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How do I except my boyfriend's foot fetish?

My boyfriend has the strangest foot fetish and I don't know how to handle it. I've known about his fetish since we first got together and honestly thought I could be ok with it. Coming to find out, as every day goes by, it bothers me more and more. I've done my best to do my part when it comes to his fetish and being his girlfriend such as take sexy pics of my feet, do what he likes with my feet in and out of the bedroom and it ALWAYS turns him on... I'm ok with all of that but he is always (and when I say always I mean every day, at work, while he is driving, when he is with me, ALWAYS) on his phone youtubing other girls feet, downloading pics to look at, watching videos, checking out EVER girl he sees feet and I can't handle it. We live together and I love him very much and I've done everything to try to be ok with this but it hurts my feelings when he is always checking out everyone else too and all the searching online. I want to be with him and I love to indulge him with my feet but am I wrong to feel the way I do about him checking out everyone else too? What do I do? O
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  • I've had a foot fetish for most of my life so I can relate to what's going on here. It's awesome that he's fascinated by your feet and wants to enjoy them, but if you're his girlfriend, then he needs to tune out all the other girls' feet and focus on yours ONLY. I can empathize with you about the jealousy you must feel when you see him checking out other girls' feet and the same on Youtube and videos. This isn't right and it's unfair to you. For a single guy not in a relationship, this might not be a problem. But if he's in a relationship with a girl, he needs to exercise some self restraint and self discipline to choose not to look at other girls' feet but instead to fixate on yours alone. Now if he makes a serious effort to not look at other girls' feet or videos, and you know he's going to give you 100% of his attention instead, and he'll want to enjoy your feet a lot, can you handle this? Are you comfortable with this? Even if it seems like he's obsessed? It would take the jealousy out of the picture for you, but then there would still be the expectation or pressure that he'd need to get all of his satisfaction from you alone. That would probably involve seeing you wear certain shoes and flip flops, taking off your shoes, smelling your feet, sucking your toes, footjobs, giving you pedicures, painting your toes, etc. These are all typical things that foot fetish guys like. Some girls can never be comfortable with these activities. Other girls are able to see how much her boyfriend gets turned on by her feet and she'll respond by fulfilling his fantasies, whatever they are, and being 100% comfortable with giving him the pleasure that he likes. When a relationship is like this with a foot fetish guy, then his attention checking out other girls' feet will probably drop way off since he's found a girl who wants to drive him as crazy as he can handle. Is there any chance of your relationship ever being like this? If not, then you two have a major compatibility issue. If he's seeking a girl who wants to captivate him 100%, but you're uncomfortable with fulfilling his desires and fantasies 100%, then your long term goals are not very promising. And I'm not saying that you should be 100% comfortable. Will his fetish ever go away? Probably not. He'll have it the rest of his life, just like I have mine. But it can be an awesome thing in a relationship with a girlfriend as I have found. It just takes both the girl and the guy embracing it, and that special chemistry has to be there.

  • hahahha... i'm a foot fetishist as well... XD

    anyway... since he's with u 2gether... i don't approve that he stares other gals' feet in front of u... no good 8)

    • I agree and I've told him. numerous times that it hurts my feelings when he does, he apologizes for it, says he won't do it again then turns around and doesn't. Now it's to the point where I get so upset about it then we end up in a fight.

Most Helpful Girls

  • hi, i think he needs telling just how lucky he is to have a girl who is open in a loving way to be involved and support his attractions and desires... on the basis that other shit stops when he is alone... maybe you could suggest you both once a week look together for ideas? or looks he likes etc but he needs to know that he is jeopardising his future with you and like i said he is lucky to have you bearing in mind his preferences...

  • If you're not comfortable with it, just tell him.

    • I have and he won't stop. He always apologizes but turns around and does it again.

    • Its a challenge that is true I have a foot fetish and my whole life I have done what u say he does. Its a instinct to look u do it with out thinking about it. However i agree he should try really to over come it if he truly cares about u. Truthfully Its like walking out side and all the girls have there breasts out and ur telling him not to look i know that can be hard to comprehend being as u dont feel the same way about feet as he does. Like every man was walking around with their erection sticking out of their fly and ur not suppose to look.

    • However if I was ur man and u were willing to embrace my foot fetish I think don't quote me I am only humane and to error is human... I think I'll say I'm 90℅ positive I could be satisfied with painting ur toes just smelling ur sneakers n sock only using ur socks or have u take off one of ur sneakers to smell and peeling ur sock off to slip over my cock and jack me off with, just licking ur feet, sucking on ur toes, rubbing ur feet with both my hands and penis, fucking the soles of only ur feet, kissing just ur feet and have u use ur feet to cock trample me under and never any other girls for the rest of my life. How ever looking at other girls feet would be a major challenge I won't lie n say it wouldn't be but I would sincerely try as hard as I could not to look down until I got home to ur sexy feet simply because a girl like u is not easy to come by. I wish i could find a girl like u for me whom embraces my foot fetish for me. I hope u work it out if not look me up baby girl k👣😉

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  • Sounds like it's getting out of hand. Talk to him about it. People should be open to each others fetishes I think, but his behavior, well... He's an addict lol.

  • Well what is really sounds like is how so I deal with my boyfriend watching porn always while I am around or not. And I have never never known a girl to be cool with that so lay down the law because he is disrespecting you. And why I say porn is because to him it is just like I like to see pussy to get off he likes to see feet

    • I agree with you. But if I keep nagging him about it the more mad he gets. I don't want to lose him but I really don't see it stopping.

    • Nope probably not sounds like it is time for last resort and tell him stop or I am gone. "She gone" !! And if he dose not leave loose himbir not there is a better man you there that won't disrespect you to watch porn in front of you knowing you don't like it.

  • Tell him to see a psychologist!

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