Is it creepy to think about your crush when masturbating?

[Anonymous]

I really really like this guy and have liked him for a while now, he's so amazing and hot. It's definitely one-sided, I'm not on his level and I know he doesn't like me at all. Often when I masturbate I can't help but think about him. I feel like such a creep. Is it creepy? Would you be creeped out if you knew a girl who has a huge crush on you but who you don't like masturbates thinking about you?

[Applefan1]

This is not creepy at all and anyone who says it is is wrong. It is normal for you girls to be masturbating over your crushes to. There is nothing wrong with you doing this. I would not be creeped out if I knew a girl was masturbating over me, I would be flattered. If I found out a girl masturbated over me I would be instantly horny, aroused, turned on and sexually excited more than words can describe by the thought of her getting herself off over me. I am sure i would even have a boner thinking about the fact that girl has just got herself off over me. I would be thinking in my mind "mmmmmm I want to help her out so much with this and give her what she needs". This is how I think and it is how most guys would think. Also don't let other girls give you a false opinion because girls don't talk about it as much as guys and some even deny it because of social pressure but the truth is most girls are masturbating over guys and thinking how a certain guy could make her feel good or dreaming about their sexual fantasies much more than they will admit. Don't stress you are a perfectly healthy young woman with a perfectly healthy sex drive. It is not creepy at all, just perfectly normal for you to masturbate over your crush.

[Applefan1]

Thank you for MHA

[OlderAndWiser]

It's not creepy but, by focusing your sexual energy on someone who is unattainable, you reduce the likelihood of finding someone who is available and interested.

[Your_boss960]

It's not creepy... But if you feel creepy you must be doing something else that's creepy. Are you stalking him?

[Asker]

lol no

[Your_boss960]

I'm just wondering. I felt really creepy for stalking this guy on Instagram.. So im just making sure

[Asker]

I check his social media now and then but I wouldn't call it stalking

[Klaatu51]

it's normal 2 the bone basically

[JackKerouac77]

You are so wise

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

No it's not creepy to think of your crush while you masturbate

[mrluscious]

I would love it. Wouldn't find it flattering or even exciting?

[abw121290]

I don't think it's that creepy to be honest.

[TadCurious]

I don't think it's creepy. That's the thing about fantasizing when you masturbate: it's really okay to fantasize about anything. It's your private time to make yourself feel good. Nobody's getting hurt. And nobody has to know but you.

[JackKerouac77]

Not not normal. So basically normal 2 the bone like Klaatu said

[Dandeus]

I can't think of anything LESS creepy.

[Skadouchebag]

Of course not!

[Skadouchebag]

Wait, are you asking if it's creepy that the person you're thinking about while masturbating is your crush, or if it's creepy that the thing you're doing while thinking about your crush is masturbating?

[Despondency]

Does this really require external input? Who you masturbate to?

[sealteam42]

Id send her a pic and say have fun lol

[Britishdude]

No I don't think it's creepy at all

[James19]

Not creepy at all.