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Why does he spread my p###y and as#? And how do I ask for rimming?

I usually date guys my age but I recently started dating a man 13 years my senior. He is amazing in bed and the first guy to have given me orgasms. Whenever he goes down on me or we do 69, he spreads my p###y and as# real wide as he's licking my pussy. He licked my asshole for a second in the dark during 69 and I liked it a lot but I don't know whether he did it by accident... I want him to rim me but I don't know how to ask incase he thinks i'm gross. Why does he spread me open and look as he eats me? I'm not complaining, it turns me on... just curious as to why a guy wants to see me opened up?
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O. k. so I had a bath then asked him to lick everything. .. he did... he licked my ass once, I moaned so he knew that i liked it but he went straight back to my pussy. So I lifted my ass and he licked it once more yet moved back to my pussy and never went there again :(
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well cuz it's hot. 2nd as far as the rim just ask for it. He prolly stopped cuz he didn't get a reaction. One time I was eating out my he and she bucked her hips a little high and I licked her ass. I figured that's what she wanted so I kept at it. She asked if I knew what I was licking. I said yeah, asked if she wanted me to stop. She replied... are you dumb? So I kept going for it. And that was the first time in my life that a woman took my dick and stuffed it in her ass. She Looked me dead in the eye and said "you got me hot". You gotta lick it before you stick it. So tell him, tell him in the heat of it. If he spreads your ass n pussy wide open he's probably down for whatever.

  • If he loves to spread you open, and he got you twice, it wasn't an accident, We older men know where we are down there... tell him that while he was doing you, that when he touched you anus with his tongue that your really liked it. he's NOT going to think your weird.. or you can touch and caress his rosebud the next time you 69.. I bet he returns the favor...

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's a fetish, my boyfriend does that to me all the time, it's somehow empowering to them that we let them look at our most intimate/ sensitive areas. Just make him a deal that he can look at your vagina anyway he wants if he agrees to Rim you. Done :)

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  • When he goes there again verbally say you like it and want it xP believe me you will have the time of your life xP tell us how it went xP

  • he opens so he can get in

  • Because it turns him on to see you spread. I'm into rimming too. All you can do is tell him you like it and assure him its clean like freshly bathed and be ready to return the favor

  • Okay if he is 69 with you and spreading your ass open chansas are he's an ass man! And us ass men love to warship sniff, lick ass and have our faces sat on! Just ask him to lick it. Or when your sitting on his face move your asshole on top of his mouth he'll get the messag real quick. Happy sitting 😜

  • He did not rimmed you by accident, it was like a 5 second sample if you like rimming.

  • Hell if I were him I would love to I have been wanting so bad to do that for over a week now I am so fucking hungry for it!

  • Because it's a vagina.

  • Most guys would lick anything you want.. so go for it.. lol

  • He might nt be into it like some guys are

  • Honestly, he's just got a fetish.

  • Would love eating the ass too... It's good stuff

  • Sit on his face grinding your pussy into his tongue then gradually move so your ass is on his tongue. He will get the idea of what you want

  • Well, just ask, remember communication always the key. If you can't talk about it, what is the point? Good luck :)

  • Because mostly girls like it

  • you are that much into ass rimming huh?

  • It just turns him on. I don't know why but it turns me on too. I always do that when I eat out my girlfriend

  • guys love that stuff. just ask.

    • Whipped cream to the a hole? Then he can't ignore it.

  • I love to rim my gf! just wax/shave and be ready!

  • Because it's hot to look at. Also I can tell you he did not do that by accident :)

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