I'm insecure about my vagina. Opinions?

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Do guys think that certain types of vagina are unattractive? One of my labias is significantly longer than the other and kind of sticks out. Would that be unattractive? I know there's nothing I can do about it, except surgery and I definitely don't have the money for it, so I should just embrace it, but I'm always wondering if my boyfriend secretly thinks it looks nasty. He kinda pulled it one day while fingering me and it made me even more aware of it lol. What do you guys think? Or girls too, if you're into other girls.

gray_sailor · Accepted Answer

He pulled at it because it was there to pull at. There is no wrong vagina. Most guys don't care how they look, only that they enjoy having access.

For those of us that do appreciate the look of this part of a woman, there is no one right vulva. All are beautiful, all are different, all are beautiful BECAUSE they are different.

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stevie123 · Accepted Answer

Most guys are not overly concerned about the looks of a vag.
Yes, there are guys that won't like a certain vag for whatever reason.
Uneven labias are common, as are uneven boobs, and even guys balls, you may notice many guys left ball is a little larger.
No big deal in any case, they all work the same regardless of looks.
These things all make us individuals.

mei0313 · Accepted Answer

I've never thought we, girls could be insecure about vagina 😨🙊 before i joined GAG i never heard about innie or outie or longer or shorter labia 😳🙊😨 i think if a guy finds you attractive and has feelings for you enough to share intimate moments with you, he'd probably find your every part of body attractive :)

I mean i'd find every part of him attractive if i really like him :)😳🙈

No worry :)

chercheur · Accepted Answer

Not into other girls, but I can tell you everything you're seeing down there is very normal and you shouldn't be self conscious at all. All women are slightly different in that area and all are normal. I can't imagine any man ( or woman ) on the planet that would care if things aren't perfectly symmetrical. If you're healthy and he's attracted already he'll be more than okay with your body. :)

emilyyy23k · Accepted Answer

i don't think guys give a shit in all honesty lol, if they're having sex with you they're gonna be happy! they won't be like "oh.. her labia is uneven im not gonna bang her"

staytrue2 · Answer

Nope, never heard a single guy say he was never going to see a girl again because she had huge lips, hell some guys love it.

The guy is probably just as concerned about what you think about his penis size. It can scare the hell out of each other, but 99.99% of the time... no one cares. You're probably a beautiful girl, don't worry over something like this!

broadsword · Answer

Here is a link to an amzing piece of art work of normal womens vaginas over 400. So many differant shapes and sizes all are beuatiful. Please take a look and i hope it helps you to understand that yours is wonderful too and the right guy will love it and you.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

He doesn't mind touching it with his hand, penis and lips on it I'm sure he doesn't mind it looks different if he even notices.

Illusive_Man · Answer

Yes , we crack out a checklist and grade it as according to the standards set by the International Cunts and Vaginas Council.

Red_Arrow · Answer

His pulling it meant he was interested in it. All bodies have asymmetrical differences. That is normal, but on some people the differences are too small to be noticeable. You are normal.

matheus_mb · Answer

Don't worry, it's not something I'd think that unattractive and actually I haven't seen any guy rejecting a girl because of her vagina.

BIG_man_of_AnswERs · Answer

dont worry about it there's nothing you fan do about it. if its really bothering you just tell your man. just say oh im so annoyed about this blah blah

Ulyss · Answer

Pics or it didn't happen

Dargil · Answer

When I am down there for dinner or sending Junior home, I do not care in the slightest. The Creator did not make your V for beauty, but for business. Please, please worry about something else.

Sexualchrist · Answer

In my experience, all vaginas look different so its just expected.

As long as you have a good body, it really doesn't matter.

Look at it this way: there are guys who even fall in love with girls who have penises just because they've transitioned into looking like a beautiful woman apart from down there.

Philosopher_Edge · Answer

Didn't I already answer this? Or something similar?

Either way, my answer is the same. Be happy with the uniqueness of your body. Guys aren't going to care, they will just be happy that you decided to show it to them.

TJM27 · Answer

I honestly don't care about a vagina's appearance. All I care about is that it's shaved or at least trimmed, clean, and doesn't smell bad. I think the symmetry if the labia and stuff like that is completely irrelevant

emerald77 · Answer

If it's a vagina, guys love it lol.

TheOcean · Answer

You could just have it surgically removed

erekmax · Answer

generally, men are more concerned with the smell than the appearance

puma31 · Answer

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hypno-trip · Answer

I never think about vaginas I have no ideal image of what a vagina looks like and I think most normal guys don't. Some assymetry is natural with genitals I think you're fine.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Dont worry guys don't take this seriously... Dicks like all kinda vagina... :D

jayzee · Answer

Come on it is just used for sex. So does it matter?

tenofthepeaks · Answer

meh, i don't care about looks, just feel, we don't fuck with eyes

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