I caught my mom fucking my dad's boss. What should I do?

I caught my mom fucking my dad's boss and am disturbed by it. I love my mom. She's the best mom I could have ever imagined and as far as I've nown she was an amazing wife to my dad. Their sexlife has been bad for a while, she talked to me about it. She is extremely pretty, so pretty it's annoying sometimes to be her daughter. She's 48 (I'm 26) but she could pass for 35 and has a nicer body than most of my friends. My dad hower has really gotten old and can't keep up sexually to satisfy her. I am so disturbed, not only to catch her cheating, but with dad's boss? He is a huge asshole who looked down at my dad all his life, has been hitting on my mom, even on me one time? With his beerbelly and his tasteless tattoo. I one time heard him saying very disrespectful things about my mom to his friends at the bar, like she was some dumb whore he'd love to bang someday. Now I actually catch him pumping away behind the prettiest woman in town, her. I was so shocked I stood there frozen for a minute, went back to my place and threw up. They were so busy they didn't even notice me. I'm affraid the neighbors know too cause his car was in the driveway and you could clearly hear them fucking from across the street. I don't dare to tell my dad immediately, since I really don't think that would do any good. I want to talk to my mom first, but how should I go at it? What do you think the best way to go is? My brother lives abroad and he has been pretty distant for a coulple years. Should I tell him too?
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  • I don't think you should mention this to your father. It would probably break his heart, and he deserves better. I don't think you should spread it around to your brother or anyone else, either. That's only likely to humiliate your father.

    I doubt if your father is really too old for sex, but he's probably out of condition. It's time to get him back in condition as a sex machine, and then you can deal with the idiot boss. Even if your father is 70 years old, he can do that.

    Encourage your father to improve his health. Tell him you care about him, and he will feel better and healthier when he gets back in condition. It will also please you, and he will probably have a better relationship with your mother too. He needn't grow old before his time.
    Watch this. Fluoride poisoning has a bad influence on sex drive and fertility. There are antidotes. like vitaminc C and E, and minerals like iodine, selenium, boron, and calcium. Take vitamin C on its own, or with vitamin B, about 12 hours apart from the others.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH_y3Cw8MVg


    Fluoride poisoning also causes premature ageing, and other problems. Prevention is better than cure.
    Fill him up with the sex vitamins and minerals, mainly zinc, vitamin E, and magnesium. Have him take them with or after his evening meal.

    Also google search obesogens, and make sure he avoids them.
    If he's overweight, he needs to lose it. Get his waist measurement below his hip measurement, and preferably a waist/hip ratio of 90% or less.
    If he can't run a mile in 8 minutes or less, he's unfit and needs to improve. He may have to walk at first, before he can run.
    Exercise will help plenty, and it will improve his sex drive.

    I'm 63, and recently I've banged women in their 30s. They're not disappointed, and even thought I lied upwards about my age. I'm currently engaged to a 38 year old.

    Your father can do it if he wants to, and he'll be a happier man. You'll be happier too, regardless of what your mother does about her sex life.

  • Some will say to keep out of it - it is for your mother and father to worry about and not you. But that is wrong. First, you have been drug into this by catching them at it. So do you say something or keep it quiet. If you keep it quiet, then you can be considered to be hiding that from you father, which would be hurtful to your relationship with him. So I would suggest you do say something.

    And I would actually start with your mom. Tell her what you just told us about seeing it, and also about it making you throw up. Then tell her you are giving her the chance to be the one to tell your father. But let her know that you will be talking with him soon to be sure that she has discussed it with him.

    Where was your dad while this was happening? At work so his boss knew he could go to his house and bang his wife? What an asshole the boss is. And he is likely to brag about this to others in the not distant future. If your dad hears about it that way, that could kill him.

    • That's a good plan I think. And yes my dad was at work. And since my mom is like very guy in town's dream, I also fear that he's gonna brag about it.

    • Well, it will kill him to learn of it, but better to hear it from family that to find out from others laughing about it. I don't think much of your mom, by the way.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I must say this makes a very interesting story, and I can't wait to see how it ends.

    Could you give me the title of the book please.

  • Tell your father and spare him from spending the rest of his life with your good for nothing cheating mother.

  • None of this excuses her ratchet behavior.

    Divorce if you can't take your vows seriously.

    • Tell her you know about everything

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  • How is the business structured. If he is the boss and just an employee, you may want to go after his job. Hurt him where it hurts.

    Your mom is a sad thing. A man who disrespects her husband should be seen as disrespecting her but she joined forces against the husband in the worst way. You may need to sit your dad down and form a plan to put her out.

    Sad, there are no winners in this especially you. You can now see why God said a woman like your mother should be stoned to death for committing adultry. She is blessed.

    • What the hell, my mom shouldn't be stoned to death. She has done amazing things for everyone. This is the first bad thing I saw from her, and it's really bad. Still I know she wouldn't do it to hurt my dad. I think she just made a very big mistake. I guess I should talk to her to find out how this all happened.

