Nervous about giving a blow job?

[Anonymous]

This may seem super silly. But I have been seeing this guy for a few months and we really like eachother. Recently things have started getting a little more "heated" but its only him doing things to me. I want to give him a blow job... because I konw he would like that (obviously) and I want to do something for him since he has been doing things for me. It was going to happen a few nights ago but I just couldnt. I was way too nervous. I just really like him and I've never done that before. I dont even know where to start and I dont want to embaress myself. He is the first guy I've really done more than just make out with and I know that he has done things with other girls before, so that just makes me more nervous because my limited expeience! I just want some tips and advice about what to do and how to get over my nerves!

[summerphoenix]

I was in the same position till a few weeks ago, he was the first boy I'd done anything with though he's more experienced. I did a bit of "research online" on techniques so I'd have some idea on what to do but apart from that I was just winging it. First off the most important thing is enthusiasm! At first I was really nervous about doing it but also excited, so just concentrate on that excitement. Make sure that your using your hands at the same time and alternate between licking, kissing and sucking his cock. It's really hot to make eye contact while your doing it so make sure to keep looking up at him. If your worried about how to pace it just put his hand on your head so he guide you, though make sure he doesn't get to forceful. Don't feel obligated to swallow though honestly it's not that bad. Aside from that just tell him it's your first time and you might need some guidance ;)

[Anonymous]

Lol I was in a similar position when I gave my first blowjob. I didn't know what to do at first, so I just gave it a little lick and got creative from there. Just remember to keep your teeth away from the flesh at all costs! And to get over your nerves, well, just start somewhere and bull through the fear. That's how I got over a lot of my sexual inexperience ^^;

[Anonymous]

honestly, I was in your same position too like a couple weeks ago... but I finally did it and it's not as bad as you think it is. Just be relaxed that's really the only key here, because if you're nervous he could tell and it will make the experience not as pleasurable. So just relax while doing it

[BIG_man_of_AnswERs]

thats cute aha, start off as you usually do but instead of freaking out and getting nervous when it gets "heated" just relax and when the thought of suckin him then go for it, slowly. so after he has grabbed your boobs or something make sure your alone and near a bed or couch first time, and make out and get him on his back, sit on his groin and keep making out, then pull away and alide down to his groin and slide his pants down and whit out his dick and gently rub then suck i guess aha :/ pretty self explanatory from there, after the first time it gets easyer just like the first time making out

[Anonymous]

A question to understand the set up. Will this be starting fully dressed or will he be uncovered?

[JackKerouac77]

Just tell him that and he'll help you. I promise he'll be more than willing to help.

[ThisIsMyUsernameYeh]

Just don't do it. Get married if you truly love each other.

[xHeyUx]

I wouldn't advise getting married for sex. Totally wrong reason, in my opinion.