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My girlfriend is asking me to wear a chastity device. I love her, so what do I have to do?

We are together since January 2014, and we were very nice couple. Three months ago she started to be drifting into jelousy, and had thoughts of me cheating on her. Last week she approached me to chastity devices which I have to wear one, and she hold the keys. I searched on the Internet for this, but I found too much FETISH things about it. What made me surprised is that guys who would have fantasies about this and NOT girls. I would not deny it that my girlfriend has a little dominant side, and she has very strong personality. I tried to remove this idea from her mind during the last week, but she is too much on this. I'm a little afraid that she may break up for this thing!!! Should I try it? Anybody out there wearing one? I need your help please!!!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • So a little rundown of what I know about Chastity Devices... and by the way, I am wearing mine right now as I write this.

    They can be a lot of fun or a total nightmare. Driven by how they fit, and also how you obey your Keyholder.

    What Kind to Chastity Device to Get:
    I do also recommend getting quality gear. If you are just testing the waters, a inexpensive silicone cage like the "Utimi Silica Gel Cock Ring As Male Chastity Device" will do, but I recommend getting something like a "Rikers Locking Chastity Cage" that is a little more robust but will still not break the bank. Nice thing is, both are on Amazon so you can get them in a regular brown box and no one is the wiser.

    Putting it on for the 1st Time:
    Take it slow and follow the instructions for sizing the correct ring. It best to start with a larger ring and as tie goes on you will be able to work towards a smaller ring.

    It Should NOT Hurt:
    The biggest thing to remember is if it hurts, you are probably doing it wrong and need to take it off and start over. A small pinch is one thing when putting it on, but if your balls are turning blue you can be doing some damage so; STOP, DROP, and START OVER.

    Basic Wearing:
    Basic day to day wearing of the cage is not bad at all but I do recommend building up your stamina/tolerance in them. Usually best to stat with like 15 minutes and work up from there. Within a week you can easily be up to a couple hours. I wear mine often for 8 hrs or more when we're playing and I have worn it overnight as well without any issue and very little discomfort.

    Playtime:
    A good chastity device will do just as it says, it will prevent a full erection when aroused. You can indeed still be brought to orgasm and even ejaculate while wearing one but that will take some work from your Keyholder which is all part of the fun as well.

    Side Note:
    If you let her lock you up, and be your Keyholder. She will probably soon want to take it to the next step and want to peg you; so be prepared to fully submit to her Strap-On desires. LOL

    Final Note:
    On a final note when being pegged while wearing a Chastity Devices. They tend to hold things tight (if its on right), and the way the cage fits the wearer, it has some crazy movement as it can wildly bounce up and down and side to side as you are being pegged and she is taking you to town.

  • Have you given thought to manning up, throwing the wench over your knee, and spanking her hard on the bare for being unreasonable? Either she trusts you or she doesn't.

Most Helpful Girls

  • She's obviously feeling insecure and is scared you will cheat on her..* you shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it though!

    • The issue is that I don't know what it would feel like to wear one!!!

    • Lol google and stuff? She's paranoid bru

  • Don't do it if u don't want to. She should trust you.

  • @SandPlanet is that you?

    • Lol some of these stories are too much xD

    • I was JUST thinking of that too when I read this!!!

    • Do you mean that who would wear these things?

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  • Hell man get a grip!!! You're not gonna wear this thing!!! Got it? You can tell her to take a hike on this one!

  • Tell her that no thanks you WILL NOT wear any such device. If she can't trust you, then you shouldn't be together.

  • What finally happened? You wear it now? Or she gave up the idea?

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