Girls, my boyfriend is obsessed with cunilingus- on me. Should I be worried? Should I tell him to stop?

[Anonymous]

Ok so for the last 6 weeks (apart from 7 days on period my boyfriend has eaten my pussy at least once a day. Sometimes 3x! I should be happy right? Well it's became an obsession and I am wondering if he needs to cut back but I'm afraid to hurt his feelings. Why have I let it go on for so long? Well my previous 4 boyfriends didn't "do" oral on a girl. I've been with my current partner for about 13-14 months now. At first he would give me oral about twice a week which was great. I've never been licked out off anyone elsebut all ican say is he makes me cum and it feels good. So on our 1 year anniversary he forgot about it (men!) he was so apologetic I forgive him so feeling naughty I said you can either buy me that expensive watch I want or eat my pussy every day for a week. Neither of us have a lot of cash but I hought what the heck lol. However he basically went down on me right there and then. It felt spontaneous and nice and of course I had a lovely orgasm. The next day I woke up on a wave of ecstasy his head between my legs lapping me up. This went on for the whole week and I loved it. I think I didn't help the problem by starting to send crotch shot photos to him which got more explicit as the week went on. Anyway 5 weeks later he's still at it. He says he enjoys making me happy and I do like it but sometimes I'm not in the mood or I'm tired. I managed to take his urge away my sucking him off once or twice which made him want to sleep instead. But otherwise it's been 1-2 times a day 3 times on a weekend. It feels really nice but this isn't healthy right? I think I've started a fetish in him! Last week I came home from the gym still sweating he pulled my yoga pants and thong down. I felt icky and it even smelt a bit musky down there but he still licked me out for half an hour! I felt too self conscious at first but after a bit I relaxed and came anyway. I felt dirty but it felt amazing! Would you ask him to stop? Or am I mad for complaining?

[MaryLouMC]

I voted as B because it's the least extreme of them all, talk to him, if you're not into it happening errday you need to make it clear, when you're both in the mood go for it, but if you're not feeling it or he's doing it just because he feels like he 'has to' that's kind of wrong. So, sit down and have a talk, compromise as needed. Sex is about that happiness and satisfaction.

[Anonymous]

Have a talk with him. Come to an agreement that he will go down on you whenever you ask him to do so. Then begin asking him to do so every day. Slowly reduce how often you ask him to do so until it matches the frequency with which you actually need him to do so.

[Asker]

"come to an agreement that he will go down on you whenever you ask him to do so" You know what he's been doing it that often it never even dawned on me I am in control of when I want to have an orgasm from oral sex. How many women can get head on demand? I am very lucky lol. He tried to eat me this morning but I said no not now- tonight hen I come home from work. He kept asking if I was sure and I said yeah. I had a shower as usual then went to work. It's the first day in God knows how long I haven't been eaten out before I left for work. A little bit of me is disappointed lol.

[hannnah]

I would if I had a boyfriend who did that to me

[Asker]

You would what hun? You don't get any oral? At all?

[hannnah]

Well I don't see any one atm.

[Anonymous]

So whiny and spoiled. You should be appreciative that your boyfriend loves to eat you out. I’ve never had a boyfriend and I’ve always wanted one and I may never find someone that will ever go down on me, much less everyday.

[Anonymous]

It's too obsessive.