  • I think 90% of this generation of females in the US are boinking the boss, so this isn't anything exceptional. Doesn't matter how much of a jerk he is or how unattractive, money and status are everything to this generation.

    So don't get upset, she's just doing what they're all doing, and I'm sure she will tell you that if you try to criticize her. Best to look the other way, all around.

    I like China better.

    • 90% is seriously exaggerated but it's true that it happens an awful lot. I heard of friends of mine who did it but they want to keep it a secret, only told their closest friends. So I wonder how many keep it a complete secret. And yes for women money, status, power, success, leadership, etc have something attractive. It also makes the man more confident and women love that. But still, when it's your mom, you can't imagine how it feels.

    • I stick by my estimate, of course there are no statistics on this... if it's not 90% it's because the bosses are quite often gay. A lot of companies;ately put gays into supervisory positions largely because it avoids sexual harassment lawsuits and the like... they know also how common this is these days. Actually it was common earlier, but it was mostly kept quiet as you say. Now it's usually pretty open.

  • you are a guy.

  • Wow. Sounds like a movie script honestly. There's no easy way to go about this. I think you should confront your mom first though.

  • Although we often assume that the guy in a situation like this will be devastated, it's also very possible that he may find it incredibly exciting.

  • I can't say your mom is perfect if she did that...

    • I know. I am shocked by this.

    • I think you should talk to your brother about it. Even if he's been distant he's still your brother and your parents' son. You should also talk to your mom about it.

    • First brother or first mom?

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  • Wow. I do not envy your position at all. That's a really tough one.

    Personally, I think I would tell my dad and let him handle it how he wants to handle it. Your mom has lost all rights to a fair trial and your dad has a right to know so he can quit his job, file for divorce, and begin his life over again if he so chooses. Otherwise, he has the right to confront your mom about it to try and work out their problems.

    Your mom may be hot. Your dad may be losing his sexual prowess. But that doesn't justify your mother breaking a vow she made and fucking another man in your dad's bed. That is the apex of disrespect.

  • you know what is worse than cheating? trying to explain why you did so, talk to your mom and tell her she needs to tell your dad or u will.
    your mother didn't take under consideration that she has a family and she is a married women absolutely inexcusable.

  • OMG!! talk to your mom about it

  • Lol white people.

    • You must tell your dad whatever the consequences. Otherwise you hate your dad.

    • couldn't help but laugh at your answer :D

    • I'm sorry guys 😂 i had to upvote this cause i don't think any other races would be doing this 😂wow

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  • Oh my god. Your dad is going to be so soul destroyed when he finds out. His boss and his wife, that's worse than anything. And what a bitch your mother is for doing it, I mean if she wanted to get laid and she's as hot as you say then she could've gotten some guy your dad doesn't know at any bar or even on the internet. What a total bitch.

    This is double murder suicide potential. I think you shouldn't tell your dad or it could end badly for the three of them.
    Don't forget, what he doesn't know cannot hurt him.

    • Wrong

    • in my opinion it's not double murder suicide potential. This isn't a television series. If every man who discovers his wife cheats did that the streets would be filled with blood. Women cheat just as much as men.

  • No don't think you should tell your brother just said your dad was old and let his self go
    mom has needs your dad was not able or interested in filling them. May I ask if you like to
    fuck your dad boss or join in while mom fucking him

  • fucking slap that slut mom of yours right across her SLUT FACE

    you think she's a good mom? Think again.. she's a cheating slut and she deserves to be talked shit to by the beer belly boss guy. He is RIGHT

  • All I can say is wow

  • "She's 48 (I'm 26) but she could pass for 35 and has a nicer body than most of my friends."
    "My dad however has really gotten old and can't keep up sexually to satisfy her."

    Some say "Age is only a number." This disproves that once more.
    Do you really think your dad hasn't even a hunch about it? At his age? He's not a teenager.

    Keep this where it belongs:
    It's between her and her husband, not between her and you or between her lover and you. They're adults. Act like an adult too.

    • An adult would tell their dad.

    • An adult would keep his nose out of another couple's business.

    • Not if the adult is related to the couple their child. This isn't a stranger who is looking in on the situation this is someone who is directly affected by it

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  • U should tell your mom immediately. Fuck you mom she's a dumb cheating whore the same as the boss said.

    • Dudes down voted me. Wtf is wrong with u smLl dick mother fuckers.

    • That's cause you're a sick asshole. And don't call me a bitch.

    • I called u a dumb bitch get it right dummy.

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  • You should talk to your mom about it.

  • Yes you should speak about it to your mom and defiantly tell your dad about it... Your mom is not a nice person if she can cheat on your dad... And i am sorry you had to find out about this the hard way... You must be crushed... After seeing what happened...
    And i can't believe that she fucked him even when you were in the house... Didn't she care about it at all?

    • She didn't know I was coming over.

  • If you really care then you'll confront your mom about it. I don't think your brother should know as you said he has been distant for a couple of years.

  • What a perfect mum who cheats on her husband.. Really..

    • Perfection wouldn't be human.

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