Simply put he trusts you. Believe it or not there are women out there who lie about being on birth control (happened to me once, thankfully she was just horny). While it is a sign of trust and a good thing it doesn't by itself mean that he automatically wants to spend the rest of his life with you or he doesn't. It simply means he trusts you. He changed his mind because at first his go to response was to pull out in case the woman is lying. Then he thought about it and decided yes he does trust you and does want to cum inside you.
If in the future you do want children I would ask him how serious he was about not wanting children (most guys mean they don't want kids right now, but some don't ever).0 1 0 0I'm confused. You asked him to cum inside you. Then he wants to cum inside you. That he was reluctant seems to me to mean that he wasn't fully informed that BC works. When he figured out it does, he was ready to inject you with a vengeance. I say count your blessings and stop trying to read things into it.
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In response to your update: I'm sure you've heard it before. But some guys will cum in a girl, and run the other direction when they hear she's pregnant. That shows no clear indication of his commitment level to you.
It could BE the case, but don't assume this action alone makes things that way.
Your boyfriend had time to think it over after you brought it up.
A person that is a good sex partner will take into account what their partner wants.
He's satisfying your needs and his as well (because it feels good).
He learned to put his personal views aside and enjoy the moment.0 1 0 0You're trying to convince yourself that you mean something much more than a piece of a**? : /
Can't say for sure without knowing him but if he hasn't taken the initiate to actually make things official which says that you are so important that he doesn't want anyone else... then he's probably just enjoying the sensation. The simple function of organs with a female who's easy and wiling enough to risk getting pregnant by letting him orgasm inside of her.0 1 0 0How does letting him come inside me make me easy? It's actually the complete opposite considering I was a virgin at 21 until I met him and it took months for me to give him any type of sexual attention.
Uhmmm... YOU COULD GET PREGNANT. The pill is not 100% effective and condoms can rip if not properly put on or slightly ripped during the friction. Even if you used to be a virgin up until your adulthood, right now you are being easy and giving a guy who is not your boyfriend the benefits that a guy should EARN as a boyfriend. Typically when females put out and spread their legs for a guy who's not even willing to give them the title, whatever romantic connection they had evolves into a f*ck buddy scenario and stays that way.
Apparently she got tired of waiting that she felt this guy was a good match for him to finish Insider
I think you're lucky to find a man like him. I know it because I've been there myself.
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1 6I think it just has to do with sexual enjoyment. He didn't want to have children but you ensured him that you were okay with it and that you were on birth control so he went for it and now cuming in you is like ecstasy to him.
1 0 0 0why so drastically? well I don't think it really matters why it was so sudden. maybe he literally came to the realization that its okay because you take birth control seriously and if something bad were to happen then there is plan B and other options you two can consider.
0 0 0 0It feels roughly 7 times better to go inside. So his brain said "god dammit, this feels really nice. she's on the pill anyways right? Right. Im safe. But damn, does this feel nice"
1 0 0 0Maybe he's trying to get you pregnant!
0 0 0 0"Does this correlate with his feelings about me?"
No.2 0 0 0It does show he's more comfortable and trust you but doesn't mean he cares more but could be a start.
1 0 0 0He's just stupid. Like yourself. Early congrats on your future pregnancy!
1 1 0 1Agreed. According to gee... SCIENCE... what they are doing is what makes babies! No child wants to be born into their parent's mistake. Especially when their parents were never even in an official relationship. How do you think that feels to know that mom was never respected and valued as a significant partner but just as some sexual toy that dad liked to orgasm inside of? Not cool. You're setting yourself up for a bad situation, @Asker
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