Guys, Where can I find a daddy dom?

[Anonymous]

I would love to have a daddy dom, i just don't know where to find one. I dont know how to approach older men either.

[BearsAnswers]

You can find a shitty one easily. Good ones, however, can be tricky. A lot of people that say they are daddy Doms are usually just inexperienced Doms, and are not actually experienced in taking emotional care of a little. It takes a lot of empathy, and a lot of caring, to do it well.

You can send me a private message if you want me to go into more detail about what you should be looking for specifically. If you don't want that kind of information, you may be able to find someone through fetlife or okcupid. But you'll want to make sure you're looking for specific things. You will get a ton of replies by guys just saying "suck my d@@k, slave" and crap like that, even though that has nothing to do with being a proper DD, and is a crappy approach even for a regular Dom. Messages like that are a sure sign of inexperience. And that's a great way to end up hurt. Being a DD takes forming a special bond, it takes a lot of empathy, and it involves a lot of nurturing. It is a mentorship and a partnership, not just a power exchange.

[kheserthorpe]

Sounds accurate to me based on no actual experience. How do you think good DD get experience in those things?

[kheserthorpe]

I'll just add to what should be obvious - most people don't know what this means, I only found out like... a year ago maybe? There's a user here on GaG who referred to it.

If you want an experienced 'daddy dom' you probably need to go through fetish sites.

Otherwise you just need to find an older guy who likes the mix of things you like. They are out there, they just don't know there's a name for it.

[DJ4856]

I'm not old enough but I'd be down :)

[Scrambled]

Which country do you live in?

[soberpiper]

Try here.. www.fetlife.com

[abc3643]

Plenty of them on the web will chat with you. It's a common fetish.

[abc3643]

For instance, you can go to chatiw. com and select by age. Lot's of guys use "daddy" in their handle. (I am not one of those guys...)

[wankiam]

hi honey, im here x

[Inkeddom78]

Have you tried fetlife? I'm a Daddy Dom and have met littles/subs on there with success 🙂

[The_Lone_Ranger]

Talk to guys that have been in big families. I'm sure they have played the father/big brother role at some point.

[tex45]

There are a few websites that can connect you. Shoot me a message for more details.

[FierceBrosnan]

It's paddlin time

[DogEatsCat1973]

PM me and we will go into lengthy discussions.