Girls, Why do girls lets guys grope them?

[Anonymous]

So i'm doing a high school drama play and there's this guy thats one of the leads and he always gropes girls asses back stage, like its not like they let him , but its not like they dont let him either? He will literally stand and wait for his que next to some of the other lead girls or whatever and then squeeze the shit out of the butts and play full smack them etc. they sort of brush his hand away and look a little bit annoyed but not annoyed enough to do anything about it? Why do girls let this happen?

[blackroses88]

Ew! sounds like a creep. Can't really speak for them since I don't personally know these girls but my best guess is either they don't really know how to react, somehow enjoy the (WRONG, MOST DEGRADING) attention their given because they're not used to it, or they do like it to some degree because of a possible crush on this fool.

If a guy did that to me randomly and I had nothing with him, I'd shove or slap him. Wouldn't want to give the impression that I allow just anyone to grope me that isn't even dating me Much less in front of people.

[lumos]

- They might be too scared to make a big deal out of it
- They think it's the norm, so they try not to make a big deal out of it
- They might like it
- They think he's only joking around, so it's whatever
- They're so focused/busy with the play stuff that they can't be bothered to yell at him

[TazWax]

Females like to be touched even when we don't. We like to feel wanted.

[Deft_maiden]

Because women love attention and admiration.
That said, the more desperate you are the more extreme measures you take. Even making out with another female.
Not to be confused with bi and lesbian crowd

[BeingCreative_]

Sound like either these girls don't like it and don't know how to react (which is tragic) or they are young insecure and appreciate the sexual attention even if it is creepy. (Also tragic)

[Rissyanne]

Well if I didn't want him to... I would knock the hell out of him. But tell me... how does a guy handle being groped? If hot girl tried to squeeze your ass... would you throw a fit?

[SwaggerOnStupid]

I don't know, sounds to me like these girls need a crash course in self respect. If a guy were to do this to me, he'd be limping away in pain because I hurt his leg or his balls, or he'd be cradling his face from the jab I just gave him. No girl, should let a guy get away with this.

[unicorncupcakes]

that's sexual harassment
if the girl doesn't want it then yes it is sexual harassment
my guess is the girls don't know this and don't want to make a big deal out of it

[georgiaaaagirl]

when guys do that it makes me mad sometimes but when they do it how can you stop it besides telling them to stop.

[Anonymous]

It's not all girls as your limited experience in a small world suggests.
If you went to a higher class HS or lived where parents gave a damn about rearing kids, this would not be an issue.

These gals are so used to gutter thinking people, kids/adults in their community they would rather put up with him than create a scene, correct the problem (that has grown out of control) and just get on with what they love to do - stage perform and hope for the best and that this gauntlet will pass soon.

What do YOU stand & watch when you and others like you could make a difference? Begin by talking with him, then explaining the consequences... 1st as a solo, thereafter as a group with muscle

[Asker]

Right... You make zero sense and your assumptions are about as useful as a cock flavoured lollypop.

[Opinion Owner]

I rest my case what a low class place this is...

[Anonymous]

because it's not worth starting an argument and getting insulted and called a whore