My boyfriend has a small penis, should I dump him?

I get no pleasure from intercourse, he is good at oral and i enjoy that, but his penis about 4.5-5 inches long and i dont get much satisfaction, he was a virgin before he met me...
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  • Do you want to break up with him only because of his small penis? Have you told your friends about his small penis? Do your friends laugh at him when you all are around? Are you embarrassed that you are with him because of his small penis? These are all questions you should ask yourself. Lol it's a good thing I don't have a girlfriend because I would hate to be that poor poor sap that gets made fun by the person I love most and I don't even know about it. What if he doesn't get enough satisfaction and he breaks up with you?

  • Dump him and find someone who can satisfy you. You deserve better.

    • HE deserves someone better.

    • SHE deserves better? lol. this guy tries to please her orally and all. you kid are out of your mind... .

    • Fucking insecure beta males getting mad 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  • You should try to teach him. I have been with a virgin before, I taught him how to use it. We had amazing sex before he unfortunately passed away and left me. Teach the kid. Size should not matter, it's all about quantity, not quality.

    Unless of course you are a shallow heartless bitch, if that is the case, dump him so that he can find the decent woman that he deserves and you the big dicked player that you deserve.

    • Quality not quantity*

  • If you really loved him you wouldn't even contemplate dumping him over that. Save yourself the trouble of being sexually disatisfied and just end it. Whatever you do, don't bring up his size as the reason, it'll bring him down unimaginably.

    • It's ok guys are supposed to be tough, it's better if he just learns how to deal with it like a man...

    • She clearly doesn't love him.

  • IS EVERYTHING ELSE BAD in your relationship TOO? This is less crucial if everything else is AMAZING!

    • Also, for all these jerks giving opinions... fuck it. If he's your fuckbuddy... and he's not satisfying you, that's a problem in itself! What is your relationship?

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  • If sex is important to you then do what you gotta do I guess

  • I would say yes, it is a little unfortunate that it matters that much to you, but since it does, that is your prerogative and you deserve to be happily satisfied. Perhaps you can work together on making him better in bed or satisfying you in other ways, but if it is that much of a problem then yes you should dump him and his small cock.

  • Don't give him that reason or you'll crush him. Just start acting like a bitch and break up with him. Make him hate you. Sorry but if you care about him at all that will do far less damage than telling him you're breaking up with him because of his penis size.

    • And don't try to save face on this either. If you try to be nice about it he'll just continue to wonder what's wrong with him that you'd want to break up with him. If you act like a total bitch he'll eventually come to the conclusion that it was because you were a total bitch and not his fault. It's the only good way to do it.

  • oh dear this is going to break some hearts...

    • I'm already crushed ;(

    • the girl is a sociopath. one has to have many deep rooted issues and insensitivity to act like that. thing is she probably doesn't match with his character in the first place.

    • @fiodor99 I agree 100%

  • Well first try different positions to see if that helps. Is it just the length or is it girth too? Because that's average size and for me girth is more important.

  • That means he just doesn't know how to work it, it's not the size of his penis that's the issue. Even if he had a larger penis he still wouldn't know how. And no, you shouldn't dump him just because you don't like his size. That's terrible.

  • If you get no sexual satisfaction out of the relationship it's not going to last anyways. May as well do it now rather than later, less on the line.

    @Klaatu51 , while the average in the US is 5.16", women don't get out measuring tapes and check. If she says 4.5-5", it's probably one to two inches less.

  • This has to suck.

    • Lol FallenAngel for the win

    • Small pee pee guys are humans too

  • If you don't want him to judge your lady parts on how loose they are then don't judge his penis.

    • Amen

    • That's like comparing apples and oranges because we don't know if she has a loose vagina and if it is she can do kegals. There isn't much he can do for his size but he can improve techniques.

    • It's comparing apples to apples because what if this was a guy complaining about his girlfriend having an innie or an outie vagina? Most people will say "Stop complaining she can't help it", or "Dude, hush at least you're getting pussy", or "You shouldn't break up with her because of that. What about your emotional connection and at least she's pleasuring you in other way." The same thing applies here. He can't help his dick size, but at least he feels an emotional connection and can do/is doing other things to stimulate her cooch. If she has a problem with his technique then she should coach him instead of dump him so he'll know how to pleasure a woman properly.

  • that's ALMOST average ;)

    • "Almost" average is still last place with women, apparently.

    • it is. its been proven 4 inches will saticefy. average womens tits are DDs in the US. just imagine the disapproval men would get if we brought it up like this.

  • I'm 80% sure this is a troll.

    But to answer ir question, in case your serious: Yes, dump him. You aren't satisfied, and i doubt he wants to be with a shallow bitch.

    • And if you DO decide to break up with him, make up some other excuse so you don't destroy his self esteem for life.

  • I wouldn't dump him just for that reason. I guess this also depends on your age and the type of relationship you have with him outside of sex. Maybe the two of you can find alternatives together?

  • It is up to you personal choice maybe with time his technique will improve.

  • If technique can't fix it, then yes you should dump him.

  • Maybe you just have a loose pussy.

    • Yeah b*tch

  • If you want to. It's kind of mean though.

  • Hahahahahaha no judgement, whatever you want to do but i'm still laughing for like minutes straight lol im still laughing

    • what so funny?

    • Just read her post dude lol how is it not hilarious?

    • You seem easily amused lol

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  • yes because seems you're only using him or want him for sex. if you Loved him you would stay with him no matter what size and find other things to help make your sex like a bit more better and spicy.

    • This^

    • Dang why are girls down voting you...

    • maybe because they use men for sex too lol who knows.

  • Well my finger is smaller&skinnyer than your boyfriend dick yet she will get off from that. I think that one he's dose not know how to work it. 2 your not teaching him... So give him a chance to learn. But if he can't hang bounce l...

  • Go ahead. The fact that your relationship is rooted so much in sex that you're even considering breaking up with him over something like this clearly shows that A) You don't love him anyway, and B) that he deserves better than you.

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