no, and she was trying to pull me out haha. that was it really. SO what do you think? was she ok or was she weirded out? also girls what would be your reaction ALSO girl would you do this someone you liked?

[Anonymous]

she was comfortable getting in the hot tub with you so I don't think it was a big deal you got a bit excited over this. I think most guys get sexually excited at being in a hot tub with a girl like this. I remember once being in a sauna at a hotel and then a hot younger girl came in and she was in a bikini and I didn't even know her and there she was rate beside me not wearing much clothes so i saw a lot of her body and she had her belly button pierced which i like and I got hard and nothing really happened , think it was more awkward for her than me as we didn't really know each other

[Asker]

dis you guys talk? i would of got up and left cause i didn't want my boner to be seen

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure if she noticed I got horny or not , this happened a couple years ago , however I did talk to her cause I remember she told me where she was from so we must of talked a bit for me to find that out as I didn't know her , we were like rate beside each other as it was a small sauna so I maybe felt I should say something to her as she was rate there. we didn't like hook up and didn't see her again after that , think she found it awkward or maybe too sexual too soon , she might of not been ready for that

[Asker]

hmm ok

[Opinion Owner]

I also think she left first but she didn't leave rate away , she was in there with me for a couple minutes at least

[hypno-trip]

It is totally natural to get an erection from what you described. I think you need to be comfortable with your physicality, If the girl is mature she will understand that it is perfectly natural. Also considering how much she shoved her boobs in your face it should not be a surprise. Both of you guys can just laugh about it.

[WafflecChip]

I think she reacted like that because maybe she was uncomfortable with that since she never saw that before. maybe she might also like you.

[Anonymous]

The way she was teasing you, it's not surprising you got hard ;) That's a totally natural reaction and I'm sure she's flattered!

[Asker]

well it was just us two, but like it was kinda weird cause my dick went like straight in her ass... like i felt ashamed for some reason cause she wasn't my gf, I don't know, i just never had experience with woman so if i say it was weird and this stuff please don't make fun of me :(

[Opinion Owner]

No, no, it's not weird at all. I understand why you might be embarrassed or ashamed. But as I said, she was flirting with you, so though I'm sure she was surprised at the time, she will probably be happy that you find her attractive.

[Asker]

should i maybe ask her if we should go to the gym together maybe? and also would you do this to a guy you liked? I understand now how girls "use there boobs", as in my current situation

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm I tend not to use my boobs so much, but I (and many other girls) definitely rub against guys I'm interested in, or let them get a good look at my butt or chest (through clothes obviously). Physical contact like that is pretty heavy flirting. Go ahead and ask if she wants to go to the gym with you! It sounds like it would be fun and she'd probably say yes :)

[Asker]

i'm a bit scared bit i will try, but if she says something like "want to go in the pool or hot tub after?" i'm scared i will get another boner :$ Like if i do... you think she will be ok?, i will obviously try my best to hide it

[Opinion Owner]

She'll be totally fine if you get hard again ;) She probably was trying to see if she could turn you on in the first place. I would say that trying to hide it would be the gentlemanly approach, but if she notices you getting hard, she'll probably like it. If she invites you to go into the hot tub again, she almost certainly wants to see if she can give you a boner again.

[Asker]

oh my :o So like should i not hide it? but what if i stand up? it will be sticking out and that's not good if other people are there, not good at all!!!

[Opinion Owner]

I would try to hide it, or at least be subtle about it, but don't let it bother you too much. It IS a totally natural reaction, after all.

[Asker]

yeah, well i hope everything goes good and like also when she went down on my dick i was the one who pushed her off, she was like staying there for 4 seconds, and then i moved. Does this indicate something or is she startled like i was?

[maikay]

She did this on purpose these moves were calculated. Don't worry she will be back lol.

[BubblyMaria]

You are fine lol don't worry

[Asker]

are you sure? what;s so funny? you said "lol" so if i think you think it's funny, the girl i like will think it's funny :(

[BubblyMaria]

No I said lol because I find it cute how you're over analyzing. That's all

[Asker]

well yes because i have to give the full story cause like i have anxiety and this is making me anxious and i needed answers. I hope you don't think i'm weird :( Also would you do this to a guy you liked?

[BubblyMaria]

It's okay, don't worry. I'm sure she'll talk to you still. Don't look to into it. It happened and I'm sure she was flattered. And if I would do that you a guy I liked? Maybe lol if I was comfortable with him like that

[Asker]

ok, thanks for the help

[Blondiee2014]

It actually sounds like you pulled that off pretty smoothly. She might of liked it lmao!
Maybe she is into you :)

[Asker]

I don't know if it was smooth, i was honestly startled, I don't know maybe she could be

[Blondiee2014]

@asker it sounded adorable.

[Longblackveil]

she pretty much wanted you to get a boner and she wanted to see it lol don't be ashamed of boners man! Lol

[TadCurious]

It's interesting that GAG has become a venue for Anonymous posters to try their hand at writing erotica.

[SatoBlak]

Gr8 story, m8, it just almost made me want to masturb8. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[Asker]

um...

[Anonymous]

Man the trolls on this site are getting so lazy with their trolling. Nice try troll try again.

[Asker]

this is not a troll

[Opinion Owner]

You said you moved away from her and she followed you wrapping her arms around your neck. Yeah afraid not. Girls don't just do what you described and then freak out like you said. Especially trying to drag the guy out of the hot tub. Definitely a trolling attempt. Try again.

[Asker]

not drag, i don't think i said drag. pull as in pull my hand out. You can think what you want

[Opinion Owner]

Pull you out is nearly if not the same thing as drag. Something more went on than what you are saying if she tried to drag you out of the hot tub.

[Anonymous]

yes i would.. and yea that reaction was fine.

[Asker]

Like do you think if i see her at school tomorrow (we have the same class) she would be ok with me? i felt she didn't care as much

[Opinion Owner]

yea i think you'll be okay.