Why is my boyfriend acting distant after getting a blowjob for the first time?

[Anonymous]

I gave my boyfriend of 3 months a blowjob for the first time. It's my first time giving and his first time recieving. He has always been extremely affectionate and always caring about me, not being able to go two minutes without touching me (not necessarily sexually). Things were going good and I really wanted to suck his dick. I have read a lot of articles from men and women about what feels best to men and I just did what felt natural. Afterwards he was sooo sweet and in bliss for a long time after. He kept saying it felt so amazing, a feeling he couldn't describe. He went on and on about how amazing and sexy I am. He thanked me repeatedly and he was really nice all night after that. I really liked it and He definitely did too. But he's always thought cumming in my mouth would be disrespectful. Even worse if I swallow. And I did both. I think it turned him on even more but he seemed so horrified that he came in my mouth. I reassured him that I really loved doing it and he doesn't need to worry about it or worship me like a goddess. The next day though he wasn't as touchy and attached to me. He was still nice but kinda distant. I Tried asking him what was up, but he didn't seem to know what I was referring to. I'm also pretty sure its not just all in my head. Any ideas why he's being distant?

[YachtDance]

Perhaps he's confused because you did something that he thought was "slutty" and also that he really liked "being disrespectful" to you. He needs to know that it was a loving act to be enjoyed by both. It sounds like you've already made that pretty clear. He may need to hear it again.

[akadatank44]

Is he still distant? Maybe something happened during his day and it had nothing to be related to your activities.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty normal.

[SpurtLover]

You poor thing. I feel kinda bad for you that he doesn't appreciate your blowjobs. I mean, when a girl eats your sperm that means she really loves you.

[Born2Suck]

May be he took you for a sllluuutt

[Anonymous]

Perhaps he has lost his respect for you as a person, and given it, instead, to your mouth.