I -love- rear entry positions. Spooning is the worst of them because it's really... passive.
But I'm not into them so I can avoid looking at my partner. Some of the time I'll hold her by her hair and pull her so I can see her face, other times i'll hold her in a position so she can't see me.
I just like the dominance of it, and the feeling of her ass against me.
Is it 'objectifying'? I think it can be, but... hmm. I find her submission to being used as a sex object hot. I don't just want her to be an object, I'm acutely aware of her being a person with thoughts and feelings, and it's because of that awareness that her submission to being used -as- an object turns me on. If she was just an object like a blow up doll, it would be terrible.
That may not appeal to you, just trying to explain -my- mind, which isn't universal i'm sure for all guys who like rear entry or 'objectifying' positions. And again, some people find things like spooning very intimate, lots of touching and skin to skin contact etc. It can be better for long slow sleepy cuddly sex than say missionary where he has to keep his weight supported.
Anyway, has nothing to do with 'how seriously' i treat her.
It's probably not just you, but you're being too insecure. Men (myself included) love sex from behind (especially the spooning position) and it has nothing to do with how a girl's face looks.
It's okay to allow guys to be sexually attracted to your body, and you should find it flattering. I'm sure they're still plenty attracted to your face; otherwise they wouldn't be with you.
You're not alone, though, because many people (men and women) are insecure about certain parts of their body, but you have to trust your partner being with you because they accept you the way you are, so let it go and enjoy.
Hope that helps.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Advantages of spooning:
1. Can be done while resting and sleeping sideways. Good of man, lady, or both are tired.
2. Allows caressing of female breasts and belly, as well as cooing in lady's ear.
3. Still allows thrusting
4. unlike "doggy style", penis does not tend to fall out when pulling back for the next plunging in.
*if* man, lady, or both are tired, that is. ugh typos
It's probably just you.
i love that position, it is all about the feel, and being able to wrap ones arms around their partner and hold them really tight, its hugging and sex at the same time
I think its just you. its literally just another sex position. you can do that AND a bunch of other positions in 1 sitting.
There's submissive and dominant. Men are made to enjoy 1. Women are made to enjoy the other. Too many people out there trying to fight nature and rewrite gender roles and filling people's head with shit. It's a real turn on seeing a women bent over in front of you. The beautiful peach shape of her ass, the slim waist, that widening of the back to the shoulders, the shoulder blades moving under the skin and the long hair spilling over her shoulder you can grab gently and hold onto. Why can't a man enjoy his woman from every angle? They're made to be admired
in my opinion spooning kinda sucks, it's kinda boring like mission
It's just you. So many girls ASK to be done from behind.
Yeah, that's right. It allows for deeper penetration.
I think it's just you. The things you list as drawbacks or ways of treating you as an object are normal sexual things that people do. Eye contact is great but it's not the most important part of sex.
Nope... Don't feel bad. boys want varieties... :D
me and my gf normally do it from behind, but that's mainly because she is a little insecure and doesn't always like when her boobs get to bouncing, I love it
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