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Girls, do you find spanking sexually pleasurable?

I'm just wondering if this is something true or not. Because this thing is a split of 50/50 & it seems like a lot of females enjoy being sexually spanked by their their boyfriend/ husbands while the others feel oppose it. I've always seen the videos online that the spanking really felt pleasuring to both the male & female, but as for me, I'm an assman who loves the ladies butts but I've never really had myself spank a lady before in my life, because it's just that I would sweat in shame if I was ever given a chance to go through the female's advances. I just don't really know how to please any woman without making them angry & screwing everything up. To be honest, I enjoy watch sexy but naughty girls get spanked in many different videos but I don't think I would be cut out to do the spankings just like most guys being doing to their lover only just for entertainment not punishment. So, does the spanking thing turn you on or turn you off?
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  • I think a lot females like it because most of us like being dominated by guys and that's a very dominating kind of act. And as for doing it randomly, as long as it's not a complete stranger, a girl would most likely be turned on that you had enough confidence to do it even in a non sexual situation.

    • I wish I had the guts to admit my sexual fantasies to the ladies, but i'm afraid of what they would think of me & how the outcome would be as well. I'm happy to be an assman but it seems like I have lots of training to do before I could finally become one of the best outgoing dudes who would be will to please the females' butts. Big butts is the type of butts I would love to spank one day & make good sure that i'm dominate enough for her & have her feel really comfortable while I give her ass the best pleasure of her life.

    • In my opinion, and I'm a pretty reserved kind of girl, if a guy I was interested in told me his fantasy, no matter how strange or random it was, I would just wanna fulfill it for him! Just something to keep in mind!

    • Thanks for telling me this. Come to think of it, I would love to do the same thing if my woman wanted me to the dominating thing with her. Because usually in life the men would do anything to please his woman with anything even if it's something sexually because it's good to take the lead & make the first efforts with them. That's something I would love to give her in order to make her happy.

  • I like it when mh boyfriend bends me over the couch and spanks me with a paddle it stings like hell and is quite painful and sometimes it makes it hard for me to sit after he spanks me but if turn me on. And I can take me then 5 if it'd on my bare butt

    • That sounds extremely hot & interesting.

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  • Yes!!! Not too hard. But a little ass smacking is great.

    • That really sounds good to me. It's one of my personally fantasies to grab a woman's butt for the first only if that woman was my lover.

    • Exactly. I'm only comfortable with my boyfriend. And he used to not want to to not hurt me but now he's worked up to it. It's awesome

    • That's good to hear. I'm glad everything is good with you.

  • I like being spanked or having my ass slapped by my boyfriend. He doesn't usually do it during sex, but just random times when I am walking by him or we are out places. It usually turns me on and when we get back we usually have sex.

    • That's good to hear. Usually whenever I see hot chicks around, I get nervous & blush because of how hot & sexually attractive they are. I just don't know how to bring myself to talk to them even if it's about their asses. Overall, I would just say that Iove women & their butts, however I just don't know how to express my feelings to them without freaking out.

    • Well if you are sleeping with a woman, just ask her what she's into or what she likes. If she's into being spanked well there you go, if she's not, its not the end of the world. You can still admire her ass.

    • WOW. Now that sounds like a great idea. I've never tried that before but I sure will do what I can to please that woman & her ass too. It's all about the booty for me especially if it's big & perfectly shaped. Being an assman really makes me happy & helps me being much more outgoing than ever before.

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  • i do find it sexually pleasurable... i like the pain and how my ass looks when it's all red...
    my favorite though, is being spanked WHILE orgasming...

    • WOW. I'm glad you told me this. I'm also glad that you enjoy this pleasure because to tell the truth a woman who's really sexually turned on gets me turned on too. I've never touched a woman's ass before but I could only imagine what the ass feels like head on. I'm an assman man who's shy to touch butts even though I love looking at them.

    • well when you are intimate with a girl... just start touching a grabbing... give it a light smack and see if she likes it... or ask if you can bend her over and spank her... she might like that..

