He says he's seen a better butt than mine, so I won't let him touch me?

[Anonymous]

I won't let my boyfriend touch my boobs, butt or pussy. We haven't had sex in a week, but I don't leave him dry. I still jack him off or give him a headjob I just won't let him touch me. He still tries all day to touch me, but I just get angry because then it becomes more about him not taking no for an answer and still touching me when I've said I don't want him to touch me in these places. Part of it is me being stubborn, the rest is because I don't want him to touch me if I'm so second rate to him. He said his ex had a better butt than me and that he likes porn star's boobs better than mine even though he knows they're fake but he gets so angry when I talk about getting breast implants. I'm frustrated. It might seem like I'm being a bitch, but understand me. I don't want him to touch anything I have if I'm so second rate to him. I'm not leaving him dry. Why say you like big fake boobs, but get so angry when I want to get them? Wy does he want to touch my ass when his ex's was so much better. I can't get horny anymore. All I think about during sex is how my body is so average to him. For girls, think about it. Would you want a guy touching you if you knew he wasn't into your body? I guess this isn't much of a question but I'd like opinions on how my sex life is. I'm starting to get depressed because I haven't had good sex in so long. I haven't cum in about a month.

[Anonymous]

It has nothing to do with anything you have done or haven't done , he has an addiction and much like a gambler he needs to cut ties with his smartphone tablet laptop TiVo etc , other things he will need to do is cutback on things that stimulate his his feel good sensors at night like playstation ,
My husband and I have been battling his addiction for 2 years. You can't bend to his addiction you need to be firm tell him it hurts you.. donot I repeat donot do fantasy sex ie dp fisting , he's prob gone so far past what normal sex is now he's only going to crave the hardcore acts.. You need to bring it back to a normal level.

He needs to find something to slow his brain at night things like crosswords or sitting out listening to the worlds noises
These things are helping my husband but he will still never be able to even slip once
or the hardwork will be undone
Your communication is crucial to helping him

[Anonymous]

I don't know him but I Think he didn't mean it personally. Ofcorse every single bodypart won't be the most gorgeous according to him and I agree that it is an unnecessary comment. But I don't Think he wanted to hurt you. I think he is attracted to you because otherwise he wouldn't wanna touch you in that way.

I Think you should talk to him about it and if you really don't want to just tell him you have seen guys prettier than him and see how he reacts. But I suggest the first one

[Smiles4life12]

My question to you is why are you still with him if he compares you to porn stars and his ex girlfriend? That's messed up. And if you can't have fun because he's made you so self conscious why would you stay? Would I want a guy touching me if I knew he didn't like my body? That boy wouldn't be with me if he couldn't accept my body.

[Red_Arrow]

"I'm starting to get depressed because I haven't had good sex in so long. I haven't cum in about a month." And who made the choice to not have sex

If you honestly believe your butt or any part of you is the most perfect in the world, then you need to reevaluate yourself. Your guy says he has seen a better butt, well I have probably seen dozens of butts better than yours. But he did not say he wanted to be with a different butt, l just that he recognizes that as good as yours may be, it is not the best in the world. And don't say that is not your argument, because your question says exactly, "He says he's seen a better butt than mine" Nothing about wanting to be with anyone else/

[soberpiper]

It sounds like he may not be for you. Perhaps he's no more attractive to you than you are to him? I really don't know what to make of it. If it doesn't feel right then it's probably not going to work.

[epiman94]

You're not being a bitch. He's the bitch. Move on to someone who will value you.

[DrKran]

You shouldn't even be with him if he's only with you because no other girl likes him but you. If you feel second rate to someone you're with you shouldn't be with them period.

If I was second rate to my girlfriend I would leave her, because if someone better comes she'll most certainly leave me for them.

Being second best is like being a temporary replacement for their lost. And when he's done with you he'll leave you for someone he thinks is better.

[DisastrousQu33n]

I'd dump his ass. I'm not telling you to do that, I'm just saying.. I couldn't be with someone who didn't make me feel like a princess.

[meatballs21]

Really? Last time y'all said it was porn that made you feel second rate, but you ain't leavin' him dry, yo.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1470677-porn-is-taking-over-my-life-making-me-depressed

[gray_sailor]

You beat me to it, I noticed the same thing.

[emerald77]

Just leave him!

[yogrego]

have you actually ever seen or met his ex-gf? and does she know that he compares your butt to hers and does she know what he said about having a better butt than you?

[Kreem4urkitty]

Feel for ya Homegirl? If u was my lady u can put your pussy in my face and cum in my mouth all u want.

[NewUnicorn]

He gave you hua frank opinion. He may like you more than the things you mentioned. He doesn't have to praise you and your things everytime. This kind of behaviour makes you and him depressed, which isn't of any good to anyone.

[jakeofalltrades]

why would you give him anything at all if he doesn't appreciate you. you should leave him hanging for a while, then maybe he will learn to appreciate you more.

[tahjay]

Call me 6788560776

[Anonymous]

Just fucking break up. This isn't difficult.

[Anonymous]

No one can be the best at everything, just because someone looks better doesn't mean he's going to pick her over you. The reason he's with you is because you're you. Not because of your body. I can understand why your stubborn but if he truly felt as if physical features mattered he would want to be with another girl but he's with you. Don't just base yourself off of you appearance :)