My boyfriend said my boobs are saggy!!! :(?

[Anonymous]

Ok. So i was taking a shower with my boyfriend. And i was telling him how my boobs looked and felt bigger. He agreed. He then perked up my boobs and said, " You dont want your boobs like this? " I said no. He then sqid why not? You want them saggy..." He said it with a smile but it really insulted me and made me insecure. I have never disliked my boobs , i always liked the way they looked. But that just made me look at them differently. :( i told him that was an insult, and he saod sorry... but i always feel like he's trying to compare me :( and he watches porn a lot... and i know he sees all the girls on there with big boobs and shit... all fake... and plastic... but still. It really hurt me. Why would you say that to someone, le alone your girlfriend? :((( im sad... and im not talking to him right now. What should i do or say? And do you think i exaggerated? :(

[Ozanne]

Oh dear. Guys, let this be a lesson to you all: Do not make comments like this about your girl's boobs, tummy, ass, pussy - or anything that she can't control or would be dangerous or costly to do so. It's just not right. If you want to think it, go ahead and think it, but the second you open your mouth you cannot unsay things and she won't unhear it in her head anymore.

And for the record, natural boobs will sag. If not now, eventually they do, it's just what happens. Being wonderfully natural means they are softer, supple, and are malleable in a guy's hands. Phony boobs in porn, like what this guy is comparing too, and thinking a simple pick-me-up will solve all the problems, is just showing his inexperience with boobs and showing more of his douchebaggery on how to convey what he likes and doesn't like.

The guy should be so lucky he was in the shower with a naked girl at all.

This guy has a LOT of apologizing to do in order to redeem himself and give you all you need to get your reassurance back that you are just fine the way you are, no thanks to having your esteem ripped just because of what he saw in porn. I wish most guys would educate themselves a bit better to learn the difference between real-life women and fake porn women. Just because he might like it doesn't mean it's right to make his woman feel she is not as good enough unless she changes.

[Ozanne]

You could also pull out his dick to give it length and say, "Wouldn't you like it if your dick was *this* long?"

[Asker]

I should've said that! ;/ I mean, he has a small one... but I would never dare to insult him. Because I love him the way he is

[singlebee]

@asker - how small is he?

[singlebee]

I agree with you on the boobs and pussy part but i don't agree with the tummy and the ass part... both this can be toned

[shacodraco]

"The guy should be so lucky he was in the shower with a naked girl at all. " Why does he have to be so lucky to shower with his girlfriend? He probably should have not said that in the shower like that but he has preferences and he was making them known. If you have bigger natural boobs its normal for them to sag anyway.

[Asker]

Yes! He's pretty small I've been with larger. But I've never told him I would lime him to change it or fix it. I always made him sure. I loved it

[Hidden_P]

He was extremely insensitive and it sounds like it's not the first time that he has done it.

Unless you have fake breasts, all breasts have an element of sag. It's gravity. It's natural. It's NORMAL.

It sounds as if he spends a lot of time comparing you to other women and isn't realistic about what a woman looks like. That's not fair on you.

I've been in a relationship like this before. I was constantly being compared and told that I wasn't good enough. I'm not in that relationship anymore and I'm in a totally opposite one and I am honestly so much happier. I can only say to you, please, please, please leave this man. If he wants a Barbie (or a Ken..), let him go find one. But you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who will appreciate you.

[Anonymous]

To be honest, this is the kind of comment that left me single for a long time...
Ironically, people who aren't so good-looking sometimes are the first ones to drag other people down... to bring them to their level. So they don't feel bad about themselves and can control you, I suppose.
Instead of being grateful he's with you, he demeans you. It's not making you any happier, so better think carefully if you wanna lose your time and share your body (which he apparently doesn't know how to appreciate) with him.

[AustinMan]

He had a brain fart. We all do sometimes. The important thing is that, as far as I can tell from your account, there was no malice in it. I suggest you sit him down and tell him how much it hurt you and how it eroded your self image. Make him promise he won't do it again. He will, of course, but that's just people. If you can't forgive him, and I'd sort of understand that (though you are much more than your boobs), dump him.

