I get turned on thinking of my boyfriend banging other girls. Am I weird? I'm serious, not joking at all?

[Anonymous]

My bf and I have a great relationship. So far we are compatible in many ways. The thing is I'm not sure why do I get so turned on whenever I think of him fucking other girls. We talked about it yesterday and he was so shocked. I told him I wouldn't mind watching him fucking other girls but he needs to love me as usual. What I mean is he has to stick with me as my bf and forget about the other girl after he's done fucking her. Am I a freak? Is this normal?

[Sugardaddy870]

You just become swingers. You both have a full commitment to one another. Life, Family, Home, Kids, Finances all the normal stuff which you guys have joined together is still first and foremost always. You stay commited to those things and each others needs first and foremost. Other people are not girlfriends or boyfriends and their "Life needs" other then sexual respect is not important to you guys or should be cared about. (Meaning dont treat them like a lover and help pay bills or anything or get emotional involved with them) the two of you set the rest of the ground rules. like can you both have sex with other people. Can he has sex by himself , can you have sex by yourself. do you both need to be present when it happens. Can you have a sugar daddy on the side. If you can have sex by yourself or him by himself does there need to be a joint meet and greet and both agree to who the other will be sleeping with before hand? all these things must be discussed and talked about first and foremost and agreed upon and the rules to it set in advanced. Sounds like you would love to role play and be tied to a chair and forced to watch him do another girl in front of you or some fun stuff like that. anyway ground rules and discussion first.

[Asker]

Well I am not into other guys (even if he allows me to do so) and in this case he's the one who will do other girls but I swear it is just for me to watch, nothing more than that. He's a very jealous type anyway but I have no problem with that since I have no desire to sleep with other guys.

[Sugardaddy870]

Then I would have fun with it invite someone you guys think is hot to do that and sit back and watch or help him out together. Or make it a fun roleplay thing get online and find a hot girl and pretend you cheated on him and your punishment after begging him to stay with you is to watch him fuck another girl. you can have quite some fun with that one cause then the other person will think they are doing somehting bad too. or just invite a friend. all kinds fun ways you can do this.

[Asker]

That sounds great! Thanks for the suggestions

[Sugardaddy870]

Glad to help I like trying give answers that really help or give people ideas to make their ideas come to life more when possible. To bad we don't have pics of you guys so we can have fun imagine what your going to do lol.

[Asker]

Lol! That would be fun huh.

[Sugardaddy870]

The whole idea makes me hot of ways you can play it if you want to message me we can discuss them to hot for all these other people i think lol

[Asker]

Haha okay I'll add you.

[AustinMan]

It's just a fetish. I would strongly suggest you go slowly when it comes to living it out in real life. You might get the same charge by role playing that you're the other girl and just going nuts on him and letting him do things you might not otherwise.

What do you think?

[Asker]

I'll try that. Thanks :-D

[AustinMan]

Talk to him. Come up with a scenario. If there's a costume involved, they are very reasonable on the web. I'm thinking you're a nurse he meets, maybe in the ER when he "has something awry with his erection." Get deeply into role and be that other person. Hottest sex ever. If you'd like an account of a role play I did with my gf, message me and I 'll get it to you.

[Anonymous]

Wanna hear something even weirder? I hated the thought of my bf fucking some other girl... until he broke up with me because he wanted to fuck some other girl. The very next day, I got horny, took my vibrator, and guess what turned me on the most? Him fucking that girl LOL.

[Asker]

Wait. Do you mean he really broke up with you or it was just your thought?

[Opinion Owner]

He really broke up with me...

[CheerGirl38139]

It sounds like what you hear about people that are swingers. Supposedly they have sex with other people just for sex but are still committed to their own relationship. Maybe you could look into that together?

[wrestlingchick]

Give him to me! I would love to make it happen honey ;)!

[Asker]

Really? You don't mind?

[wrestlingchick]

well I live far away probably.. but I have fucked enough guys that were taken. Wonder if he can handle me tho! I am a very strong, big muscular black woman! I wrestle and workout so.. haha.

[Asker]

Ah yes. I live in Asia : but anyway you sound so kinky!

[wrestlingchick]

Inbox me and we talk further! :)

[Bananadream]

That's pretty weird. U want your boyfriend to cheat on you lol.

[Asker]

No I don't want him to cheat. I don't consider this act as cheating because I know it happens right in front of me. Cheating to me is when you are doing something with the opposite gender without your partner knowing it.

[chrisbigman]

Actually, cheating is when you have sex with someone other than your spouse - regardless of whether they know or not.

[Mesonfielde]

Well, "netorare" does have its audience, so you're probably not the only one.

[ArchDruidMordred]

As a human female you are biologically attracted to males how sleep with a variety of women.

[Sdexam]

Negative

[johnmsk]

It means u r open to open- relationships. Pvt message me if u want to discuss further.

[Asker]

No. I have no desire to sleep with other men. I just want him to do so. I will stay loyal to him.

[johnmsk]

It ain't bring disloyal if both agrees each is open in the relationship. by the way, r u bi or bi-curious

[Asker]

He is a very jealous type. He wouldn't allow me to do the same thing and I agree.

[johnmsk]

If u can persuade for a 3sum n u watch n play yrself as the other gal play him... then gradually u can change him..

[SummerS2007]

This is exactly what I want to do. Watch. And the more my partner and other girl do the hornier I’d get. I’m a bit jealous type, more in the past as of now and how these feelings Came about was when i found out he almost yes he still denies, cheated on me. i was pissed the first day or two then later I loved thinking about it. Knowing that another woman gets to experience how good of a lover he is. Gets to feel how amazing he makes me feel. When and if it does happen wine will be involved and I’d wanna just start slow. I wanna see them secretly touching, I wanna see her sitting on his lap and you know. Visualizing him takin his time wth girl but usually he’s quick with me. Sorry if this was to detailed. I had to take a lot out. Why am I like this? I need some real straight up answers. I’d get off watching my partner having sex and watching another woman make him feel good and him Making another woman feel good. That’s the highlight of it all watching him

[chnapo]

My GF is the same, and moreover she is very jealous, I cannot understand how these two can get together.. :D

[chrisbigman]

Yes, you are a freak.

[Bigboy85]

I think that's awesome you and him are like that ;). I think now and days it's normal. You all should have a threesome

[Sdexam]

You say it started after you think he cheated? My theory is this: once upon a time before I was tainted and torn by relationships andbI was a normal healthy person, the idea of another guy touching my girlfriend would have been a huge turn off!!! Now, after failed relationships and being cheated on, the idea of my girlfriend having sex with other men is a huge turn on! Its just a way the mind gains some kind of control and deals with sometging shitty we view as inevitable.

[Anonymous]

I would hate that and want to pull her hair out!

[Asker]

LolXD

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah! That would really piss me off 😡!!