Do you think if guys who have sex with prostitutes are losers, then girls who have one night stands are losers too?

Considering girls technically just snap their finger and have sex with a random person they met for the first time for nothing but a drink and some kinky words, what they are doing is far less productive and/or useful than actually getting paid for it. Even though the end result is the same, having sex with strangers. But with all the social stigma about how guys are "pathetic losers" for paying for sex rather than having a girlfriend, don't you think girls who have sex with random strangers are equally pathetic?
YES, girls who have one night stands are pathetic
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NO, girls who have one night stands are not pathetic because they actually get laid without having to pay for it
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ACTUALLY, I don't think either of them are pathetic, it's their choice, and there's nothing to gain from being judgmental like this
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I DON'T KNOW
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  • I'll throw something else in, for you to think about too. Women having one night stands are far more likely to catch STDs than prostitutes. Prostitutes are normally better at practicing safe sex, because their livelihood depends on it.

    In Australia, prostitutes have a lower incidence of STDs than the average woman (including wives and women who never have sex).
    www.afao.org.au/.../...rier-to_-Prevention.pdf.pdf

    Much the same was found in the USA many years ago. Female university students had a higher incidence of STDs than the average prostitute.

    • That is very interesting.

    • Exactly most get regular check ups

  • SO MUCH SOCIAL STIGMA MY BRAIN IS FRYINGGGGGGG

    MUST ESCAPE THE HOSTILITY OF THE EGO

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAW1wj3Lx0I
    • Thanks for MHO!

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  • My issue with people who have had sex with a prostitute has nothing to do with them being "pathetic" because they paid for it. I don't like the idea that they may have had sex with someone who was forced into prostitution. Also, by purchasing the services of prostitutes, they're helping to provide a demand for people forced into sex slavery.

    • bs , NOT every girl in prostition has been forced... some do it for money because times are hard, or to pay off student fees, and some for drug addiction...

    • @Natedoggfamm I didn't say every prostitute was forced into it. I said they may have had sex with someone who was forced.

    • @Natedoggfamm easy money is an addiction too.

  • No because the guy having a one night stand isn't a loser either. One night stands are different than paying money to get laid by some dirty drug addict because you can't get any... It's paying to get sex that makes him a desperate loser. Not the fact that he has sex with a stranger.

  • Neither are pathetic, sex is great can't knock someone for wanting it, you don't know the reasons why they chose the route they did, it could be because of high standards or just generally enjoying sex.

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  • I think they are all losers :)

  • wut in the world how are they comparable

  • Your're right, this is where double standards come into play...

    Sure, some guys can't get girls so they resort to prostiutes, but still you got them bar sluts and side hos... that go with any man in the club if they buy them a drink, and they probably fuck with five men in a week...

    Ask anyone like @Klaatu51 he'll tell ya that some higher class prostiutes can be cleaner and better looking than some of the sluts you find in bars...

    Prostiutes might not even have to do like 10 men, probably just once a month and they get paid

    • where as bar sluts go with like 10 guys for nothing, at least them girls trying make a living, leave em alone

    • But thats a fact man... they r cleaner basically... o _O

    • Exactly all the professinal escorts i visited have been pro about their work, get regular std tests, clean regularly , and she even smelt better like a perfume than some average girl on the street...

  • Men who seek prostitutes tend to be men of lower standing, men whom even other men don’t want to be around with much less women. In countries were prostitution is legal there is HUGE amount of human trafficking which is consider modern day slavery. Men should be of moral standing and discipline not engaging in an industry that dehumanizes our female companions, daughters, and sisters. If a man wants to have a string of hook ups or orgies, that’s his decision but is not engaging in the immoral act that fuels such a depraved industry. Most women whom do prostitution are in huge need of help, yet these men capitalized on that for their own self interest, so yes they are pathetic.

  • Depending on what you mean by "loser" I think it could be argued that guys who see prostitutes are losers, at least in the realm of seduction/getting laid. Certainly a guy who is good with girls and successful at getting laid is the opposite of a loser in this sense, so by extension a guy who has to resort to paying for sex or going without is arguably a loser.

    I don't see girls who engage in casual sex as being losers, at least not necessarily. If a girl likes sex and is unrestrained by societal expectations and simply just has sex with whoever she likes because she feels like it then I think that makes her liberated/unconstrained and certainly not a "loser". Perhaps if the girl was having ONS but not enjoying them, but doing it because she was desperate for male attention, then perhaps she is a loser, in sense similar to the guys who see prostitutes.

    • I voted B. I one of those pathetic guys who see prostitutes - I don't regret doing that though, it's better than going without altogether.

  • Yes they are losers too... Losers..
    Wrong is wrong.

    • Why exactly is it wrong, though?

    • Isn't it double standards...

    • I thought you meant both are losers because it is "wrong" to do this kind of activity

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