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Guys, is it normal my boyfriend isn't aroused by other girls?

So I'm a little shocked amused just everything but my boyfriend doesn't think other girls are hot doesn't get turned on by other girls just me he doesn't even look at other girls he seems very extremely satisfied with me he checks me out all the time and tells me how hot and beautiful I am but still I find this hard to believe is this even possible? Is there any guys just like my boyfriend? Because I honestly didn't know this was possible for a man like he doesn't masturbate he likes it just when I do it to him we are both 19 He doesn't even admire other girls bodies just mine please can someone tell me is this normal in a guy?
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  • Sounds like you guys are in this "honeymoon-phase" of your relationship. First two years. I was exactly like that. I honestly didn't suppress it in any way, I just didn't get turned on by other girls. Chances are he will get out of this phase again at one point and start checking out other girls. But don't worry, even that doesn't mean much. See, I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. I'm checking out girls ALL the time. I mean, I'm thinking about fucking every other girl that passes me on the street. It's pretty bad. However, I am still an extremely loyal person. One important reason for this is that I love to check out other girls but when I actually have the chance to get to know a hot girl, I'm usually too lazy. I personally hate this whole small-talk chit-chat "Hello my name is xxx, what's you're name?", "Oh, you're wearing a really pretty dress!", "You have such a cute smile!" arrgh... can't hear it anymore. Hooking up with girls is so much work. I'm actually really glad I don't have to do it anymore. So, is your boyfriend normal? Yes, absolutely. And even if he start checking out other girls again, don't worry. It doesn't automatically mean he will cheat on you.

  • He is attracted to them but he suppresses it, It's called self discipline and dedication. I see them and the sign in my brain flashes : "Not mine, off limits!" You are fortunate. And you know the key to keeping this: "he doesn't masturbate (and) he likes it just when I do it to him" Remain accessible and don't begin to ration it. Take your time walking the bases. A regular orgasm given to a guy by any means (including by hand) can keep him in the game for a long time without advancing to oral or intercourse.

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  • Count your blessings and do all you can to take care of yourself and maintain what is obviously a superior appearance.

    • You can also cement things sexually by role playing your fantasies. Also, at the risk of being a bit crude but accurate: a balls deep, joyful cum swallowing blow job has an inordinate positive effect on men.

  • Look, sounds like he's just telling you what you want to hear. As for the masturbating part... I've heard of guys like that. Not that common though.

    • Well I don't really ask him he is the one that tells me that and I mean he has friends that tell me too so I don't know I mean I don't mind I he did he loves me anyways

  • He may be one of kind.

    But if you ask me, I think he's full of shit...

  • It is normal because at the end of the day, you are the only one he wants to see. No other girls matter to him, because you are the only one he can see.

  • Well, he's doing well. Good on him. I had a brief period during my late teen years when I exercised some discipline and made a decision to only be aroused by my girlfriend and even consciously decided not to check out, perve or look at other girls.
    I am a tad weaker in will since those days and my eyes will wander like crazy.

    Having said that, I can see the appeal you hold for him. You are very attractive.

  • That means he is faithful and only attracted to u

  • Nothing wrong with him.

  • Not normal at all except that he won't need to masturbate if your doing it most of the time for him and having sex but unless your the perfect girl, or maybe the relationship is pretty new and he is still infatuated with you, after awhile we all look but as long as we don't act on it everything is fine

  • He just has a huge passion for you and doesn't need to lust over anyone else

  • I think he just turned off his sex drive a little bit should be ok

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