Girls, do you consider booty slapping, rubbing, massaging, spanking, & squeezing, really being a normal & an ok thing for men to do to their girls?

My main reason for asking this is because for some reason I see that lots of females do let their boyfriends do this to their girlfriends in their relationships; in order to spice things up. At the same time I also have observed many negative effects happening after the booty touching thing on certain occasions. I find this really confusing on not know if the guys are allowed to do this kind of things with their girlfriends or not, because things could change for better or worse. Me personally I've really had a girlfriend & never had a chance to do the booty touching for 3 reasons: 1.) I was too nervous to talk to girls back in school. 2.) I wasn't really much of an alpha male type of boy who was able to win the hearts of the girls. 3.) I didn't want to be a dude who would touch a girl's butt & try to get away with it like most guys be doing nowadays. So I just keep my distance away from them & just imagine it for the most part until I'm really ready to come out my shell & be the guy any female would want me to be. To tell the truth, I do love women's butt however I have no idea on what to do in order to please please them. So, ladies what do you think about this? Is booty touching a turn on or a turn off when your boyfriends do that to you?
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  • Well all I know is if my gf grabs my ass in public around friends or people we know and they notice us I'm taking her to the bedroom the second were alone to reward her for her ballsiness and partially me being wet and horny and it pretty much same thing in her side when I grab her arse the only difference is right there right then we start making out furiously XD all the guys we know always complain about us at parties or social gatherings

    • I'm really happy that you told me about this & I'm glad that you and your friends had fun during those previous moments.

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  • Yes. Just don't do it in public. Most women like the lady on the streets and freak in the sheets idea. I think it's totally acceptable when you too are alone but just pay attention to how she reacts.

    • Thanks for the heads up about this. Hopefully, when I get my dream woman I would fully have my way during my alone time with her & grab that booty if she wanted me too. I do hope that the booty touching would be enjoyable for her, because I know how most females react when a guy touches her booty.

    • There's a difference though. Most girls react badly because the guys who touch their butts aren't there boyfriend or are jerks. I've gotten my butt touch and I was appalled. If my (hypothetical) boyfriend touched my butt then it would be a completely different thing. I'd love for him to touch my butt all the time but I'd touch his too tbh. A lot of women also like guy's butts, but don't get your hopes up about having her way bc she could let you think you're in control and then take over.

    • You make a really big point with this. Thanks for explaining all of this to me.

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  • He slaps my ass I slap his, it's all fun. For some even considered a sort of dominance/humiliation play.

    • Thanks for the heads up. The reasons on wht I've never had a girlfriend & do the ass slapping on one is because back when I was in school, I was one of the nervous guys who were not alpha male material. Also the girls' butts looked so sexy in my eyes but I kept my distance away from them & worried about something different. I want to admit to everyone here that I have no dating & ass touching experiences at all, because I get a little nervous when it's my turn to do what the strong, powerful, & alpha males has already done many times before.

    • uh do note I mean this in a relationship. slapping some girls ass is disrespectful, douche bag not alfa male (and honestly alfa males attract drama queens which... not what I'd reccomend) slapping your girlfriends on the otherhand is playful.

    • That was one other thing I was talking about too; me being in a relationship with someone & me not having enough heart to please a woman in a sexy way. I would never touch a random woman's butt & walk away because that's not the kind of guy I am. I guess the only way know that is to experience it myself. Other than that, I would do whatever it takes to keep my good guy status alive & strong.

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  • It's a turn on for me personally I like it but not all girls are the same

    • Thanks for telling me this. Yes, you are right about some females love it & others hate it.

  • No slapping or spanking!!! but I’m weird

  • As long as it is only in the bedroom it sounds great to me.

    • Yeah, the bedroom sounds like a great place to be when it's time for some alone time with the woman of my dreams. Booty grabbing is one thing that I would love to do at some point in the future. Hopefully my future girlfriend would enjoy the booty grabbing thing without getting angry about it. Because there's a mixture of females who love butt grabs & others who hate it.

  • If I'm his girlfriend he can do whatever to my butt. I have a great ass so I also enjoy it lok

    • I also enjoy looking at butts to, but I just never make any moves in the ladies who are just super hot. I've never had a girlfriend so I don't know much about dating anyone at this moment.

  • My bf always grabs my butt. Especially when we haven't seen each other for a while. He is a lot taller than me so he hugs me and reaches down and squeezes. I don't mind it at all. Although I don't want him to do it in front of a lot of people.

    • That's good to hear. I wish I was brave enough to touch a woman's booty, but not all guys have that alpha male instinct within them. However, I'm an assman who has many perferences for. females asses. I love women with the perfect looking asses that looks really bootylicious & bubbly.

    • He says mine is very bootylicious. In bed he loves to spoon with me just so he can have my booty in a good position.

    • I love the way that sounds. To tell the truth, if I had a hot woman with a big booty in my bed then I would do anything to please her ass the way she wants me to do it. I really do love women with big booties, because those women really make my heart beat; my eyes grow wider, & of course my cock get bigger & bigger. Big Booties = Ultimate Masterpiece.

  • yes it lets the girl know that you love her for as john legend would say Love your Curves and all your edges lol I personally like it because it lets me know that he love the way I look even though I am a plus size female

    • WoW I'm glad to hear that. Big butts really turn me on, but I just don't have the courage to admit it to anyone. Getting a girlfriend is kind of scary for me because I won't know what she would be expecting from a guy like me.

  • Yes only if that's their girl... Guys like booty so why stop him lol

    • Yeah. I hope that I would find the woman of my dream so that could experience giving her the pleasure that she wants & maybe a booty touch if she's interested.