Guys, My first time giving a blowjob: Did he cum quick?

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My boyfriend (who took my virginity) and I had sex for the second time together. He ate me out and then we did 69 for maybe just a minute and then he asked me to just give him a bj (it was my first time giving a blowjob). So I did and while I was giving him a bj he said I was good for it being my first time and he was starting to moan and kept saying "yeah" and he held my hair and only after like two minutes he came (he warned me) and it was kind of a lot. If he came that fast does that mean I did a good job? I expected it to take longer. He was still hard after he came though and we had sex and I could tell he was enjoying it. I thought that not many guys could cum and stay rock hard? Also he kept checking his condom in the bathroom because he was saying that it felt like there was a hole in it but he thinks it's because I was so wet and whenever I would go on top of him he would say that I was dripping... I'm kind of embarrassed about getting that wet, or do you think he likes that? Thank you!

godfatherfan · Accepted Answer

i am curious as to why it is "he took my virginity" and not "I gave him my virginity"?
how long it takes to cum has a few factors. 1) the guy, 2) how long it has been since he last had sex, 3) his age is a big factor, 4) condoms or none, 5) how turned on he is.
Young guys have very fast refractory times. So they time from cuming to getting hard again can sometimes be either very short, or instant. Usually when a guy cums he looses his erection at least for a short time. but it is not unheard of to be able to get right back into it. Enjoy it now because as guys get older that shit doesn't happen anymore lol...
Your both really inexperienced so time will be quick. it gets longer.
the average time for a male to orgasm is 7 min. but all those factors I listed can make that vary a lot.

aadigeog · Accepted Answer

Well, two minutes is little early but I think he must have been aroused enough before you started giving him a blowjob. Since it was his first time, I think two minutes is pretty okay timing. As far condom is concerned, they do tear during intercourse, more so among those who are doing it for the first time. Getting wet is okay. Female body does produce lubrication during intercourse.

Jim_F · Answer

Keep a diary of what you guys do and fill the pages with stuff like that and the title could be, "What to do Right in the Bedroom"

JSmith925 · Answer

It sounds like all went well. I have been with women who got dripping wet and I loved it.

Dionysos · Answer

If I got a bj that made me cum in 2 minutes, I'd be in love. Seriously.

Remonster · Answer

He's pretty new to blowjobs too, right? Then it's really no wonder he did.

Klaatu51 · Answer

hahahha last time, i was still ahrd after cumming (not coz of BJ) anyway... most guys cum quick actually... no more than 5' :-)

Michael-in-SC · Answer

I doubt his speed of climax had much to do with your performance. You either got him there or you didn't. The speed was his issue. If he hadn't cum for a while before that (which sounds so be the case) then that could explain the speed and volume. And at your ages, I could cum and stay hard for an all afternoon session. And no need at all for embarrassment. A man wears a woman's wetness as a badge of honor. Remember, you seem to be taking pride in making fluids come out of him, right?

mumborico · Answer

Getting very wet is nothing to be embarrased about, its a sign of enjoyment.

MrPresident · Answer

Im i the only one who got a bonner after reading this?
Ok sorry i have a good imagination (dirty).
I thick u did it right.
Most of us cum pretty easily, we are not pornstars expecialy if we are young.
With the years comes (pun) the experience.

purposefullchild · Answer

That means you were good at what you were doing.

Nathand · Answer

iunno i wasn't there.  And i hope i wasn't.

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