I am going to share far too much here... So when I watch porn, the women involved are nothing like the women I date in real life. In fact, I tend to watch porn for the situational aspect more than the people involved. Also, people can be attracted to various figures! I am in the same boat where I like big breasts, a round bottom and all of that fun stuff. However I also appreciate a fitness junkie just as much.
Keep in mind too, that often how we visualize someone is altered when we get to know them more. For better or for worse someone's personality will actually skew how people around them SEE them. It's a very peculiar human mechanic.
In short, don't sweat it, he wouldn't be with you if he wasn't warm for your form. Although I am hoping he is not binge watching porn when he seems to have a lovely caring and concerned girlfriend on the sidelines!
Those are just pictures. You're you. If he's affectionate and the sex is good, count your blessings and stop borrowing trouble.
If he's not happy with your body, tell him to go date someone with the body shape he likes. He should never tell you such things, even if he thinks it. He's telling you he doesn't like your body shape because he's hoping it'll bother you and you'll change. Don't change your body to fit his preferences, it sounds like you have a great body that you've put a lot of work into!
You can date opposites who haven't got the body you prefer, but you don't tell them unless you want to get to them and hope they change! Your boyfriend doesn't sound the best. He should love you as you are.
Honestly that would make me feel like shit! Cause if your the opposite of what he likes kinda feels like a downer right? then you think then why the hell are you with me? But yeah could be that he loves you for who you Are. If he finds em hot then he should respect you enough to keep it to himself. Cause what girlfriend or boyfriend wants to know who your checking out and find so errotic n sexy?
Get rid of him if all he thinks about is other body shapes. You don't need that hurting your self esteem. It's possible to be with someone even if they are not what you really like.
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Just because that's his type doesn't mean he doesn't love you. People don't always get their dream girl or guy but if he's with you he must care about you as who you are.
If he is with you, it means he finds you attractive. Its as simple as that. He wouldn't date you in the first place if he didn't like you. Maybe your not his typical preference, but that doesn't mean he finds you unattractive.
Yes i believe opposites can attractive but there appears to
be not much chemistry between you and him maybe give
this second thoughts.
You are okay since porn is unrealistic and 99% of women won't have bodyshapes like pornstars. You should take it as a compliment that he is with you because of your personality and when he matures he will see how attractive real girls are.
Loving someone for their personality is not a bad thing and neither is being a gym rat. If the love/emotion dissapates then you have a problem... til then let him fantasize... its just a fantasy and doesn't necessarily mean that's what he wants or will act on in reality.
I was the other way around... I watched and liked the skinny girls in porn but the girl I was with had more meat on her. But I liked HER, because it's not all about that bass (or treble), it's about enjoying their company too.
But were you still attracted to her? Or just a little bit?
Why would I go out with someone I wasn't attracted to? Of course I was!
If he doesn't appreciate you or like you for who you are and what your appearance are, then he simply does not deserve you.
He probably finds you hot. Us guys don't tend to date women they don't find physically attractive.
I think he's confused about he wants so maybe if you talk to him about you might get a better idea of what he does want and it would let him no how you feel.
I can find any body attractive, the way yours sounds is that you're damn sexy
your body sounds nice. you are probably overanalyzing and going full-insecure-retard. never go full-insecure-retard.
If this is for real,
then why cry over a no-fit?
There's plenty of guys that LIKE your body, et al.
and would make a much better fit for you
not to mention happier days filled with praise
If he's been with you for at least 6 months to a year, I really wouldn't worry about it. I'll be frank; some guys just get off to things they don't want irl.
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