Do you think I made a mistake by letting my boyfriend finish inside of me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I've been dating for about a year and a half. I guess you would say we moved kind of slow in our relationship, we were dating for seven months before I even let him touch or see my boobs for the first time. On our 1 year anniversary we both lost our virginity to each other. Both of us had an amazing night together and we enjoyed it so much we continued having sex quite often. I take birth control for female reasons therefor I've never made him wear a condom but I do make him pull out when he finishes. Both of us are getting more and more experienced as we go and each time I've gotten closer and closer to having an orgasm from sex and he is doing a much better job of getting me there. Last night he and I were having sex in his bed and it was feeling so good, so good that I felt like I was about to have my first orgasm from sex. I was laying on my back with my feet up by his head and he was on his knees. I was really in the moment and I said keep going baby I am about to cum. Well I guess when I said that it really excited and overstimulated him and he said I can't go much longer Im about to cum too. I said to him just a little bit more I'm really close and then he said I can't. Wrapped up in the moment and on the verge of an orgasm I said to him "cum inside of me if you have to just don't stop". Pretty much immediately when I said that I felt him finishing inside of me and I started having an orgasm and oh my God was it good. Both of us were having an orgasm at the same time and we were in complete ecstasy, I'm pretty sure his face even started turning red because he couldn't even breathe. That was the first time he finished inside of me. Did I make a mistake by doing this? What are the odds that I could be pregnant? Do you think he will expect this now? I'm not sure if I should continue doing it.

[BearsAnswers]

Birth Control pills, if used correctly, are incredibly effective. Coupled with him pulling out you will be fine moving forward. Pulling out is not very reliable on its own, but it will be fine if you are on the pill and using it right.

You didn't really make a mistake, but it was risky behaviour. He may not expect it in the future, but he will want it, so you will have to stand your ground and be firm about it being a one time thing. Which it should be. No point risking it moving forward.

Don't regret what happened, accept it and move on. But don't repeat it, if you want to be safe.

[yosimitesam]

You're fine. BC is around 99% effective and while you miss much more sperm when he pulls out, there's still millions of them in his pre-cum, so at this point I wouldn't worry about it.

Again, as long as you've been consistent on your birth control, your odds of being pregnant are very, very slim.

[Anonymous]

Yes you made a mistake. Yes, lots of people get pregnant on birth control because it is senstivie to when you take it every single day. Yes he will expect it from now on. You should get AT LEAST 2 forms of birth control EVERY TIME you have sex. Use the pill and spermicide/condom/diaghram, etc. There are lots of options you can buy at the drug store.

If you you responsible enough to prevent pregnancy or diseases you shouldn't be having sex.

The fastest way to kill your relationship and sex life is have a baby or get AIDS.

[Anonymous]

I was on birth control for about 3 years, always finished inside me, and I never got pregnant. When I decided to have a baby, it only took 3 months to fall pregnant. So clearly the BC was doing what it is meant to. It's actually a highly effective form or contraception. If you enjoy him cuming inside (I love it) then you should be fine to do it if you keep taking BC as prescribed - any failures of BC is because the girl forgets to take it.

[emilyyy23k]

I think you'll be okay! There's always a chance of course.. but if you are really good about taking your birth control pills every day at the same time then you should be fine. If you're really paranoid then I'd suggest getting the Plan B pill pretty quickly. Don't make it a habit because it could definitely get you pregnant, but once in a while is okay I think. Just be careful :)

[Blondiee2014]

Well by the sound of it that was a good decision to let him finish inside you.
You don't want to be pregnant I take it so if you find out you aren't then you will be glad you let him as it is a great memory.

[TadCurious]

Nah, don't worry. You'll be fine. Great description.

[RayNavy]

As long as you take birth control and better yet, get the morning after pill you should be good.

[Anonymous]

So is he still finishing inside you?

[Asker]

No he doesn't. His birthday was 2 weeks ago and I let him finish inside me that night but those are the only 2 times. I just think it's to risky. I compromised with him tho and I let him put his dick in my mouth when he cums and he is very happy with that.

[Anonymous]

Anyone else get turned on by this?

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[Anonymous]

Birth control pills really aren't that effective, they are mostly used as a last line if defense. You should be smart enough to know that you NEED to use a condom, even if you are on birth control, because there is even a slight chance that he can get you pregnant from small amounts of sperm in his precum (or so I've heard) if he isn't wearing a condom. So yeah, its pretty likely that you are pregnant. But you won't know until you take a pregnancy test.