Muslim men who have had sex before like the first time with your wife if you realy dont mind can you tell me how to make it less awkward and shy time?

[Anonymous]

Hello muslim men im a virgin and have never had any sort of relationship i am a good muslim women who has waited till marrige to have any relations with an a Opposite gender including dating. My parents found a good man who i had met a couple of times with my mahram and i agreed to get married however in the situation i am very shy and therefore can't speek about this to anyone if any muslim men wouldent mind telling me of how things go down as i have no clue what so ever and dont want to make it more awkward and embarrasing moments jazakallah kahir brothers

[hmyn5]

Sister, First of all you dont have to ask like this.
You're a muslim woman and i understand you're shy but i think you must not be that much shy to share this problem to your female married relative and ask them how they overcome this thing instead posting about your sexual problems. HAYA is the most precious asset of a muslim woman which makes her distinguish like pearl. please sister think about it.
Secondly, After marriage, it is a very noble action which make couple close to each other, you're completely free to do whatever you want to do with your companion within the boundries told by the islam, and it make ALLAH happy, so sister feel, try to feel this blessing, try to feel your husbands pleasure, try to envolve as much as you can because it never annoys woman envolvement with a man. it will always be the souce of happiness to your husban, within prescribed boundries tries to think he is mine and i will do whatever i want, i will make him fly in the sky. please understand you HAYA and feel this blessing. thankyou

[wolfe88061]

While I think it is crazy to wait till marriage or even married some one you berley know what you just said is very good advice

[hmyn5]

It's not a big deal, when two families decides mutually to tie their kids in relationship by satisfying with each other families, then ALLAH makes their relationship blessing for them, at least this is our believe. And stats has been showing that muslims experienced much more stable and long lasting marriages because they have to make their partner happy and relaxed in order to face ALLAH on the day of judgement and to get succeed. So thats why they betray their partners and this make a complete and perfect scenario for marriage life of muslims. which eventually results in successful and long lasting love.

[hmyn5]

they dont betray**

[Blondiee2014]

That sounds awfully forced lol. I'm glad I'm Not Muslim 🙈

[hmyn5]

absolutely with couple interest to marry with each other. awful but successful.

[jacquesvol]

It's not only about your husbands pleasure, a good husband should care first about his wife's pleasure

[hmyn5]

and how it is not about wife's pleasure?

[Veebee]

First thing first, am not a Muslim. But I will try answering your query - I respect your wish to remain a virgin and give it away to the person with whom you intend to spend rest of your life. I have Muslim friends, but none of them are shy talking about sex, but yes girls are inhibited. So, my advice - You don't have to announce it to the world, sex is one way two people connect. For me, a mental connection, understanding, care and share matter a lot. As for the experience itself from a woman's point of view - am least qualified to answer that

[Klaatu51]

so u want the guy u'll marry 2 b muslim exclusively?

[jacquesvol]

I'm not a Muslim.
The best advice I can give is "Don't do it on the wedding night". Let it happen a few days later, when you're really well used to each other's intimity. And let it happen gradually.

[Saydou]

I am muslim but i am not married yet but in your case it looks like it's an arranged marriage so you dont know him too far, but dont be shy he is one you will be with in your life, be confident.

[Nathand]

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[tayoker]

"Just pretend m a muslim" ... well, i think you should make it first then ask for advices,
they would tell you about their own experiences, you should know yours first...
just try to be fun, and if you can't do that dirty talk, try to change your tone a little. .

[KidanisCortes]

Well first time sex is always awkward and weird for a lot of people don't worry to much... just read some article son the internet there is a lot on that online

[wtfhere]

I'm muslim too but I couldn't understand what exactly you mean.

[Anonymous]

Do you want to know about sex education or intimacy? If so I'll tell you what I know.