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I got caught masturbating, I'm so embarrassed! has anyone else been caught before?

I was completely naked, i had one finger penerating my ass and i was slowly grinding my pillow. I thought i was home alone or usually i leave a top on and get under the covers. My stepdad walked in on me, he was going to the coffee shop and just wanted to ask if i wanted him to pick me up something as well. he just said whoa! oh! sorry, i just getting a coffee, wanted ot know if you wanted anything. i screamed when i heard him say whoa! and quickly put the covers over me. How do i face him? Show i say something? we are both adults, this is so uncomfortable. Has anyone else eve been in this situation? what did you do?
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  • Were the lights on where he could see everything in great detail? If you had the bedroom door closed and he walked in without knocking, he should be apologizing. You know, I hope, that there are times when he is in his bedroom, or the shower, doing the same thing, right? Just because he is married doesn't mean that he never makes the bald man puke.

    You must also consider the possibility that he wanted to catch you in this situation. It is not unusual for stepparents to feel some lust for adult stepchildren. He may have listened at your door and entered because he heard the sounds of arousal. You need to be concerned about this possibility. If he's a perv, he may be doing other things like sniffing your used panties. You can set a trap to catch him if he's doing that.

    Your choices are to either pretend it never happened or to make a joke about it ("hey, you know I generally charge big money for that kind of show!"). You can bet that he will never tell your mom what happened because he was a fault for walking in on you. The discomfort of the situation will go away eventually.

    • no no he's not a perv at all. He's was just shocked! He quickly looked away. It was during the day so i'm sure he saw everything once. But in no way is he a perv. I did close my door, but it wasn't locked. I didn't think anyone was home.

    • Pervs can be good at covering their tracks. Start paying attention to your dirty clothes basket to see whether it has been disturbed when you were away from the house. It doesn't hurt to check this out. Assuming that he's not a perv, he owes you an apology for walking into your room without knocking and waiting to be invited in.

  • Apologize to yourself and to him for having to go through that, and just ask him to be more considerate of your space and privacy, everyone does it so don't worry, it might be awkward but it's an elephant in the room so you kinda have to just laugh it off with him and never talk about it again.

    P. S Finger in the bum? Why can't I ever find a girl who like that? And I've been with LOTS of girls, tell me, is there a sign? Lol maybe I should ask that as a question on GaG

    • there's no sign lol i don't know if i want a male finger in my ass. Your fingers are too big! lol

    • Why did this get downvoted?

    • It feels good, i'm not sure why more girls don't try it. A lot of girls on this site are so against anything to do with any type of anal lol

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  • I have been caught before and it was by a very good friend of mine he got a house key from my gf cause he wanted to surprise me on my birthday so he snuck up to my room which has a pretty sound proof door and walked in but what he saw he wasn't expecting so he became as red faced as he possibly could made a bunch of sounds like he was trying to talk and just turned around so I finagled what I was doing threw on a shirt and just got up and started talking to him I dint bother with underwear or pants cause he already saw it an I wasn't really bothered by him seeing it my gf had already told him plenty stories of our sex life

    • Whoa he is lucky!

  • It has probably happened to most of us at one time or another in our life time. Some times you don't even realize it happened. Just act normal he is probably more embarrassed about the incident then you are.

  • Just behave natural and then you show you find this a normal thing to do. You can ask him (reverse the problem): I hope I didn't embarrase you. Didn't know you were home.

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  • Omg !

    Just act as if nothing happened
    Eventually the awkwardness will wear off

  • Believe me. He was probably caught yanking it himself. Part of being an adult is to recognize that we are human and we ALL have faults and selfish desires. My mom accidently barged in on me fucking my GF!

  • I vaguely remember being caught when I was a teenager. Though not naked just my hands down my pants. After that I pretty much told everyone to knock on my door before entering my room which is just a nice idea in general.

    Just tell him to knock for now on and hopefully he'll be mature about it. :)

  • He is probably just as embarrassed as you. Look 95% of us masturbate. I'm sure your step-dad did. He may still jerk off. Just look him in the eye and say..."I bet that was just as embarrassing for you as it was for me" and leave it at that.

  • Oh wow. I am embarrassed for you lol. Honestly there is really nothing you can say in that matter. Just go on about your day even though it will be awkward

  • I got caught the first time i even masturbated ! xD haha it sucked and i posted a question asking what i should do too LOL. I just ended up not bringing it up with my mom and after like a week the whole incident wore off

  • Yes I have many times!! My mom walked in on me just as I was going to cum! She walked out we talked later she was ok with it. She said when I do lock your door or make some noise so I won’t come in next time! I got caught by brothers we ended my masturbating together!

  • Lol this made me laugh so hard, sorry tho, I know this must be embarassing af. I would be embarassed to. But what were you doing with a finger in your ass?

    • lol good comment

    • some people like but stuff. or just exploring out of curiosity. :)

  • Never been caught but if I did I would just go on with my life, I'm not embarrassed or anything, it's a natural thing that a ton of people do. No need to worry.

  • Not masturbating, but my mother walked in on us when my girlfriend was sitting on my face. She left immediately and we never spoke of this.

  • damn!! i don't think there's something you can do about this... i would NOT love to be in such situation.. next time be more careful

  • LOL. Just pretend it never happened.

  • I have no shame. When people walk in on me masturbating, I tell them to get the fuck out of my room because I'm trying to jerk off.

    Face him like an adult, you've done nothing that you need to shy away from and he probably understands that, he even apologized already.

  • Lol, sorry for laughing. I only got caught getting head. The story alone is funny enough to make me want to follow you though! Lol.

    Just pretend nothing happened because I highly doubt he'll bring it up.

  • You can face him like normal. He won't tell anyone and men are really good at just moving on

  • I've been caught, my mom will just walk outta the room , I ALWAYS keep a blanket over me when I do it. Mum knows its just part of being human so she doesn't talk about it

  • Nope m. i have never green in this situation... Cause i always do it in my own private bathroom... HAHAHA lucky me...😁

    • * nope i have never been

  • Man that's weird.

  • *drool*
    More descriptions of how you masturbate please!

  • In eighth grade I was masturbating under my desk and my teacher saw me and just stared horrified at my eyes so I feel like I can relate to your embarrassment.

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