Guys, he stopped asking me for nudes and Skype sex. Should I be worried?

We've been dating for almost 2 years and we've been in a long-distance relationship for the most of it. But he hasn't asked me for nudes or wanted me to strip on camera for a while. But he says that he's content with our relationship. So what now? Should I be worried?
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It's ok guys, not worried about this anymore. Thanks for participating!
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Lol just had Skype sex. All's good
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  • you have been togther for 2 years and he doesn't have any nudes? and it is LDR

    why are you even asking this? if your togther 2 years it is pretty safe in that he loves you. so it isn't like he is asking just because he only wants you for sex. If your in a LDR I would expect both of you to have nudes of each other to take care of the lonely times.

    • Er that's not really what I asked and if you actually read the description, I clearly said that I give him nudes. And I asked it because I was worried if something was wrong because he stopped asking for a few months. But it's all ok now

    • Sorry, I am on this board a lot while working. So I didn't read your message right. I thought it was the opposite. so... no I would not necessarily worry. How many does he need? pussy is pussy. 1 good picture of all your good parts is all he really needs... But the strip on camera thing? It is hard to say. If he has a stressful job then maybe there are problems and he doesn't want to worry you. but honestly the only way you can know for sure it to ask him.

  • Maybe he's burned out on it. Maybe he's having sex and doesn't need it anymore. Maybe he doesn't want you to feel its only about sex.

    So how long as it been since you two swapped pics or had Skype sex?

    I think it's really rad that you do that. I hope he respects that you shared yourself with him like that.

    • Since he came to visit my in February and he got the real thing. I think he feels the same way I feel about it really in the sense that after having sex for real again, Skype sex doesn't seem as much fun and I'd rather wait till we see each other again. But it's ok I'm not worried about the whole thing anymore.

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  • I think he felt bad that I wasn't getting any pics and wanted u to send them to me.

  • You know that he's probably having sex with other women right?

  • no no!!!

    that's VERYYYYYYY good basically... it means he's not a creeper anymore who wants nudes!!! he's goin serious!!!

    • Really? That's almost counterintuitive for me.

  • well try to see if you can move the relationship past that, hell if you want to do it for it, it worst case scenario isn't interested or best case your relationship has grown, maybe talk about him coming to see you or you coming to see him one day soon. that will tell you if he wants to see you, although I'm not sure how far you guys are so... t could be a factor on his decision to meet up, i dont know the situation.

  • I think you should be worried.
    Not only because he isn't asking you to strip for him but also; why the fuck would be in a long distance relationship for 2 years!!!

    • Actually we've only been in a LDR for 9 months while I'm studying abroad. And there's nothing wrong with a LDR. Not everyone has the luxury of being with their significant other everyday.

    • Is that really considered a luxury now? that should be the fundamentals of relationship

  • Hmm I don't know the guy but it seems like he is getting over your body. What will keep the relationship at this point afloat is your personality.

  • It means he's probably TOO content. We all have to find ways to keep things edgy and fresh.

  • do you normally do it if he asks?

    • He jokes about asking about nudes all the time but I've only given him a few. It's more like it's weird that he stopped asking. But we Skype sex often

    • why don't you initiate Skype sex if your worried

  • You can send him if you want

  • wow u r osmm

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