    • I would be sure to try with my special future woman. Hopefully, it would totally be very enjoyable to her because most women are very sensitive with their privates & would do anything to protect them. Other than that if she want that ass to be spanked, I would be more than happy to grand her wishes. Then that would be my absolute first time to touch, grab, & spanked any woman's ass.

  • Not like a super hard spanking, but I don't mind a little tap while we're making out.

    • Yeah, that's one thing I would try not to do, because I hate being the aggressive type of guy who gives out really hard spankings, because I do hate hurting people. It's a dream for me to touch & grab a female's ass but I usually just chicken out & just have sexual imaginations about it. It's just that i'm a guy who's not as confident as the other guys who are into women's asses as well.

    • I don't want it to be where I'm bent over and he's spanking me... I just don't mind him doing the light taps

    • A little tap on the booty is something I could do with a lovely lady. Because I usually would love to be happy when i'm pleasuring a hot woman. Also I would not mind if she used her ass to wake me up from my sleep/nap, because that another thing that turns me on as well.

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  • No mine are for punishment only

    • We hear so much about this and half the people think of this as a sexual fetish because it has everything to do with the hands slapping the booty and some of them think of this as really kinky in their minds. While the other half of people think of this as a punishment from doing something really bad, and they would have bad flashbacks about it too.

  • Turn on. If your not sure just give her a light smack, if she doesn't say anything do it again a bit harder and so on.

    • I would be sure to do that only if she wants her ass to get the spankings in a more pleasurable & sexual way. Other than that, I would be more than willing to grand her wishes.

  • YES it really is. A lot of people don't realise when you slap the ass standing up is not the same as bent over. When the girl is bent over the slap is sexually pleasureable and does cause sensation beyond just a normal ass grab

    • Thanks for your opinion. My reason of asking this is because a few ladies love it & some don't. I just don't which is the right path. Another thing to say is that some guys are brave enough to touch a woman's ass & her enjoying it, for me I'm not sure if I could do that to a woman. Because I'm a rookie at touching butts, but the other guys are professionals. How do I gain the confidence to make any woman happy in this kind of way?

  • Huge turn on. I like the sting a spank leaves. Its very erotic and it definitely gets me wet.

    • I'm glad to hear that from you. Because I do wish that I could have an opportunity to do this to a very special woman, but I'm new to this thing & never touched a woman's ass before in my life. I hope that one day I would be just as brave & outgoing like every other guy. However, I'm happy that you find the spanking thing really sexy & pleasurable because the more a woman gets turn on I get turned on as well.

    • If I don't leave his or her house the next morning without a hand print I'm disappointed

    • My Oh My. I'm glad that this spanking thing gives you happiness. Because when a woman feels happy then I'm happy too. It would also be my pleasure to give any woman a great spank on the ass. As long as her ass is big enough for it I would most definitely go for it. Then again, I'm really glad that you find this really exciting, because almost every other woman has the same thoughts about spankings too.

  • It turns me on

    • I'm so happy to hear that. Because the more a female is turned on with this, the more I get turn on because me pleasing her booty. I would be more than will to give a woman a spanking only if she up for it & is willing to moon my face with her ass before I get started.

    • I like having my ass grabbed as well that turns me on as well

    • Now, that's another thing that really turns me on as well but the thing is that I'm a newbie with the ass grabbing thing because I've never done it before. Many guys are brave with creeping up on the lovely ladies & grabbing their asses randomly. Even though I'm an assman, just to scared to do the ass grabbing because of how the ladies would react toward those mysterious type of guys. So I just look at the butts & try my best to not make any strange moves that would easily push the ladies buttons.

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  • Yea the sting feels good and turns me on

    • That's good to hear. I've hear stories about women both loving & hating this, but it's still a pleasuring thing. I wish I could have my way with a woman & give that ass a great spank for fun, if it's possible.

    • do you like belts and paddles

    • @Jamieboo23 I've never used any of those things on a woman before in my life, but if I had to choose then I would go for the paddles.

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