Guys, do you like it when you rub a girls underwear while you make out and she's wet?

[Anonymous]

here's the details: I've been seeing this guy the last few weeks and we have had sleepovers but we have just made out and had cuddles and I've said I dont wanna have sex just yet. He has said he is happy to take it slow and that Im the boss. Last night I stayed at his place and the make out got a bit intense I was just in my underwear and a t shirt and he was on the top making out with me he then slid his hand onto my undies and rubbed his fingers against them. He increased the pace as the kiss got more intense. I didn't realsie how wet I was but he kept stroking my underwear then stopped after a bit. We continued to make out afterwards though. Also a thing I noticed was that he would smell his finger after. Is this bad? Did he stop rubbing because I was too wet? I wouldn't have done anything to wreck it would I? I'm having a freak out because I'm new to this stuff and I really like this guy and I don't want to wreck it with him. PLEASE HELP!!!

[Quixoticlove]

poor girl, dont be silly, it smells better to him that you can imagine yeah he smelled it he might not wash that hand for a while. he stopped because he's a good guy. you made yourself the boss. you didn't take your underwear off. if you're not going to take the lead let him do it tell him i want you you're the boss now do what you want ill stop you if i dont like it. i bit of advice always use this if you need to stop him teach it to him and every guy you sleep with it will help keep you safe. Just learn to use these words Mercy = slow down (less intense /hard) but don't stop. yellow = stop just to check in for a second and calm down. red = everybody stops everything and gets dressed it's done. By the way too wet is impossible its like "too good" ok? I have to wash my sheets almost every night and i love it.

[Anonymous]

Title question: I like it a lot. The wetter she gets, the more I can feel her treasure behind them.
"He kept stroking my underwear then stopped after a bit." Maybe he didn't want to go too far.
"Also a thing I noticed was that he would smell his finger after. Is this bad?" No, we love the fragrance. Maybe he was getting "inspiration" for making out
"Did he stop rubbing because I was too wet?' No such thing in a hand play setting.

I think he didn't want to take advantage of your arousal and go too far. I''m not sure anything could have prevented me from dipping my fingers into your V unless you said no.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Never thought to try that, actually. Kissing her and stroking her hair through my fingers, or holding her arms in my hands, seem to preoccupy me more. Love first, sex later (if ever.) Other than fingering her, receiving oral one time from my ex in the shower is about the weirdest sex thing I've ever tried. Or been all that eager to try.

[TheBootyChest]

It could be that he is into the feel of your underwear. It could be that he likes the feeling of you getting wet. But on the off chance it could be the smell. But I don't know for sure. Is it possible that he didn't want to "finish" because you said no sex?

[TJM27]

No that's a turn on because it means she's as into it as I am

[Consultant]

tl;dr but Yes!

[countrydude]

He stopped because he was just as aroused as you were. Or more.

[Skadouchebag]

Let me put it like this. So long as it's not from urine, it's ALWAYS awesome when a girl's wet!

[Tarvold]

It's not bad. It's a good thing. A VERY good thing.

[tazman2908]

yes i love wet panties

[DaveyBaby107]

Yes we do love that. No it isn't weird he smelled it. Vaginas have their own smell and if he's used to the smell it can trigger sensations.

[convo_king89]

sounds like fun