[KidanisCortes]

your boyfriend seems like an ass, not gonna lie my exes boobs were really saggy and full of strech mark but guess what? I didn't care and I never said anythin about it She was really hot regardless tho. Dont let this ignorant guy make you feel bad about yourself. I bet you that they are not even that bad

[Asker]

Yeah. I'm better looking than him. I'll be honest. But I never never put him down. There was a time when he pointed at my boobs... and said..."Eww, look, you have stretch marks" ... :(

[KidanisCortes]

you need a new boyfriend may i suggest , me? lol all jokes aside ust tell him his penis is small even if its a lie that will get him

[DDouble04]

Tell him "Your Dick is small but you don't see me complaining"😘

[oriondude]

@ddouble04... that's real mature. Typical female dig. I hope this guy has a big ol' dick hanging down so she can't say this.

[DDouble04]

So him making a comment about her boobs isn't a typical guy dig? Yeah ok.

[Jj2016]

@ddouble04 I've followed you can u return the favor :) xx

[AmandaLynn1930]

aww... what a weenie!!!
boobs sag, it's called gravity...

[Eiffelgirl21]

he really just needs to grow up. I am so sorry this happens to you :( you want to chat? if you need to talk message me. I have been there x

[chercheur]

What a bloody asshole thing to say! You absolutely let him know what he said hurt you and if he doesn't get that time for a new boyfriend. Don't put up with that keeps nod of stuff. It was an inconsiderate remark and he needs to know it's unacceptable!

[chercheur]

And yes you have every right to feel hurt by that rude comment.

[chercheur]

*kind of ( not nod of )

[ButtHoleSandwich]

All boobs sag at some point and yes small ones do too. Who cares what he thinks. Be proud of them dear!

[helloeveryone123213]

Don't listen to someone if they say anything bad about your boobs. I am sure they look great! Anyone who says other wise is probably just a dick (and their dick is probably ugly). After someone says something bad about you when you are in the shower stick up for yourself and say "Whell ur penis looks ever worse and slap it!" Your boyfriend should be thrilled he got to shower with a girl that was naked!

[Klaatu51]

he's an ass then... he lacks manners :-/

y still with him?

[Mesonfielde]

He wasn't intending to put you down, though. He probably just didn't want you to be like the image he conjured up in his head at that moment as he thought of elderly women with gigantic saggy boobs.

[CHARismatic110]

Well that probably was a mood killer. But all boobs sag at some point. Tell him you were offended and that you like them just the way they are.

[AshBrown]

He is as shallow as can be. Dont give a hoot about what he said. It is GRAVITY. If he had boobs, they would also naturally pressure downwards. If they dont, it is either at very young age, or they are not big enough or they are NOT REAL.

[oldanddecrepid]

Wow really inconsiderate... perhaps you should have said... well I was hoping you were a better lover! I guess we all have our faults.

[muspelhem_5]

He sounds dumb and he has bad taste in bodies.

[dudeman]

Have u had kids. Girs with kids have shitty boobs if they have them. Skinny bitches get a pass because they got no tities to begin with.

[Jxpxtxr]

I am skinny and I have a C-cup lol bye

[dudeman]

Sounds awesome.

[RationalMale]

I'm gonna wager a guess that his sort of attitude like that is what helped you two end up taking a shower together, lol.

[Asker]

No, we've tooken showers before together Lol. And when we did the first time (take a shower), it wasn't in a cocky, douchebagy way. he was actually very sweet.

[Asker]

And after this doucbebagey comment of his, I defenitely kicked him out of the shower

[Nathand]

females feel bad over the most silly things... grow some ballz.

[Asker]

So if your girlfriend, said , during foreplay, " "Ewww, you have a small dick. Wouldn't you like it too be this size? " You'd be OK?

[Nathand]

well mine isn't small and i know that. So her words wouldn't harm me.

[anonymous010101]

why r u said.. i like boobs like that... as long as they're boobs im happy

[Cowboy6666]

Conparison is dangerous..!

[MrDetermined]

Lol, this is epic.

[kittyd7015]

if someone sed sumtin bad bout my boobs i would dump them xxx

[chrissyboo23]

My boobs are saggy but mainly cause they are DD's! Haha. I think its just because your getting bigger boobs and he doesn't realize it.. Dumb ass guys will be dumb ass guys. Haha.. He needs to learn about anatomy.