My boyfriend laughs at me when I have an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so my new boyfriend is really really good at oral sex. Like a god. He gives me the most intense orgasms I've ever had, shaking, squirting, the whole lot. But there's one thing, he always laughs at the way my body reacts to the pleasure, and it makes me feel really self-conscious. It took me a while to become comfortable sexually with guys and I feel actually orgasming in front of a guy is a milestone for me. How do I let him know it's bothering me without being mean or confrontational?

[DeadShot619]

I'd say he enjoys giving u pleasure so much he can't help but laugh cuz he's so happy! He's not laughing at u and I'm sure he doesn't wanna make u feel bad. If it continues to bother u just tell him. Honesty is the best policy. Just say it makes u feel really weird and kinda bad when he laughs while u cum. I'm sure he'll either stop immediately or explain n help u understand exactly y he does it

[DaveyBaby107]

My hfs body convulses when I'm eating her out. I laugh sometimes too but it's a laugh of pure joy, not mockery. Let him laugh. He's clearly enjoying how much pleasure you're getting.

[DaveyBaby107]

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[Cam700]

FirstLy I doubt he means this meanly, it's his way of showing how happy he is you've reached it so quickly and he's probably quite proud of himself.

Best approach is to be direct, depends how much you guys normally talk about this stuff, but if you don't ask outright you might not get an honest response :)

(Btw- you're one lucky girl!!)

[Asker]

I think you're right :) thank you!

[Anjelah]

U really need to talk to him about it I don't know really how but u gotta let him no what u feel comfortable or if he makes u feel comfortable..

[LisaX]

very bizarre. he sounds very immature. At least he gives good head! haha!

[dakraziest]

Think of his laugh as his way of congratulating himself

[Ulyss]

Dayum tell him to write a book I want to be as good as him anyways on to your question just say that it bothers you he'll understand

[Prof_Don]

I think he is playfully giggling because of how out-of-control you are!

Please don't be self conscious! :)

[NordicInvader]

If this is true... lol.

[RainRIyadh]

like a god !!! Lol
did u see a god give u oral sex before?

[Anonymous]

I think his laughter is just his way of showing excitement but if it bothers you you can talk to him I'm sure he doesn't mind.

[Anonymous]

I dont think that he finds it funny I think he find it cute. Whenever someone does something cute around me I giggle for some reason and smile :3

[Asker]

This is true actually..

[Opinion Owner]

yeah it is true for me so it might be for him too