My boyfriend had sex with our coworker while we were broken up. Plus, he had a crush on a different coworker while we were together. Should I be mad?

[bl33pb00p3]

We've been dating 2.5 years. I wanted to break up with him because he never wanted to go out on dates or even for walks. We were broken up 2 months. After a month he told me he liked a girl we worked with & that's why he wanted to break up. She wasn't interested in him because she has a boyfriend. We agreed to try to be in a relationship again & then he told me he had sex with another girl we worked with one time, while we were broken up. I had sex with someone else once. They don't know each other & will most likely never meet. I never worried about him cheating or lying before now. He's not the player type. I don't know if I should be mad or let it go because we were broken up. Plus can I trust him not to fall for someone else?

[anonbunny]

So you don't trust your boyfriend because he had sex with someone while you were broken up for two months, but you also had sex with someone during the same time? Makes perfect sense...

Not.
You were broken up, unless you were still seeing each other and intimate together and talked about getting back together, you have no reason to not trust him. Especially considering the fact that you are in his same position by also sleeping with someone. But because he doesn't know who you slept with, that makes it okay for you right?

[bl33pb00p3]

He does know. Idiot.

[anonbunny]

I'm the idiot.. Lol ok You just said in your question that your boyfriend doesn't know the guy you slept with and will never meet the guy you slept with. Lol anyways, you're not in the right for not trusting him when you also did the exact same thing he did. Just because he slept with your coworker doesn't make it worse or better, he slept with someone while you were broken up, and you also slept with someone while you were broken up.

[purple6person]

It seems like you think you know every detail of the posters love life

[anonbunny]

Nope, just going by what you said in your post. Lol

[Stacyzee]

Both of you had sex with other people...

I'm not seeing exactly what the problem is.

You both weren't even together so no act of betrayal was done.

[Klaatu51]

if u were broken-up... no it's pointless 2 be mad :)

unless he did, when u were together ;)

[bl33pb00p3]

He fell for the other girl when we were together

[Octavion]

How can you be mad at him if you did the exact same thing?

[bl33pb00p3]

Because I See this girl everyday

[k8ster]

Both of you should just get new jobs ;)

[emerald77]

technically he wasn't cheating.

[Anonymous]

That's not heating you were broken up which means you have no right to be mad.