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How do I get my boyfriend to cum during deep throating?

My boyfriend and I have worked together everyday on getting me being able to deep throat him and I can consistently get him all the way down multiple times in a row successfully for increasingly longer periods of time. I know he's enjoying it, but how to I get him to finally cum down my throat? He normally has to use his hand to get him over the top and cum in my mouth during oral, so I'm worried he won't be able to this way. Are there any specific techniques to get him over the top or is it just a matter of time (we've only been practicing for a week)? He's promised me a champagne toast when it happens, so I'm motivated to give him this pleasure.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • it can be difficult and different from guy to guy.
    problem with deepthroating can be that you either don't do it fast or tight enough compared to him finishing with his hands.
    try to get him off with regular bj + hands and when you notice that he's about to cum try deepthroating.
    I personally let them old my head and rough facefuck me but that needs some experience and isn't something for everyone. if you wanna try it out you can train with a dildo, helps a lot. use a double dong, soft and not too thick.
    but be careful, if he cums in your throat in the wrong moment it can end quite messy ;)

  • It doesn't always happen in the training season,
    so "in time", I agree.
    My crystal ball says it will happen one time when you surprise him, take charge and stuff it down when he's been w/o sex for awhile... perhaps he's also tied up so he only can think about pleasing himself and not "directing traffic" nor "be the teacher".

    Aside: I still don't understand how a guy can make a gal SO motivated to train like this and the payoff offered is... a glass of sparkle wine... she could easily for free herself at any bar for just showing up & sitting down.

    • I surprise him quite often. No, the payoff would be making him come b/c I want him to have that pleasure so I'll be patient and keep trying as long as he's willing. The champagne was my suggestion at having something to celebrate when it finally happens. I am motivated b/c he treats me like a queen and will do everything to make me happy in return. There is nothing better than keeping things fun and adventurous with the person you love.

Most Helpful Guys

  • https://cdn.meme.li/i/mglyn.jpg

    I admire your dedication and hard work. I don't think you are doing anything wrong, keep him communicating so you can do more of the deep throating towards the end. It's tough. I never cum during deep throating or oral in general either unless I'm face fucking so good luck. Keep practicing.

    • Yes, communication has been key during the learning curve and thank you for the compliment. As the only girlfriend that has been willing to do this, I know he's feeling quite lucky (although he considered himself very lucky beforehand as well.) I will definitely keep practicing as I find it enjoyable too. It's all part of the fun we bring to the relationship, in and out of bed.

  • I dont usually cum from being deep throated. Its best t work the head of his penis while milking and squeezing his balls. Till he is about to pop off. Then let him plunge his shaft down your throat if thats what you want.
    But hell yeah I do applaud you.

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  • I would think if you work out a signal to let you know when he's about to come and then you take it deep as just he is squirting

  • Oh dear, the realm of the porn addict.
    Consider charging for it. The porn stars get paid for that shit.

  • Is the tongue immobilized during deepthroat? If not, put it to work.

  • Give him time to build up his load. This might sound like teasing but it will be worth it keep practicing and doing deepthroating but dont let him cum if he can not cum for a week it will build up till he can't hold it anymore and he'll cum down your throat plus it will be a big load too

  • Hot!

  • Don't leave this penis out from ur mouth until he cums

  • You're going to have to take him in a lot more often than just "multiple times". It would probably be more like pounding your throat.

    • ^ this. sucking dick feels good to a guy, don't think you are doing anything wrong. He's still turned on by it. But if you want him to cum from it then he needs to really pound your throat. I don't know if you are ok with that, want that, or if it something that may turn you off or make you have a bad reflex. The reason why men can cum from their own had is because they know the speed and thrust they need. they go at it and get it down. But in your mouth you are going too slow for him to cum

  • bring the hot 20 years old neighbor girl to do it to him... he'll cum in 10 seconds... .

    • You're a pig. My boyfriend is not. He would never even consider this, even in jest. I know that the response will be that all men would prefer this, but a 20 year old could never come close to satisfying him in every other way, especially intellectually.

    • you know i'm kidding right? and yes, not all men are degenerate pigs like me.

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