To answer your question... yes. Consider doing it with a dildo, you can control things. Or find a guy who has had sex before and who is patient and willing to go real slow. You may think you are small, but a vagina is made for a penis, just take it slow, use a lot of lube and talk with each other.
The hymen can be removed surgically. The odds are you would be just as sore recovering from that.
You being tiny and the nature of your hymen are unrelated.
There's more going on then hymen stretching.
In any case build up to fingering with multiple fingers first.
Your hymen is not your virginity. It is possible to break the hymen without having sex, but this does not make you any less of a virgin. Also, you should probably talk to your doctor about that. I assume (s) he knows more about surgeries than most people here.
You should really be talking to a gyn. A professional not people who can literally tell you anything. A professional can give you the best advice.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't think it is possible to have it surgically removed, but if you have a gentle and careful partner it should probably not hurt too much.
Depends entirely on your definition of virginity.
It's possible to remove your hymen surgically so that sex won't hurt the first time.
But is it really necessary? Your fingers can do it too: it's stretching the hymen, nothing more.
Take a look at some drawings:
youngwomenshealth.org/.../hymengallery.html
problem with the link:
https://www.healthystrokes.com/hymengallery.html
You can break your hymen without having sex so it won't be as painfull
If you're referring to the hymen, yes.
Nope u can't
just swallow some over the counter NSAIDS and you won't hurt when it gets penetrated
NSAIDS will make the bleeding worse.
I doubt paracetamol would do much regarding the pain
no it's not possible, buy a dildo and break your own hymen so the guy doesn't have to deal with it and you can lose our virginity in a painless way
No, you only lose your virginity when a penis penetrates your vagina. That is the only way.
No you'll still have your virginity. Eventually the hymen will break down by itself but you can get it removed. No hymen doesn't=non virgin
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