He gets a boner every time he sees me, but says he doesn't like me. Is he lying?

[Anonymous]

So I've liked this boy all year and every time I see or hug him in gym I can see that he gets hard and his boxers bulge... a lot. It always happens when I touch him, even just a slight brush. We could be sitting in class and my leg touch his and he gets hard and has to excuse himself. He's a really popular boy, and I'm kinda a geek... but he seems interested in me. When I wear a short skirt in class he sits across from me and stares at ny legs and sometimes I think he looks between my legs because he mentions he likes the kind of panties I wear. But when I finally asked if he liled me he says hell no that he'd never go for a girl like me. So why does he always get turned on when I touch hik, and no other girls. He even got jealous when I was flirting with my friend, he went up to me and put his arm around me and joked that I was gis girlfriend and then laughed it off. Am I'm just stupid or could this guy really go for a girl like me?

[SNAG93]

He definitely likes u, but i think cos he is a popular jock and u r a geek that he feels he will be judged by others if he got in a relationship with u. He also mentioned that u werent his type which could mean that he is unsure whether he wants to be in a relationship with u, but he is definitely attracted to u. I would try and befriend his friends and make him see that u r popluar too and he might feel like it would be okay to go out with u.

[Asker]

His friends are jerks, they would never like me. They only like jocks and cheerleaders

[SNAG93]

Oh. This is a tough one. I would just try and be friends with him then and see how it goes.

[Asker]

I have... but when we're alone or no one can see it turns sexual. Like when he gets hard n gym I've rubbed his penis inside his shorts... and n class sometimes he's started rubbing my thigh while I was n a skirt then slowing started moving his fingers inside my panties to touch me

[SNAG93]

Then u r on the right track. I think it would best if u kept ur relationship private with him. That way he will feel more comfortable and u can continue ur relationship with him.

[Asker]

but if he likes me I don't want to be a secret. I want everyone to know I care about him a lot

[SNAG93]

Thats great that u feel that way. But i dont think that he would be comfortable with that. I think he wants to keep it private and if u want it to be more public then i think u should discuss that with him.

[Asker]

I've tried but then he keeps saying he doesn't like me like that. but then the next day he's back to touching my legs n class or putting his hand n my panties and saying how much he likes touching me and how hard I make him

[SNAG93]

I think he might be in denial. He is clearly attracted to but keeps telling himself that u r not his type. I think he is thinking that he doesn't want be in a relationship with u, but his emotions r saying otherwise.

[Asker]

would it be bad if I kissed him next time we're alone? or if things end up more intimate I do more than just touch inside his pants with my hand?

[SNAG93]

No, i dont think its bad. If u feel that way and he wants to then go for it. Have fun.

[Asker]

What happens if someone finds out?

[SNAG93]

Then u r gonna hav to deal with that urselves. If it comes to that then u dont hav to hide anymore.

[Klaatu51]

hahahahha definetely... his boner says it all u know...;-)

[Asker]

That's what I thought... and it makes me really excited and turned on every time he gets hard... I even started rubbing his shorts once n gym when we where sitting down and he told me not to stop and was making panting noises

[maggiexoxo]

Hmm... seems like he may like you... but he's too scared to admit due to the social hierarchy at your school. I wouldn't mess with guys like that though... if he truly cared about you... he would say that he did when you asked, rather than only acting like he likes you when you are talking to another guy :)
Good luck! :)
Peace
Margaret

[fashionista18]

He likes you if he gets a boner when he sees you or you touch him and the only reason he said no he does not is because he does nor want his friends to know because you said he the popular guy and you are the geek he want to stay popular

[Asker]

But if he really does like me y should that matter? He's been popular since middle school, that's not going to change

[fashionista18]

He thinks if he likes a geek than it will change

[Asker]

But that's stupid, and if that's the case then he should tell me that

[fashionista18]

He could also not want to be caught talking to a geek in front of his friend

[Stacyzee]

He's like you but probably cares too much what others think to pursue you.

[Asker]

But he knows I like him. Why can't he just say if he likes me, it sucks not knowing

[Stacyzee]

He should say it... but guys like him usually have this big male ego

[Asker]

So because he's popular and I'm a nobody we can't be together?

[Stacyzee]

I guess that's his logic unless he decides not to care about what others think. The way you describe him, he's clearly checking u out

[Anonymous]

he's a guy they get boners if there's a stiff breeze.

[Dani78]

He's using you for his pleasure. Don't bother with him anymore. He's a rude, immature loser.

[linkywinky]

The fuck did I just read?

[fashionista18]

Exactly

[sid312]

I wish i had a girl who would let me finger them in class. he gets to play wit the puss and doesn't have to take u out. He is living the life.

[Consultant]

He likes you, not sure why he's being weird about it

[Asker]

Could it be because he's a popular jock and I'm a nobody?

[Johnson123]

I'am 95% sure he likes you, why else would he get a boner lol. He likes you believe me :)

[ThePhantom78]

He does fancy you!! But he obviously worries what the other kids will think if he made it public knowledge!! He's being a fool!!!

[Asker]

Then y finger me n class where people might see?

[ThePhantom78]

He needs to man up or stop stringing u along. I was always a popular kid at school but I always preferred the geeky girls more than the barbie airheads. I had no problems hiding my feelings

[Scarecrow13]

Yea I would say he really likes you. He just doesn't want to admit it.