Should I let my girlfriend tie me up and tease me If she wants too if I'm a little scared to give up all control?

[Anonymous]

We talked about our sex life and how we can change it up a bit if we wanted to and she said she wants to tie me up and blindfold me for a night while she does what she wants to me. I told her I'll think about it and am kinda nervous letting her do that to be honest cause thats giving up all of control. Should I let her do this and make her do something I want to do as a trade off?

[mollie37]

I like to tie up my partner, blindfold them and gag them if that's what they want. you'll more then likely enjoy it but talk to you girlfriend first and set some rules if there'd anything your unsure about doing

[GunnerGirl]

As long as she's understanding and stops when you tell her to, then I'd say it's okay
it's trust

[Asker]

Well when I hear whatever I think of pinching and lots of other teasing. I need a return chance to do what I want tk her such as maybe try anal cause she is hesitant to try that. Maybe we can trade control.

[GunnerGirl]

How about you two start off small? like no ties One just stays still, and the other gets to do what he/she wants for a certain time. If you move or can't control yourself, the other gets extra time ;)

[Asker]

That's sounds better lol I just don't want to be tied lol unless I know I can trust you.

[GunnerGirl]

haha 'all tied up? Alright let me get my knife..' Anyway, you're not tied up and you may not move, it also gives us this feeling of dominance and you being all helpless and at our mercy ^^ Or she can tie you up, but gently so that you still can get out of it, just gently Just start small!

[John83]

I would go for it. It is actually a lot of fun to get tied-up and let the girl take complete control. Plus, it will give you a chance to have her do something you want her to.

[Asker]

Well that's a deal in would take but i ck about being tied up lol cause I don't want any tickle torture or pinching. If its orgasm denial or teasing I'll be cool but I don't know what to expect.

[guy532]

Lol just do it, she's your girlfriend she's not going to murder you, you wuss

[Asker]

Its still scary lol seriously having no control for 2 hours is something a I'm on the edgle if she let's me do what I want in return I'll consider it more.

[guy532]

you party pooper haha. Life is all about trying new things and having different experiences. I promise you, you'll remember that time your girlfriend tied you up and went to town on you, whether it turns out to be pleasurable or not.

[Asker]

I just don't know if she has pinching, slapping or other forms of physical contact in mind.

[guy532]

*cou (wuss) gh* :P

[Klaatu51]

ok if u r into being tied... i don't see any reason u should refuse :)

[Asker]

Well I don't know if I am lol that's kinda giving up all control lol and I don't like the though of having no control. I want some tradeoff like I can do something she may not find comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Do it it's fun ;)

[Asker]

Well I'll give her control but I don't want to be tied up and blindfolded especially since its my first time trying this lol.