Girls, Would girlfriend be weirded out if I asked her to edge/cum control me?

Question

I have seen it in a couple adult videos online where a girl has this hot sense of "control" over the man's cum. I think it is hot as hell when a girl keeps getting a guy close to cumming--or even making the guy get himself close while she makes out with him, and then stopping or "not letting him cum", followed by more rounds of this "torture" before letting the man finally earn it whether it be from her finishing him by riding him, sucking, jerking, etc.. I have read stories of women making men do this for days even before earning the orgasm, and it sounds so hot for the girl to have this kind of sexual control. I want my girlfriend of 3 years to do this to me, but kind of nervous she might think its weird or think its unattractive that a guy would want to be so "powerless" to her or something? Should I go for it? How should I  bring it up? What would you say? Any other advice?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly she may love it. It's one of those situations where you won't know it til you try it. You just have to be upfront and explain that you want it from a sexual point. If you've been together that long you will be fine. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years and I introduce new things to the bedroom all the time. It is very sexy for both people. You on the other hand need to make sure to vocalize with her as she's going. Let her know when you are close so she knows what your dick feels like when you're close. She will become fine tuned to your dick likes and she'll like it if you let her know along the way. Stay positive and reassuring. Best wishes!

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Go for it! There's nothing weird about such a request.
My boyfriend never asked me to do it, but after I started giving him head right before sex or mid-session, I found that I quite enjoyed having when he cums almost literally in my hands. That I could make him squirm for however long I wished till I decided to let him finish.

Always in good fun though. Bonus being that it would turn me on even more as well, upping the intensity of the session as a whole. You've been with your girl for three years, just ask!

LaBellaNena408 · Answer

When I fuck my boyfriend I always have to edge him with a bj or else he will take forever to cum

Skittles90 · Answer

I would totally try that!  If she loves you, she will want to please you, not judge you like that

pajkoska · Answer

that sounds awesome! she has been with you for three years so i'm sure she will at least consider this for you! it is worth a shot! you guys should be sexually open with each other =]

Bigclit · Answer

Oh my boyfriend and i do that. . . well he didn't want to cum just yet so i have to stop or get off of him or he'll cum. For me it's not about power i do cause he ask me to , i would of been fine if he said didn't want to stop. If it bothers you or you don't like it let her know. After sex just ask her does she like to control when you cum... the best move is just being blunt about it

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's not weird. Sounds fun. And I think it would help train you to last longer (which I'm not suggesting is a problem for you, but longer is always better.)