Guys, why does my friend always ask to eat me out?

[Anonymous]

Okay there's this guy I have been friends with for almost a year but we've know each other since high school , we are both in our 20s now. We got really close and had sex a few times in the past and he just always loved being around me. We had a good friendship and actually started to really like each other but he wouldn't take it any further since I dated a friend of his in the past and he doesn't wanna look bad I don't know. He recently got a girlfriend maybe 3 months ago , but he always seems to find his way to me. Always wants to take me and always wants to spend time with me yet he has a girlfriend. And he always wants to eat me out and I have been declining since he got a girlfriend, but recently I gave in because I miss him and I still have feelings for him. My question is why does he always want to eat me out even though he has someone else now? I'm so confused because that's all he wants. No sex, nothing in return , he just wants to eat me out.

[HandsomeRaj]

1. There can be various reasons why he wants to eat you out. Anything sexual always has a reason especially oral
2. In this case however, the reason is obvious. He likes you and has strong feelings for you even if it's restricted to sexual (here it sure can be more - not raising your hopes but it's a possibility)
3. The psychology is
3.1. He wants you but can't get you owing to his own decision that you were once his friend's girl
3.2. Even though the friend is no more, that psychology remains strong (& will be for at least a while)
3.3. Eating you out is his way of telling you how intensely he wants you & it's some kind of a indirect way of 'making up for something'
3.4. He will probably want more in due course of time but eating you out probably will continue for a long time

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you complaining. . . or bragging?

This guy sounds like he really wants a relationship with you but he has this internal conflict about your ex. You two would probably be a duo if you moved to another city. Does your ex know anything about your involvement with his friend?

Some guys really love performing oral sex on a girl. I am one of those guys. Maybe by him taking care of your sexual desires, he thinks he will keep alive some hope of eventually having a complete relationship with you. Have you ever offered to reciprocate for him? How does he respond? If I gave a girl a good licking and heard her moaning and cumming, I'd be hornier than a prize bull on stud day at the farm. I can't understand him not wanting to enjoy whatever you offer in return.

[godfatherfan]

I love eating pussy just as much. it is awesome and I don't necessarily need anything in return. but obviously he wants you. Bro code means that if he is good friends with the guy you dated he can't date you. but if it has been a long time since you dated the friend he could just tell him he wants to date you. If he wants you as bad as it seems then he is crazy not to.

[Remonster]

Licking pussy is great, especially when the girl gets really into it when you make her feel good. But not cool that he does that with you while he already has a girlfriend. Maybe you should make it clear that it's not okay, unless you simply don't care.

[nips927]

I can answer this for you, im a guy, i love going down on a woman, i never ask for anything in return, i sometimes do but its really that i ask for anything, and when i do its a bj anyways, he probably loves how you taste every woman taste and smells different, you probably taste better than his girlfriend that's why he does it, he probably wants to date you but it would feel odd since his friend your ex died, how long has it been since the passing?

[TripleDenial]

Looks like he just likes it and he's asshole, acting like this. Do you really need one who does such things behind his gf's back? If he does it once, he will do it again, next time cheating on you. 100%

[Klaatu51]

hejust wants oral sex and nothing more... although not a loyal guy... :/

[Antizzl]

You taste like Pepsi Cola.

[areyaready4this]

Sounds like:
A. He likes you
B. You have a nice looking kitty
C. You have a tasty kitty

[Jamie5225]

all I can think here is that he REALLY loves the taste of your vagina. lol.

[Nathand]

WOW!! and then females complain that they can't find a good man.

[nyleryatt]

why dont you ask him that? you'll get the answer straight from him that than asking us