Girls, Do girls think its weird if I get a boner while cuddling?

I've liked this girl for the whole school year and she recently told me she loves me. I was so happy to hear that and she also said she has strong feelings form me and wants to be with me. So today she asked me if I wanted to make plans next Saturday and she said "can't wait to cuddle with you? " I said yes of course but I'm really scared that I'm gonna get a hard on and she will get mad at me. I've never cuddled before and she knows that. Also how do you cuddle and what ways do you thing she wants to cuddle. Please help I'm really worried about this.
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  • That's a totally normal occurrence. When you cuddle her, more than likely you'll be spooning. Try to keep your hands away from he obvious places, unless that's something you both want. But, let her initiate that! You can stroke her hair rub her arm, put your hand on her leg, wrap your arms around her. Your possibilities are endless. Just go with what you're comfortable with! :)

  • I would be flattered. It should be okay especially if she loves you. Cuddle however you like, probably spooning so yeah it is maybe fairly likely you'll get a boner. But it's also likely that she'll be flattered and maybe turned on too

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  • not weird at all... sometimes just being in a really comfortable situation, especially with someone you are attracted to, causes the body to do crazy things.

  • Hahaa! She likes you! Boners will never be a turn off. It's natural and there's not much you can do to prevent it while cuddling.

    The way you cuddle depends on what your doing. . .

  • No I would expect it.

  • Not weird at all but she might not like it but who knows she might good luck!!

  • no, its okay

  • I love it. When me and my guy cuddle, I'll sometimes rub it when I feel it. Usually turns into a hot session.

  • She said she loves you and yet you sound like you are still in the crush phase?

  • No I think its cute. I like knowing that I turn the guy on even though I don't want anything overlysexual to go down