I take it this would be a turn on for you. I've had it done, watch your nails, lube is good and find his prostate. Look it up if you're not sure where it is. Try convincing him how good a prostate rub would feel. Tell you the truth I almost came having my prostate check by a doctor once. Believe me I wasn't excited about the idea of some strange dr. shoving his finger up my ass. If you go down on him, I hope, try it then. Just rub his ass asshole a little when he's getting in to the job. If he doesn't pull away try sliding it in. Seems to mean a lot to you, tell him that it excites you. Perhaps he thinks you will think he has gay tendencies if he lets you do it. Talk, play live laugh and enjoy the best time of your life.
Lead him in slowly rim him for a bit as your doing. Then switch to giving him hesd slowly and replace your tongue with your finger. Dont push it in just rub his anus whilst giving him head. Let himbget used to the idea of a finger in that area. If your lucky as your giving head he will allow it his as will relax and open a little for you. Still dont rush just let the tip in upto the first knuckle.
Iam not sure if you understand what you can do for your guy by fingering his ass. About 2 " in on the top side af his anus is the prostate gland. Its simular to a womans g spot. However it has pre cum in it and if stimulated right can give a guy an exquisite orgasm.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Sticking things up an asshole is like driving down a one-way street the wrong way: in the long run, no good will come from this and no good will cum from this either.
Does he give you anilingus? Does he stick his finger in your ass?
Offer to trade, aka anal.
He may be squeamish because he doesn't want your finger to get dirty. So let him know that you'll wear a latex glove and use water-based lube. Suggest that he read up on prostate massage, and how deep of an orgasm that can produce. He can just Google it. He may get intrigued and finally cum around to letting you do it.
Stick your tongue in while licking and then rub it (his asshole with your finger) in a circular motion whilst applying increasing pressure. Remove finger and again lick with tongue. Repeat process until you're allowed to insert finger. Remember, his denial is a combination of both insecurity and pain. You will need to comfort both before be will allow you to go any further but, he will eventually cave both literally and figuratively lol.
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Tell him that would really turn you on. Make it about you instead of about him. Offering reciprocity might work, too. Don't try to talk him out of specific objections; stay with the angle that it's something YOU want to do.
You are going to get E. coli. It isn't pretty. It is deadly.
Could be a tough one. I can't imagine wanting to have something up my ass.
But I suggest letting him know like a day before instead of asking during
i have talked to him about it outside of the bedroom. But he always says no
Yeah there won't be much hope for that. Its a one way road for most guys. Just make sure he knows that you reaaally want to do it but dont bug him about it, just hope he will think to let you try it
Offer him something he wants to do in exchange.
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